Shmourda:
i am currently out of the country, you cant reach me.

but my dear brother, traditionally its a bad thing for brothers to sleep with the same girl. did she force your brother or your brother force. but my advice is that you cant marry the girl. you dont even need to see her sister,

Saliman22:


Thanks
God bless you
Pls include me in your prayers
Our marriage was next year.
What will I tell my parents right now about this decision pls

Briee:
I called him, it is true. He was crying like a baby. Kai! Some ladies are wicked

CHESTER48:
Oga u called out your own blood brother, knelt him down to flog him, over a girl that is just your girlfriend not your wife.. You're not engaged.. I spit on you.. Tụfịakwa..

CHESTER48:
Oga u called out your own blood brother, knelt him down to flog him, over a girl that is just your girlfriend not your wife.. You're not engaged.. I spit on you.. Tụfịakwa..

mystery22:
bro,i understand how u feel dats y i don't do love,d best tin to do is use her back,make her invest heavily on you too,but remember to withdraw ur heart from her completely,when she is so much into d relationship,strike and leave her asap,cos she won't stop cheating.bro take heart once again.

Yoshy:
Your gift is possessed and demonic, she is a chronic harlot. I detest such people with my mind, body and soul.

Your life is your biggest investment and right now, she is a threat to it, so cut your looses and move on.

As for your brother, you have a lot of work to do on him.

I sense you were not a good role model to him though.

generationz:


I understand how you feel

There's no doubt that with what has happened you might just have to let her go not because you do not have a forgiving spirit, but because of the future consequences of her staying with you. It could be very dangerous to your life who knows what the both of them could begin to conceive in their hearts, what if they continue and he impregnates her and passes the child as yours etc

However I would like you to apply wisdom too
Maybe you would call her and ask if the problem was if you couldn't satisfy her sexually. If that's the problem and it lies with you then I'll advise you to find a solution not because of her but because of your next relationship, because if the problem is with you history might repeat itself and this time it not with your brother bit with outsiders

I'm not condoning cheating from either a man or woman, but gone are the days a woman dies in silence at her man's in capabilities in bed these days many ladies are helping themselves out, cheating us even as common among ladies as it is among men the ladies are just more coded about it.


Thanks

ultematecj:
sir with all humility I write this to you,i understand your emotional frustration,but then sir u have to let her go,in know its hard knowing in your heart how much u value what you guys share together,even at that the decision you make now will shape the rest of your life,what your brother did ws wickedness on his part but u should not let that burn the bridge between u and your brothee...pls let her go for your own sake

ClearDway4me:
Leave the girl and move on with your life, please make it faster b4 they blackmail you

generationz:


Is the brother a child? When 16 year old boys are already Fending for families and getting married


If it were my brother I would send him out of my house that kind of brother can kill me. Imagine a boy I changed his diapers, he is not afraid to sleep with my girl friend.

It means his brother doesn't fear him, I'm not saying the girl isn't bad but how many years have they been dating? Highest five years, whereas he has know his brother since the day he was born good 16 years.

Blood is thicker than water, likewise blood betrayals shouldn't be taken lightly, you have to watch the sibling closely because na the rat weh dey inside house dey reveal secret to the one wey dey outside.

klenton:



just sharrap if u dont have anything to say anu ofia

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Saliman22:


Dear I'm not lying
If I do God should end my future
I can give out my facebook name
Pls what should I do now
I have spent so much

generationz:


Is the brother a child? When 16 year old boys are already Fending for families and getting married


If it were my brother I would send him out of my house that kind of brother can kill me. Imagine a boy I changed his diapers, he is not afraid to sleep with my girl friend.

It means his brother doesn't fear him, I'm not saying the girl isn't bad but how many years have they been dating? Highest five years, whereas he has know his brother since the day he was born good 16 years.

Blood is thicker than water, likewise blood betrayals shouldn't be taken lightly, you have to watch the sibling closely because na the rat weh dey inside house dey reveal secret to the one wey dey outside.

Saliman22:


God bless you the more That comment was making me depressed d more Thanks

CHESTER48:
Emm. In life we have court.. And purpose of that is judgment.. Now if u go to court, do the judge hear only from 1 side of the story. No.. Everyone gets fair hearing.. And u never mentioned it in Ur comment, which finally made Ur comment pointless.. If u send ur brother packing without asking you what happened, because you have girl. That is not your wife, u said the boy is 16 years.. Oga a 16 year old boy is a juvenile and in court wouldn't be treated with same punishment as an adult.. At 16 he can be manipulated, convinced brain washed.. Now u see.. It holds no water anywhere.. The best thing is to overlook the boy as a kid.. And warn him strictly. The gf is the one that needs the flogging. If she is above 18

Saliman22:


I was a role model
I barely stay with him

chidekings:

How did you highlight that particular words.

As for the op,i reserve my comment

nwachukwu9:
My brother the only heavenly Advice I have for you, is to forgive her first, After forgiveness look for a living church where both of you would go and receive deliverance. After deliverance your life would change for good. Both of you must maintain your deliverance. After deliverance you CAN Pray to God to know if she is your wife, if GOD say yes GO ahead and Marry her. I always recommend SYNAGOGUE CHURCH OF ALL NATIONS FOR YOUR DELIVERANCE. THIS MAY BE A FAMILY CURSE THAT NEEDS TO BE BROKEN.

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

Rorachy:
My dad too will tell any man coming to marry his daughter to wait till final year, because the stress in school is lesser then and if she get pregnant, she will give birth after she graduate.



Don't marry her, she is a cheat and don't have respect for you

Sorry for your heartbreak, I no its not easy especially for emotional people like you but you have to move on with your life, you will find another person.