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Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by tosyne2much(m): 10:52pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
dammysel:Post it. Lala will surely push it to the FP 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by francesawesome(f): 10:52pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni:don't change your good behavior because of anybody. Keep maintaining your good behavior and God will see you true. Trust me your story is very similar to mine 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by LordKO(m): 10:53pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
@OP You have to first accept your shortcoming and address it properly. I mean, even though you asked how you can meet a good girl, but connotation of your message body shows that you don't know how to identify/differentiate quickly a good girl from a bad one. So, I will advise you to try hard to master yourself first and choose your ethical philosophy. I say achieve self-realization first. When you achieved self-realization, you will automatically understand the attributes you admires and expects from your potential lady. Believe you me, when you achieved this feat, it will not take you more than 2 time meeting with any lady to dissect her character, no matter how much she tries to pretend. In fact, the best place to find a lady is on a forum like this, this is strictly for anyone that has thorough insight about connotation - discernment is a mark of intellectual maturity. Meanwhile, experience has shown me that many of you that do individually ascribed "good man" to yourselves are not literally good men. Being servile doesn't make anyone a good person, and no sane and ingenious lady would like to put up with a servile man. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Braveryy(m): 10:54pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Be good yourself 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by kobijacobs(m): 10:54pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
there is no such thing as a 'good girl' or 'good man'. u can turn a girl who misbehaves to the woman u want her to be, just do right by her and pray 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
bayocanny: My brother see me o! Person go fear to give advice again. |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by khristal87(m): 10:56pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Try to mke friends first, mke as many friends as possible, i mean with ladies....tke ur time to gist knw mch abt eachother, u cn filter out most f d ladies based on likes or dislikes u cn choose from any f them n discard the rest or keep them as friends......tnk me later 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by pappisco(m): 10:58pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
alexialin:Op u dont have to search anymore..the good girl u're seraching for is who i'm quoting right now.i wish both of you the good life. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
OP, I op most of ur past r/shps were nt broken all in the name of reading their minds or judging dem by situations surrounding. I knw hw most of us, d introverts, do think. Our thinking or assumption hurts ladies so much. We are nt always right, bro. If u come across another,,,,please do take things so easy on her. Good luck! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by bayocanny: 10:58pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
alexialin:Don't mind her jare 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Skinni(m): 10:59pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
rOsy247:You might be right But the problem is that we have over 150 million Nigerians, with over 70 million men. So there are enough people with similar issues than you might think. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by samuelsontech(m): 11:00pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni: Hmnnn! Brother. You're like a fingerling (young fish) trying to swim on land with creatures having legs and with a dream of becoming a shark. And like an hatchlet (newborn eagle) flocking amongst chickens as friends hoping that you will be taught how to fly. Like a cub (baby lion) learning how to become the king of the jungle from rodents. You seek a healthy courtship, and I can imagine you have a "Christian Religious" background and hence a Christian. As a divine principle, such desire should only be nursed by men who have discovered their divine purpose for existence, else even if the person is 50yrs old, if He gets involved in any intimate relationship with the opposite sex or marriage without clear identification of purpose, such relationships will only become minefields. Simply put, the desire you have if you are qualified at all to desire it at this stage of your irrespective of your age can only be fulfilled in the body of Christ (not church services) and not on nairaland. And it is only possible if you have become a Son of God (not Christian) else you will only attract Christians like yourself and not "Sons/Daughters of God". I strongly believe that you need a change of focus and interests at this point. It is well with you, may be the eye of your understanding be opened. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Slayer2: 11:00pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
alexialin: Na so 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by virus05(m): 11:01pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Vvh |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Humility017(m): 11:02pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
alexialin:you see OP situation perfectly explain what i am going through now... getting a good lady is now an Herculean task... sometimes I wish I could be a bad guy...those are they guys ladies love and crave after.... recently it has been affecting me.....it is frustrating when those you truly love keep taking you for granted... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by MrHelper21(m): 11:04pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
got a package for you bro. 'watch out' |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Rozaytee: 11:04pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
IamAirforce1:@op..dont mind dis one oo...dont change ur self to impress any gal..keep being urself and d right lady who will appreciate u will come |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by rOsy247(f): 11:06pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni: It's not just about any problem but the way u composed your words. It's similar to who I have in mind. I think I know you. Are you from Delta or Edo state? |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Humility017(m): 11:07pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
dammysel:I tell you.....I am just going through same issue in my life presently.... sometimes I ask myself what have I been doing wrong....? still don't understand why people wit good intentions suffer the most 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by toshmann(m): 11:07pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
IamAirforce1: Wise man |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by joelfm(m): 11:08pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Simpsonrocket(m): 11:08pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni:from what Ive already learnt about you bro, i see no reason why you are here asking people for help. Ive read someone advising u to bcome bad. You better don't let people lead u to do wrong. To tell u the truth, the only problem you hav right now is that you've not spent time praying to God to show u ur wife. You better do everything it will take u be it fasting and prayer than spend time looking for mrs perfect. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Slayer2: 11:09pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
IamAirforce1: Lol mumu everything na sense. Be a smooth guy. Know the in and out. Go they do bad guy for some girls. You go just waste your energy. Be like me. A snake. Very subtle. I will slide in through, you won't know when you start loving me.. Would have been better if I could love them back anyway. But Bleep it. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by ashewoboy(m): 11:09pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
alexialin: oya make me hook you up then na. hope say you fine? btw, my instinct dey tell me say you don marry, how true? |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Humility017(m): 11:10pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni:Op @ I will advice you pray about it too but please don't change because of this... I made up my mind sometime ago...if it will demand me becoming a bad guy or compromising my moral stance just to get a woman....I rather remain single and not marry..... so please be strong....it is always darkest before the dawn 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Lexusgs430: 11:12pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Skinni: Do good girls really exist ? Do real guys really exist ? Just take your pick and make do......... We all imperfect one way or another ...... |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by tomdon(m): 11:13pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
IamAirforce1: There's no iota of truth in this! |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by doris4u(f): 11:13pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Good people are hard to find in this generation. Op don't change your personality to meet a good lady, it doesn't work out most times. You need to exercise a lot of patience when you meet a lady,don't expect outright commitment. Some people still suffer from past bad relationships which makes it difficult for them to trust a guy and show commitment. Build friendship first before relationship and you will make the best out of it. Lastly take away sex completely out of your mind until both parties are ready for it, that is if its necessary. A relationship that begins with sex heads to the rocks 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Evablizin: And the good boys attract who? |
Re: How Do I Get To Meet A Good Girl? by tomdon(m): 11:14pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Evablizin: Big lie Who's a good girl?? Like calls unto like 2 Likes |
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