xynerise:
It is a taboo to go ahead and marry her..


Seriously, our men are becoming weak these days..

You can forgive her if she cheated on you with another man but your brother, bro she is going to fvck all the male in your family .

this guy dey vex me?..imagine asking us what to do to a gal that cheated on him with his blood brother?..

I know its hard but ,All i can say is, Mehn your bro Is blood... N the hoe has to go.

CHESTER48:
Emm. In life we have court.. And purpose of that is judgment.. Now if u go to court, do the judge hear only from 1 side of the story. No.. Everyone gets fair hearing.. And u never mentioned it in Ur comment, which finally made Ur comment pointless.. If u send ur brother packing without asking you what happened, because you have girl. That is not your wife, u said the boy is 16 years.. Oga a 16 year old boy is a juvenile and in court wouldn't be treated with same punishment as an adult.. At 16 he can be manipulated, convinced brain washed.. Now u see.. It holds no water anywhere.. The best thing is to overlook the boy as a kid.. And warn him strictly. The gf is the one that needs the flogging. If she is above 18

She's 21yrs according by her but u know at times girls can lied about their age

Op
Sorry about your predicament!!

Let's ask IFA for advice

Saliman22:


Is not because her uncle is a permanent secretary
My own father retired last year as permanent secretary in state Universal basic education board
Besides if I consider family stuff I don't think this is what is leading me.
Pls be soft I want an advice
I have spent so much pls
Be soft with me pls

Forgive her..your brother will not knack her again I swear. But your neighbors or friends will after marriage I swear

generationz:

Amen my dear.
I hope God gives you a clear mind and the wisdom to take care of this issue

Amen

babyfaceafrica:
this guy dey vex me?..imagine asking us what to do to a gal that cheated on him with his blood brother?..

Sorry no vex.

Love can make a grown ass man act like a toddler

you are binding and casting demons with big bible and olive oil, yet you are still fornicating , you even have the audacity to tell us you live with a woman that is not your wife, smh.God help you.

Your brother is adolescent and your gf abused him sexually. She took advantage of the boy.
See the money you spent on her head as bad investment. Call her people and state what she did and why you can't continue with the marriage.
But if you can actually forgive and truly forget, then go ahead. For her to do that knowing that you are within reach is craze.
But bear in mind that she is very loose and one day your gatekeepers , cleaners, driver not to talk of your friends will sample her.

So immediately after prayer u still wanted to Congo her?

Brownish24:
I unstnd ur pain right nw,but d best tin is u shld forget d wedding for nw because dis is a life contract. Nd cum to think of it what if u travel is dt d way she will be flexing arnd men,bro don't count ur looses bt think of d future nd one last think forgive her,nd u guyz shld go ur seperate way.

Thanks I really appreciate your advice

SALIMAN22 IN THE NAME OF GOD RECEIVE SENSE. SEE WETIN YOU GO DO DATE HER O. DATE HER WELLA BUT GET ANOTHER MAIN BABE FOR SIDE. FÚCK HER WELLA THEN ON THE VERY DAY OR THE DAY BEFORE YOUR WEDDING , DUMP THE BÎTCH

Oga u sure say u de give am well well.

braxjay:
I'M NOT UNDERSTANDING. . . . . .

you still need someone to tell you what to do

my brother knee down where you are

place your hands on you head (Both hands o. your case is serious)

and say this out loud

" My father My father, wherever they have taken my head to, COME BACK ! COME BACK ! ! COME BACK ! ! ! "

Lol

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

..U can Date any Lady but U cant Marry any Lady,,I will advice U to forget about Marrying Her, Just think about this sentence,U Wanna get Marry to A Lady that ur Own Blood Brother have Had sexual intercourse with..tell ur Parents abt its

Saliman22:


Is not because her uncle is a permanent secretary
My own father retired last year as permanent secretary in state Universal basic education board
Besides if I consider family stuff I don't think this is what is leading me.
Pls be soft I want an advice
I have spent so much pls
Be soft with me pls

No advice is soft bro. maybe what you are waiting to hear is for us to tell you she's sorry, marry her. Well, you need to man up. You don't seem to see what happened as wrong.
Two questions bro..1. Are you financially independent? 2. Is your decision making independent of the girl's family?

noscarn91:
you are binding and casting demons with big bible and olive oil, yet you are still fornicating , you even have the audacity to tell us you live with a woman that is not your wife, smh.God help you.

GOD BLESS YOU...

Saliman22:
Good morning my wonderful family, I had an issue with my girl 2015 which I open a thread here in romance section, we settled early this year,.

Lemme go straight to the point, I work with micro finance bank which I don't normally have time, my girl is on her IT at ministry of health in my state, what happened yesterday shocked me, my church is having a youth conference currently going on now in Anambra state, for the past two weeks now I'm in the village, she don't normally go to her IT place telling me that there are on malaria program which she don't considered it useful according to her.

What happen yesterday I'm still in shocked right now that is like I'm dreaming which I'm not.
It was past 11pm at night that my girl woke up and shout dear dear and I asked her what happen, then she narrated how she had a dream and I was killed in the dream, I was like what is going on because someone warned me about this month that I should be careful, so I went outside immediately with my Bible and olive oil for prayers. I was in the middle of the compound praying and I asked her to wait for me and she said she cannot wait, that she feared standing alone at night, my compound has a very big gate o, now she went inside my last born room and I was still praying.

Some spirit entered me and I stopped half way and to my surprise ever when I stop she couldn't come out and I waited small and it wasn't up to 2mins she came outside and asked me to wait for her and I didn't wait, she followed me, when I came to the house, I didn't talk to her for some minute and she asked me what the problem is and I explained to her that she should stop that thing that is going on with my last born. She said she's surprised that I could think about this kind of a thing and she's not stupid to have make love with my brother, I told her immediately that I want to make love to her and she said until we finished our discussion and I objected and go straight there and put my hand, behold she was extra wet, so at this point I went inside my last born room and called him to come and the boy followed me.

I now asked him to knell down and he did, at this point I brought out a cable and asked him to tell me why she make love to my woman, at this point my girl knell down and started crying, both of them confess that I did it twice. I now asked my girl the reason she did this even when she knew I was praying, she didn't give me a concrete answer.

So this things has been going on under my roof and I have spent my hard earned money for my brother and her.

Pls I need your advice. Pls what can I do, this morning I have called her aunty to inform her, and she said I should meet her on Saturday.

Pls help me brother and sisters.
I need help Pls.

...damn... I can't even imagine how bleeped up your life is right now. you break up with the LovePeddler but your baby bro is a walking fucking reminder of the fiery painful incident. wanted to say he's still young and prone to mistakes but FFS, joseph was about the same age. am really really sorry. don't know what word of consolation I'd give you.dont kill yourself,, they aren't Worth it.

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

You matter sef, how can you say you want to marry her.

Take it or leave it, that girl will ruin you.

You are on your own anyways.

Saliman22:


Pls I'm not stable right now
I might not type well
Pls just advice me pls
Thanks

ok, since you can not read between the lines. DO NOT MARRY HER !!!!!!!!. SHE IS A CHEAT.

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

u still want to marry her!!!.... Guy u're funny... Can u live with this thought roaming ur head each time u look at her, not to mention the stigma that ur ''last born'' which is ur baby brother has tasted the 'honeypot' of ur wife.

Your gf??.....I think you should be calling her your ex by now!!!

mofeoluwadassah:
you are as weak as your english....it is well with your soul

And your character is as ugly as your ugly face.


If you can't say something nice. Bish sit down keep quiet and be humble.

jashar:
So, after your prayer, the spirit of fornication entered you?

Are you sure you know what you're doing in this life?

lol. ..u are a murderer

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Bro, did you know what am thinking?

generationz:


I am a lawyer in equity, so I know the provisions of the child's rights act as to who a child is.

However this has nothing to do with criminal justice system. This is a family issue
Are you aware that in developed countries such as the USA 16 years old are already working and own drivers licenses.
A 16 year old can impregnate a woman true or false
Except the boy is mentally retarded or was under a spell his action is nothing short of betrayal to his older brother and benefactor
It's also a sign of gross disrespect.


In a country when 10,12 and 13 year old boys are already frolicking with their house helps and nannies, and 15 year old have girlfriends who have committed abortions, you are here telling me about being cajoled without his will

Even a sharp 5 year old , has been taught how to say no when they are told to do the wrong thing "no my mummy will beat me".

No, the boy knew what he was doing he should go back to his father and mother before he poisons his brother or his brother poisons him out of hatred, because you have no idea what can happen when love turns to hate it is ten times stronger.

The boy has seen his brothers unclothedness he would never respect him till drastic action is taken

If you don't know I'll refer you to the Bible
When cannan saw his grandfather Noah's unclothedness, Noah cursed him
When Reubens slept with his father's wife, he cursed him

God will surely bless you because I was looking on how to handle my brother, I'm in shocked and I need to be very careful.
I cannot ever come close to me again

xynerise:


Sorry no vex.

Love can make a grown ass man act like a toddler

this is a spell..not love...someone slept with your blood brother,and he is doing like fufu....make I go sleep abeg...dem don use juju for this guy

Saliman22:


Pls I'm not stable right now
I might not type well
Pls just advice me pls
Thanks

I don't think u are really matured enough to venture into marriage . U have seen a red flag to take a walk and u are asking for advice . The lady in question will jump into another guyz trouser under ur nose as many times as possible and that is what and who she is. Mr man wise up lick ur wound and take a walk because she ain't ur wife.

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

guy you know well.... Your brother is a correct guy.... But be careful he may be the one to end your life..... Don't marry a bit.ch o.... Mumu