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Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
[quote author=Lalas247 post=60012006]I have an equal balance of male and female friends Yes ladies can be a bit oTT but it's due to ENVY cause why hate on another it's pointless we all got Vjayjay down there but most would rather be petty those type of females u stay clear from .. friendship will always end up toxic , back stabbing n the rest I think it's ok to have male friends or more male friends .... NL is not how the whole male race thinks Maybe if you meet a guy on this platform yes high possibility they will Fuvk up .. high possibility they will act up (most have issues) don't blame them ... but outside this forum and other social media .. it's easy to have long lasting male friends without having issues ... all this friend zone only a biggie on social media especially Nigerians .. no one makes a fuss about it in fact only heard of it here .. More Love sis!sorry I hurt u once 1 Like |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 9:41pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Lalasticlala. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 9:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG:I know, but I've a point there. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 9:44pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
AnthonioAlsaid:Doing well, you? |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Lalas247(f): 9:44pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
[quote author=sexybbstar post=60013446][/quote] Lol u think say na hurt be that .. stop it jare Hurt is when u theif person boyfriend |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 9:47pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Saintsammurai:But i gave some benefit of doubt when I said 10% na. But what are you saying? Guys do pretend. He can act like a pastor sef. And he can be real and would let you know. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:maybe |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 9:49pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:Who dey thief boyfriend? Someone shud come and thief me abeg |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Lalas247(f): 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Caringguy:If fact na mistake I make Na if dem thief Money ... wahlahi Ahhh u never see girls wey go take ur man hmmm U never see anything .. no hubby is safe these days with side chics up n down |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Saintsammurai(m): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:Yeah,,ITS true that guys pretend a lot... But like i said, as a lady, before you take a guy as someone you can confide your personal issues with...He must first be "just a friend" before then he turns to a male bestie..Taking him as a male bestie, means you must have known his level of maturity beyond pretence, just like a brother and a sister...The mistake that most ladies make, is that they dont understand the word. "just a friend" and "bestie" so they confide in "just a friend" that dont have their best interest in their hearts.. 1 Like |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I've got 4 lady closest friends and i've been friends with two right from sec sch no sex, no flirting (except with one of them but its all old news now) etc dont know about you and others who've gat ur view on this but i believe having the oppsite sex as a friend beats that of same sex..............and i prefer and will always make friends with dem ladies more like i said i've got 4 female closest friend and just one male friend who's the closest to me (i no get best friends except Jesus) and frankly i'm loving it this way (hope you know that doesnt mean i dont have other male friends sha ) |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lol, i don't have gfs cos mi o raye oshi. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Next2Bezee(m): 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Saintsammurai: You actually don't have to be close with someone before you become friends. Many people meet for the first time & then later become friends. It is not bad for a lady to confide in a guy or have a male best friend. But that is only if the lady is only invested in the friendship and has no relationship to protect. No man will like it if his girlfriend has many male friends that take her out, call her and spend as much time with her as he does. The same thing with girls, no girl will like her boyfriend to frolic with other girls...they will say the girls want to snatch their boyfriend away from them lol. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 10:01pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:Lol Are you an IGBO girl? |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Rukkydelta(f): 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lol I only have one male friend that I'm close to physically the rest of them are just casual friends cos most times guys that get close to ladies just want something else And I also have 3 female close friends I don't do besties And for the Ladies complaining about their fellow females, nobody is perfect and sorry to say you attract your kind. Guys are just more tolerant of your attitudes, they can accommodate all your flaws but your gender can't And most ladies act more behave to male friends than their female counterparts I guess this is the major reason most girls do have clash. We should all try to treat our gender the same way will treat the opposite gender 2 Likes |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:19pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Saintsammurai:But did you read the twist to my write up when the lady falls in love due to the love, care and attention the guy showers on her? |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:21pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Rukkydelta: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:Choi!..I no fit do dat ne Oo .I'm currently not active on whatsapp,i should have msgd u. |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by naijaboiy: 10:26pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:I love the way you described every guy on Nairaland as never do wells and wussies simply because the few you've met here have been disappointing to you. We have great guys on this platform too. Roll with the right ones. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:28pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:LOL, sorry for the late quote. Wanna really get you. Sometimes lol, it's not just envy. It's how they behave. We can't deny we all have our excesses. If I fight with you today because of an issue, will you just conclude it's envy? We all get our wahala. Sorry you kinda contradicted yourself by saying we can have long lasting male friends but we shouldn't trust them. Explain biko. 2 Likes |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by ucnwafor(m): 10:33pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
bla bla bla bla bla bla bla bla, epistle according 2 makydebbie smh |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:34pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
ucnwafor: |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by naijaboiy: 10:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I don't support male and female bestie shït cos in my opinion it's just not possible. If a guy makes friends with a girl and he's sole purpose is just to smash and nothing more he has every right to play his game. If the girl agrees, they can go ahead but if she doesn't then a nigga should respect himself. You have both made your choices and everyone should move on. A girl should not hold on to a guy whom she doesn't wanna smash and yet be flirting and leading him on. It's plain wrong. Any guy and girl who chose to be besties definitely have to be gaining something from each other and that's what they'll define in the relationship. If there's nothing you're both gaining from each other, probably you're just waiting for the girl to give you a chance one day so you can enter the promise land. my brother you're on your own then. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 10:39pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:40pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie:abeg o don't take it the wrong way, suppose to be somewhat romantic Au revoir' |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by makydebbie(f): 10:45pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
AnthonioAlsaid:LOL, was thinking I've been mummyzoned na. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lalas247:You just want these NL guys to come for your head. We love you too hun. 1 Like |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Lalas247(f): 12:02am On Sep 01, 2017 |
makydebbie:lol no worries My dear tired jare couldn't word it better can't be bothered to modify ... what I meant was you can have male friends but be very careful ...till his actions shows he is a good person in and out .. @ the envy part not all who fight but mostly due to hating if no reall issue caused I.e you stating something about taking their boyfriends now a true girl friend won't dream of such only if they want what you have ... Envy |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Lalas247(f): 12:04am On Sep 01, 2017 |
kimbraa:Lol only the ones with issues will take offence .. if they don't have issues why e go move them .. We have sane guys here o ...u just have to know who is sane and who isn't .. na d crazy ones I dey refer to : |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by Lalas247(f): 12:09am On Sep 01, 2017 |
naijaboiy:Y u dey always press me look look u know how I roll if u don't get it oh well leave me n my beautiful mind Biko lol and the ones I met who disappointed just a handful .. compared to the thousands here but like u said you have to roll with right .. but how do u know who is right without knowing a few frogs .... I know we have good guys here ... trust me I have a few on here though they hardly come online but we friends Nice dp btw 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Friendship With The Opposite Sex. by SinglesandReady1: 6:47am On Sep 01, 2017 |
Friendship with the opposite sex... Hmmn, i've never sn a guy who wanted to be bestie wit a gal from d onset. As the saying goes "na condition make crayfish bend", guy man toast babe no gree, so friendship wit no strings becomes some sort of consolation. "Anything can stil happen" they'd say. Define the friendship if they want but whatever makes the 2 of them alone in a dark quite room or some secluded places redefines whatever definition was ho place. They chop and clean mouth and come out continuing to hide under the pretense of friendship when deep down their minds, they know the real truth. 2 Likes |
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