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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Cannicus: 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Safiaa: Hmmmn, touched you where exactly? |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Safiaa(f): 8:04pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Cannicus:my yansh 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
ibkayee: She wasn't specific because she didn't state the type of good guys she was referring to but instead she used the word "most" in her post yes there is no full proof sign and yes ladies that treat nice guys badly are also wrong But don't you think the mentality of ladies who treat nice guys badly is similar to what she wrote in her post Don't you think those ladies believe those guys are nice because of the honey pot? Do you think it is fair to the genuine nice guys ? Since there is no way of diff them from "bad" good guys Because frankly I beginning to think most ladies prefer snobbish and proud guys 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 8:26pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG:Most implies the majority do it, which may be what she's experienced I guess. The rest are the genuine ones lol yes there is no fool proof sign and yes ladies that treat nice guys badly are also wrongYes, ladies that take advantage of the genuinely nice guys are wrong But don't you think the mentality of ladies who treat nice guys badly is similar to what she wrote in her postSometimes it's hard to differentiate between the genuine and fake, however when it's a case of the girl knowing the guy is genuine and taking advantage of this she's wrong. If she's doing it under a guise to get something from him then it's similar If it's a case of her not being sure or thinking the guy is being fake (even though he may not be, but she doesn't know this) then she's just being cautious and I can't blame her since some guys go to ridiculous lengths for sex and unfortunately the genuine ones are collateral damage, which is unfair but that's life unfortunately Don't you think those ladies believe those guys are nice because of the honey pot?I can't blame some girls for thinking this, some guys go to ridiculous lengths to get sex, some nice guys are the collateral damage which is unfair but that's life unfortunately Do you think it is fair to the genuine nice guys ? Since there is no way of diff them from "bad" good guysI don't think it's fair to genuine guys Because frankly I beginning to think most ladies prefer snobbish and proud guysThere's a difference between the overtly proud/snobbish guys (they're bad but they aren't pretending) and 'nice' guys. The fake nice guys are sha worse because an asshole is bad but at least he's upfront about it, not pretending to be something else to manipulate |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 8:33pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:Bro I've opened it, I couldn't wait again. ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/4025368/friendship-opposite-sex#up Pls I'll need your contribution from the male perspective. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
ibkayee:so in essence you are saying that genuine good guys just have to live with being unfortunate victims of something they are not responsible for After that it is life right? Unfortunately life doesn't happen like that because most genuine nice guys after being collateral damage a couple of times become bad guys and the Bleep boys we see today I reference iaj( Jude a popular nairalander) post yesterday where he stated that ladies taking advantage of him as a nice guy turned him into a bad boy. He (iaj) further claimed that his bad boy attitude gets him better chicks and better deals with ladies Now that is just a testimony of one guy, I am sure you have heard similar stories Yet, many ladies always claim rude boys are stupid and undesirable So I go back to my first question. What do ladies really want? I don't understand you lot at all 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 8:44pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
ibkayee:Thanks dear. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 8:45pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG:https://www.nairaland.com/4025368/friendship-opposite-sex#up Check my thread to understand better. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Greene66: 9:16pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
luminouz: I was never a victim of anything. But I've seen people who have suffered. I've seen ladies get raped by so called friends. I've seen ladies get disappointed by so called friends. I've seen so called friends manufacture hoax just to destroy the relationship of the girl so they can get the girl in the long run. I've seen things bro.. ![]() You dont have to be a victim of armed robbery before you learn to close your gates and doors. Same way I don't have to be a victim of this before I know what is up. All men are what I typed!!! You can deny it all you want but its the truth. If your so called friend opens her legs up for you, you would mate with her. So spare me. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG: Sorry to butt in but I cannot ignore this lame excuse guys give for being of such person. Are the ladies who you are going after have the liberty to become olosho,rude,bitter,angry bitches because of how a couple of guys treated them? Because that's basically the same reason a female will give to you. Now for a smart good thinking fellow, should the action of a woman decide who you choose to be for the rest of your life or you just take your lessons from the experience, move on and be a better man? What if the said lady is not yours to keep and the one who would treat you right is right after her? Some people just come into our lives so that when we meet the right person we know this is the right person. The said girl you became a demon for may have changed her ways and ended up with a decent responsible guy while you continue going around with the baggage you have no business carrying in the first place. It's immature and short sighted to place such reasons as why a dude became such. Most guys who turn out that way were such or had it in them even before they became jilted, they just needed a reason or trigger to set it off. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by luminouz(m): 9:29pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Greene66:But not all men are like what u typed!!!! I am not one..coz Pusey no dey freak me! I am Also sure dia are guys like me out there!!! U don't really know all MEN...do u ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Gwaihir:you made a lot of sense sir |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Your problem is that you assume too much too quickly. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by maklelemakukula(m): 10:26pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:I don't know what you did to me oo, but you annoy me so much.U seem so fake 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by vuc1(m): 10:26pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Laveda:One day a goat must surely eat the yam. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by starstunna1313(m): 10:29pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
[quote author=Prec1ous post=59976253]I still stand by my view. A guy and a girl cannot be friends. It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance. Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners. All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend. This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours. I LOVE THIS PART.. SERIOUS CHECKMATE �� 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by olanrewaju99(m): 10:30pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:best answer so far. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Flashh: 10:30pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:You are very funny. ![]() BTW... No girl/lady should think she can deceive me with such statement "he's my friend". 4 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by AmaechiLinus(m): 10:31pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:my friend u have said it all. Am glad someone still thinks the way i do |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:31pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
maklelemakukula:I don't care, your business, your opinion. It's here already. I'm not on nl to please anybody. 1 Like
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: Bobo make God bless you there 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 10:34pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Flashh:Preach on bro. ![]() Sorry for exposing your people. ![]() |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Bills2307(m): 10:34pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
this thread is something else, already have 5pages before making it to d front Pg. where do I start from to read comments. lawd!!
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Viking007(m): 10:35pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:
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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by AmaechiLinus(m): 10:35pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Nobody should deceive me here. She is sharing the kpomo /kpekus |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by bleskid: 10:36pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sexybbstar:come lets be friend iam serious about it |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by OBku4(m): 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Laveda: Lolzzz... who u dey deceive... Unless say na gay, if not, na definitely friends with benefits |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by kobijacobs(m): 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I love being friends with anyone as long as u have sense |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Tamarapetty(f): 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
i don't have a bestfriend, talk less of a friend. i love being on my own! zero worries. #introvert and a textrovert ![]() 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by MissRaine69(f): 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Next2Bezee:Look not everyone is needy and needs to feel validated 24/7 some women are secure in their position in that relationship. It works for me not saying that it will for someone else. We are individuals after all. My external relationships have never and will never take precedent over my core relationship. I interact with all involved differently and not certainly at the cost of my love life. As for his female friends they understand and respect my position and I do the same. It works for me and he has no issues with that. |
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