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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Intrepid01(m): 8:42am On Aug 31, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Lol...I cant relate with this well well,,,the kind of guys that will say...."I swear I wont put it in, just let the two of them be looking at each other"....Lol...... Most cases (not all tho!), the reason why a guy and a lady will be best friends without emotions or sexual exploit is if one or both are totally unattracted to each other. Meanwhile I can tell you for a fact that...attraction grows with time, that unattractive lady today will just gradually start appearing attractive little by little due to proximity and familiarity. There is nothing wrong in ladies keeping male friends, but a lady cant have a male guy has her best friend and think nothing will happen. It might take a while but something will eventually happen.....this no be theory o..na from experience. 3 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 8:51am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Intrepid01: Oga, leave that guy with his his so called "education". He thinks the heart and emotion operates on logic and reason. Some think, everything In life is black and white. Intelligence is not by posting list of 10's. This thing is confirmed, a guy and a girl as friends, time is just the only factor that will affection grow. Experience will trounce logic everyday. 4 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 8:55am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Acidosis: Boss, leave them and there so called male friends. People who have seen things are talking, inexperienced fellas are also countering. I will say it again, you only know yourself but cannot estimate how the other person is seeing you and interpreting your actions. You give him an innocent hug everyday, sister, he may think you are leading him on. Fix your issues and get a same sex friend. 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Kenfil(f): 9:01am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Next2Bezee: Sir, they didnt disappear ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Kenfil(f): 9:05am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: What's that ur name again? I replied to the notion people have regarding women with male friends ( they are sleeping with them and all that bullcrap). Please try understanding what u read before commenting.. Even if am d ugliest girl in the room, I no go fit touch u with a 1000 feet pole ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ozy4christ(f): 9:07am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:thanks 4 dat.but 4 having female friends,i will try but its nt easy |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 9:09am On Aug 31, 2017 |
I cannot have a female friend without fvcking her except she is not attractive or older than me 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 9:10am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Kenfil: I can't actually be in a room with the ugliest girl and in this case YOU! to reach me you will need more than a 1000 feet pole, because I am afar off you in miles you cannot measure. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Prec1ous(m): 9:13am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Danielmoore: This is a man talking and not those cock-chopped entity who reek of decayed hypocrisy trying to appear smart and brilliant. Even if the intention was clear at first, if that girl is attractive, something else must crop up. Unless the guy is an eunuch, is castrated or like you said, that girl is an OGRE! 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by pocohantas(f): 9:26am On Aug 31, 2017 |
It works for some people... It doesn't work for others. Not every guy is wired to have sex with every female friend. Some have tried it and it ruined great friendship, so...now they know better. It would work easily if it started on a clear note, not when you convert a guy with romantic feelings to a friend [friendzone]. In all, everything should be done with moderation and caution. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:55am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:56am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:Bro, if i say I'm not feeling you. ![]() Let them come here to act all sanctimonious. ![]() 1 Like
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:58am On Aug 31, 2017 |
imustsaymymindo:I said "hardly" it's like 10%. Why should they stop being nice if they're genuinely nice from the onset? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:01am On Aug 31, 2017 |
leathalbeast:LOL, if the guy also wants the girl, and the girl is stupidly telling her 'bestie'. He'll capitalize on her boyfriend's weakness and do his thing. That's when the girl will realize the Holy spirit is your comforter not male bestie. ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Tori46(f): 11:19am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: I think you're right. When I was in 200L or so I had this friend whom I visited in his hostel and at home because we resided in the same state. We were close and I got to meet his mum. She liked me and she was always around whenever I visited. Fast forward to this fateful day, when I got to his place he was home alone. Immediately I entered, he tried kissing me and I found myself struggling with him. He was more powerful but I succeeded in avoiding the kiss. His mum came back and we acted normal. After that day, I foolishly went to his hostel and his room mate was even around. He tried kissing me again and we had to struggle. After that day I stopped talking to him. He noticed and asked what was wrong and I poured out my heart to him. He apologised and he said, "I was only trying to find out if you like me". I was irritated and I stopped visiting him since then. I've also experienced the same thing with two friends. Since then, I made up my mind not to be too close to guys because I feel they'll try to take advantage of me. Who knows, I may not be lucky the next time. Funny enough, my boyfriend already warned me about having male friends but I didn't listen. Too bad I've not been able to share my experience with him but now I know better. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Horlohlah: 11:21am On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:Preach sister ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:27am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Horlohlah:I hope they listen. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Horlohlah: 11:30am On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:They won't... they will only want to justify themselves and for those saying not all guys wants to get in between a ladies legs...It's not one sided, if you have no intention of sleeping with her, along the line,she is prone to fall in love with you due to all the care and attention you are giving her. 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Kondomatic(m): 11:34am On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:I am not driving at anything. First, you must know what you're speaking against to be able to win your argument. Secondly, anybody reading your comment will think it is only guys that cross best friends boundaries to ask for sex. And finally, that something hasn't happened to you or someone you know does not mean that it doesn't happen anywhere. Best friend doesn't happen only between young boys and girls, I bet it never crossed your mind that a married responsible man can have a close genuine relationship with another married or single woman that doesn't involve sex or talks of sex. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:37am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Horlohlah:Even the stupid boys will come here acting all sanctimonious that they're genuine. Pls goan tell my nephew that one maybe he'll believe. ![]() Exactly! At a point you may even feel indebted to him, you may fall in love and your case is different if your "male bestie" is single. Lola I must create a thread on this ooo. Maybe next week the article will be ready or you no trust me again? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Horlohlah: 11:42am On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:They should come and let me tell them a story of a guy who had a girlfriend but made his female best friend a top priority and he later left the gf for the bff ![]() I trust you ma, issinoh you ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Joel3(m): 11:43am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Tori46:it's because the society has twisted it that if a guy don't make move it's the girl that will call him weak. some guys only learned from past experience. they take a girl as just friends after some time the girl tag them not man enough, or too dull to decode. or might be gay or just a weak guy. i have been there before so for this reason plenty of guy just want to make the move either they like the girl or not. this is where the problem comes from 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:46am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Kondomatic:LOL, that's because I was speaking to the ladies, yes ladies cross boundaries for sex but not only sex. They fall in love because of the love care and attention the guys give them. They may even see it as "green light" and start catching feelings. I've had a "male friend" that started telling me crap along the line then sef I was single. See ehn, most of the guys I've met started asking me out or giving me green light at some point and other times, I was the one catching feelings too. Then I asked one, why can't we just be friends!! It's like goat and yam my dear, I don't see it happening except your bestie is your twin. Married man keh, maybe he is her childhood friend who he finds unattractive. Can you have a girl with aggressive boobs and ass as bestie without thinking some things? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Lisaint(m): 11:46am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: Dis guy deserves a national award 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ubunja(m): 11:52am On Aug 31, 2017 |
If a girl has many male friends its obvious they are having sex with her. Don't take people's stories here as gospel truth. Girls may say they have a male friend but they won't know that male friend masturbates to them every night. a girl can't be friends with a bunch of men without loving men and the thing that makes men men---the p*nis. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:57am On Aug 31, 2017 |
Horlohlah:Comma gist me jare I want to hear. ![]() If you no trust me, who will? ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by wristbangle: 12:13pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: I would agree with you to some extent but that doesn't mean any guy that doesn't fall into the category of trusted male friends you mentioned cannot be friend with a lady except sexual benefit is involved. I have quite number of female friends whom we share thoughts, secrets and others things together without even crossing my mind for once to sleep with or have feeling for them. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Horlohlah: 12:15pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:Lol...as if you don't know already, who else? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by leathalbeast: 12:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:hahahaha I get you. but if the boundaries are set and both parties pursue their friendship over other interests then it will work. I have a female friend and things work out OK between us. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ashewoboy(m): 1:04pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie: nope, the won't obey. guys will keep fvcking them. you that you are preaching, are you a virgin? 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by lilmax(m): 1:19pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
most nigerian girls are really vulnerable ![]() my observation if you need free sex, and you are not in a relationship.... just act as a best friend to a beautiful girl ![]() this is the thing, make sure she's in a relationship, make sure she tells you everything ![]() now when you want free sex all you have to do is what? cause a fight between her and her boyfriend ![]() ![]() when there's a fight who does she run to? her so called best friend ![]() ![]() and blah blah blah she would bring up the why did you do this to me card? ![]() what do you do? don't act harsh. tell her you're sorry, hug her....tell her she's the most important girl in your life, once again she becomes vulnerable ![]() at the end when she's tired, she tells you get out ![]() ![]() make sure you have like 3 girls that need you as best friend... you go dey bang free every week, just stir a fight that's all ![]() well its someone story though not mine ![]() bottom line: no strings should be attached ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Joel3(m): 1:43pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:your IQ only revived around boob and ass. by the way do you feel a thing for girls with boob and ass? 1 Like |
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