extralargehead:

ok, since you can not read between the lines. DO NOT MARRY HER !!!!!!!!. SHE IS A CHEAT.

don't advise this guy abeg..he just dey vex me....

Marry her and she'll sleep with every male friend you have including your gate man, the aboki who sells biscuits down the street.... EVERY ONE!!!

Biko, free the babe, to think you are considering settling things with her is very annoying, who cares about what people will say, a cheating girlfriend can never be a faithful wife, it's that simple! Thank God you found out before you married her...

As for your brother ehn... I no know wetin to talk..

generationz:


I am a lawyer in equity, so I know the provisions of the child's rights act as to who a child is.

However this has nothing to do with criminal justice system. This is a family issue
Are you aware that in developed countries such as the USA 16 years old are already working and own drivers licenses.
A 16 year old can impregnate a woman true or false
Except the boy is mentally retarded or was under a spell his action is nothing short of betrayal to his older brother and benefactor
It's also a sign of gross disrespect.


In a country when 10,12 and 13 year old boys are already frolicking with their house helps and nannies, and 15 year old have girlfriends who have committed abortions, you are here telling me about being cajoled without his will

Even a sharp 5 year old , has been taught how to say no when they are told to do the wrong thing "no my mummy will beat me".

No, the boy knew what he was doing he should go back to his father and mother before he poisons his brother or his brother poisons him out of hatred, because you have no idea what can happen when love turns to hate it is ten times stronger.

The boy has seen his brothers unclothedness he would never respect him till drastic action is taken

If you don't know I'll refer you to the Bible
When cannan saw his grandfather Noah's unclothedness, Noah cursed him
When Reubens slept with his father's wife, he cursed him

Oga.. Ur point sef.. Oya lemme now make it clear.. The girl is 21 years and the boy is 16..clearly it is a child abuse.. Now u see.
The girl is the one to be sent out not the boy.. A 16 years old buy can't I repeat can't try to go after his elder brothers gf.. The elder might be upto 28 or 30..biko save me your comments

Geeezzz!! Are you guys reading the stupid and mostly insensitive comments of people especially on the first page? Na by force to talk? Young man is disconcerted and in serious anguish and the most many could do is talk down on him? The tragedy that has happened is not that your brother slept with your fiancée Op, the tragedy is the people who cannot be human to utter a word in season which can guide, help, uplift and strengthen your soul.

oyakhilomeh:

Brother, there nothing to be ashamed about.It is painful. ..Yes. a broken relationship is better than a broken home. Talk to your bro, you need no prophecy to know she's isn't the one for you.
No offence intended...You seem to be more bothered about her family status, than your own self.

Brother is not Family status , lemme just stop there
Thanks for your advice

necktah:
I know its hard but ,All i can say is, Mehn your bro Is blood... N the hoe has to go.

bro is blood and bleeping his brothers fiancee..?..which kain brother be that?..l

Briee:
I will call you too. I want to know if you're okay

lol

Walaitalai I am weakened fa

Guy, you are not married to this girl yet. Count your loses and run.

If she cannot be disciplined and faithful while in the same compound with you, are you going to employ a private investigator to watch her moves when she is outside?


Run my brother, I say, RUN!

Are you Lai Muhammad son?

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Dude she just cheated on you with your brother, who knows what she'll do when you're both married, screw the fact that her father is whatever he is in your state.

riyanxeally:
my dear pls move on it wont be easy o buh pls.......tomrrw ahe ll sleep wt ur father n ur more handsome brother n ur friends...she knew how young ur brother was n is yet took advantage brother run fr ur life n pls forgive ur brother it is well

Thanks for your advice but I'm still thinking how I will forgive my brother without remembering this day.

Mujtahida:
Geeezzz!! Are you guys reading the stupid and mostly insensitive comments of people especially on the first page? Na by force to talk? Young man is disconcerted and in serious anguish and the most many could do is talk down on him? The tragedy that has happened is not that your brother slept with your fiancée Op, the tragedy is the people who cannot be human to utter a word in season which can guide, help, uplift and strengthen your soul.

the guy is weak..he should have brought this to NL...this is no case..both bro and bar are gonners!!!

no one should say anything about that little brat being too young,,, I'm sure he knows the story of Joseph and potiphars wife. joseph was also around his age.

Saliman22:
Please this is someone I want to marry, our marriage is next year July, I suppose to do the marriage this year but her dad and her uncle who is a permanent secretary in deputy governor office in my state said until she's in her final year in school.
Please help me because I love her
But ashamed please

Bros, at this point u need to forget about love, think of the future, it's not how far u court but how well u realise if someone is meant for u or not.... that what matters, I believe u understand me

THAT MOMENT WHEN THE LADY IS VIEWING THIS THREAD

mofeoluwadassah:
you are as weak as your english....it is well with your soul

his English tire me o. unnecessary blunder everywhere

generationz:


I understand how you feel

There's no doubt that with what has happened you might just have to let her go not because you do not have a forgiving spirit, but because of the future consequences of her staying with you. It could be very dangerous to your life who knows what the both of them could begin to conceive in their hearts, what if they continue and he impregnates her and passes the child as yours etc

However I would like you to apply wisdom too
Maybe you would call her and ask if the problem was if you couldn't satisfy her sexually. If that's the problem and it lies with you then I'll advise you to find a solution not because of her but because of your next relationship, because if the problem is with you history might repeat itself and this time it not with your brother bit with outsiders

I'm not condoning cheating from either a man or woman, but gone are the days a woman dies in silence at her man's in capabilities in bed these days many ladies are helping themselves out, cheating us even as common among ladies as it is among men the ladies are just more coded about it.

They are not married!
So the woman is not dying in silence, she has a choice of leaving the relationship
but she didn't.
Unless she is mentally challenged, sleeping with her fiance's brother has demoted
her to the level of murderers.

This isn't just a cheating case, she has already damaged a family's bond.

While everybody have a right to seek their own happiness, it does not include inflicting
suffering on others.

OmoOshodi:
Are you Lai Muhammad son?

me sef dey look the story

Saliman22:


She's 21yrs according by her but u know at times girls can lied about their age

just look. At how the girl defiled Ur brother.. The girl should pay.. Break up with biko.. What nonsense.. See that girl is matured enough to tell you that your small brother is asking her out.. Wtf are u trying to say.. She compelled the boy and he succumbed as a kid he is.. My gf tells me about people that ask her out, people I know, talk more of my younger brother.. Can u imagine what nonsense.. That girl is not afraid of u

cstr1000:
It could be a curse of marital delay on you or the lady.
Such foolishness is not ordinary.

there's no other payback i would recommend ... Guy u're wickedly wicked

Your girlfriend is kinky, if you no need am send am to me, watching both of them doing it is a huge turn on.

Generalyemi:


lol. ..u are a murderer

Who I kill oooo?

ivolt:


They are not married!
So the woman is not dying in silence, she has a choice of leaving the relationship
but she didn't.
Unless she is mentally challenged, sleeping with her fiance's brother has elevated
her to the same position as murderers.

This isn't just a cheating case, she has already damaged a family's bond.

While everybody have a right to seek their own happiness, it does not include inflicting
suffering on others.

you dey mind that guy...

noscarn91:
you are binding and casting demons with big bible and olive oil, yet you are still fornicating , you even have the audacity to tell us you live with a woman that is not your wife, smh.God help you.

Abeg help me ask am o. person wey no know wetin dey do am, I find it hard to believe this story.

u finished praying, then tried to have sex?

ayamAgenius:


You still dey reason marriage?
Your mumu never do bah?

Not like that, I'm depressed
Just some little word of comfort and I will be fine

Saliman22:


Thanks
God bless you
Pls include me in your prayers
Our marriage was next year.
What will I tell my parents right now about this decision pls

sorry but instead of brooding over the sad event, why not use that time to work on your English., it is messy

pablo69:
no one should say anything about that little brat being too young,,, I'm sure he knows the story of Joseph and potiphars wife. joseph was also around his age.

Oga stop bringing fallacy written on a book 2000 years ago to this. Biko. Take ur religion somewhere else

Saliman22:


According from her statement she's the one that compel my last born

Yet, to marry her dey hungry you. Bros your thinking weak me. Create space for that una big compound make I faint

joeeee240:
SALIMAN22 IN THE NAME OF GOD RECEIVE SENSE. SEE WETIN YOU GO DO DATE HER O. DATE HER WELLA BUT GET ANOTHER MAIN BABE FOR SIDE. FÚCK HER WELLA THEN ON THE VERY DAY OR THE DAY BEFORE YOUR WEDDING , DUMP THE BÎTCH

there's no other pay-back i would recommend ... Guy u're wickedly wicked

Lucky child,I was also molested as a child and I loved it