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Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Money2000: 10:38pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
OP, you're very foolish |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Greene66: 10:41pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
luminouz: This is how they talk until one day it happens. They blame the devil or they say they were drunk. Please no be today. I do agree there are good men out there but they are so few that we cannot take risks based on a few good people. We cant. Majority are bad. How do we tell the good ones? Even the bad ones start out good then show their true colors. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by KingGBsky(m): 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
WHAT has boy-friend and girl-friend relationship actually led to? apart from sleeping with each other all in the name of relationship. May God deliver you ALL. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:50pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
tosyne2much: I beg to disagree this time. My ex had this good male friend that she convinced me of being so proud of. The guy exudes maturity when I see their chat and phone conversations. The day we had a little argument, she left and stayed with this her guy friend who f*cked her for days... Lol. Male friends are just like parasites or this nice guy next door waiting for an opportunity to strike. Get rid of them if you're in a serious relationship. Arrest my case. 5 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by MissRaine69(f): 10:52pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous:Having a point of view is permitted. Those "female friends" were never wanted to be your friend in the first instance coming across as a friend was an easier option rather than say it like it is then be rejected. I have male friends most whom I grew up with and no romantic notions have never surfaced. That said to each their own |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
ALL I CAN SAY IS .....Arsenal fans would have tuned in to transfer deadline day expecting nothing, and are still likely to end the day enraged at how the club has managed to put themselves in a position to be mocked by the wider football public. The Gunners' disastrous start to the season kick-started a late scramble to bring in Thomas Lemar from AS Monaco, which has ended with the player snubbing a move to London as he wishes to play Champions League football, but not without Arsenal seemingly chucking their morals and principals out of the window along the way. A fee of €100m for Thomas Lamar is insane, even for this window. Advertisement Would it have mattered in the grand sceme of things if that deal went through, and the Frenchman arrived and became one of Arsenal's best players? No, probably not, as the fees that were resoundingly laughed at last summer - most notably Paul Pogba for around £86m and even Sadio Mane for £35m, actually, particularly Mane - now look like great deals. What makes things worse for Arsenal, if that were possible, are the comments that Wenger made last summer when that Pogba deal had been completed. It is completely crazy if you compare it to normal life. That is for sure. But we live in a world where every activity that is worldwide makes a lot of money. Football has become a worldwide competition and that is why clubs can afford to do it. Does it make sense in the way the player can give you that investment back? Nobody ever could calculate. What is crazy is how the tables have turned. Then, Manchester United were seen as a laughing stock in the transfer window for the manner in which deals were botched, to public knowledge, in the years after Ferguson, but since Mourinho's arrival they have made some outstanding signings and look in good shape to challenge for the title. Also factor in the idea that Pogba was willing to go to Man Utd without Champions League football, but Lemar wasn't willing to head for Arsenal without it, and the idea that Ian Wright has been hammering home, that Arsenal are not an attractive proposition, looks accurate. Even worse is the fact that Arsenal walked away from AS Monaco earlier in the summer when they demanded £52m for Lemar, only to return on deadline day and bid £92. That reeks of desperation, and it is something the fans of the club should be very worried about. Wenger never liked to spend big money, but he kept his team competitive by spotting hidden gems and developing them into stars. That well has dried up for Arsenal, and now that they seem to be willing to get in line with how their competitors are operating in the transfer market, it looks like they are quite some way behind. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Next2Bezee(m): 10:53pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
MissRaine69: Good for you being secure and all. But the success of your relationship is also as a result of you and your man acting out in the best interest of each other and that includes defining your friendship with the opposite sex. You don't have to be needy to start seeing things you don't like in your bf's female friends. Besides you can't be sure they respect you as you aren't a mind reader, it could just be your bf setting boundaries with them to ensure your security in the relationship. That validates the point that setting boundaries is necessary. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I have lots of beautiful female friends and I have never seen their pants before.....this thread is funny because it all depends on each persons mindset.......my female friends gift me all the time and I gift them sometimes but no intimacy....they do visit me at home self....so as a guy I have got female friends what's bad for a female to have male friends 2 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by EgusiShankly: 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
tosyne2much:I'm just reading their comments and shaking my head...... 4 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by nwadiuko1(m): 10:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
i have loads of female friend .....that i dont even for once think of fvcking..... i mean we are more than that..... them self go help me arrange one better fvck |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by oyindamex(f): 10:58pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
out of my friends 80% are male while 20% are female... I dont think there is anything wring with having male friends..my opinion tho |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Whoeppme(m): 11:00pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
IF YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU WHAT SHE ACTUALLY DOES WITH THOSE GUYS JUST LEAVE ME AND HER INSIDE PENCIL CAMRY BACKSEAT CLOSE TWO EYES TAKE HEART STROLL COMOT THEN COME BACK IN ONLY 6MINS TIME NA DIER YOU GO KNOW SAY THE BOYS DEM SEF DON USE HER MARA WATER DEY DO LIPSTICK. E BE LIKE SAY U NO KNOW SAY BANANA AND TOMATO NA UNIDENTICAL TWINS BUMBUM FALL ON YOU |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by doe: 11:03pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I know someone like this. Turn out most of the male friends have at one point got done a sex act with her. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Dmanlex(m): 11:05pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Most of them are cheats. it's ok to hav make frnds bt nt too much |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by stagamagadasca(f): 11:06pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
the way I see people talk as if women are innocent creatures... the funny truth is some ladies wants to sleep with their nice friends too...forget all this advise your giving them..girls are nt babies..when they see a cute and caring guy they feel Hot to phuk him too..they are not sticks.. once a girl looks at a man she knows if she can phuk him or nt...I even have a Female friend am nt attracted to but this girl is on my neck,she wants to phuk me by all means...she's beautiful and endowed but my brother my thing dnt stand even if she naked ...I dnt knw why. 5 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by sophiadaniel(f): 11:10pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Really most of the girls are dumb. They just wana slay in clothes and gossip. I have more of male friends, my female friends, just two! The less female friends you have as a girl, the lesser your problem. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by luminouz(m): 11:12pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Greene66:Am one of the 'few' good ones!!!! Pusey no dey freak me!!!!! Are we done now Oya bye bye!!! |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by londoner: 11:15pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Rorachy: It's VERY COMMON (unfortunately) that girls do not get along with girls half as much as guys. Less of the bitchyness, jealousy, betrayal, backstabbing and malicious gossip happens with male friends which makes for a more quality and long lasting friendship. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by okwyee(m): 11:18pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: I have 3 close female friends and I don't think of getting them laid, not all guys are wired towards sex bro. As far as I know, friendship with the opposite sex should have boundaries. Me for example has never and won't step foot in any of their homes (my female friends), But when anyone see me with anyone of them in school and other open places, They'll think we're dating, After school the only think we speak to each other about is either about assignments or reading together. We ain't all the same! |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by boomii(f): 11:18pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
How come this post is sounding more about me and my male friends? No dramas with male friends |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by bizza45: 11:23pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I have a friend who usually hangs out in d mist of guys... this babe fit stay with 10guys and she no dey shake or shame.... one day we were talking and I asked her don't u have any female friend... y hang out with guys all d time, one day they might do u bad thing her reply was simple, she said having a female friend is like putting an antelope in d mist of lions, I never understood her till I watched NATEGOWILD !!!, d way she talked about girls u will think girls are devil |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by EkoErrands: 11:24pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Is it possible for a guy to hurt a girl that is sitting on him with all her weight? Babe he can hardly breathe |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:32pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: The night Rad told me to kiss her is a reason why I can't argue this Tolu stopped being regular with me because I wouldn't say I wanted us to be more than just friends because she's not my type romantically but just a good person You make sense, you can't be just friends with an opposite gender person, it may not have come now but it soon will and if it doesn't, you are definitely not each other's good friends because if you were, one person at least would want the other or both of them should want themselves |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Lorechino(m): 11:33pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
[quote author=makydebbie post=59977239]I'm coming back to modify. Oya I'm done cooking. Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal. most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. u must be a psychologist, am just guilty of this, but then, 1 i dnt want serious anything, 2 all d female friends after that they will come bk 4 real thing bt then it cnt work cos i hv been seriously hurt b4. bt nw am trying 2 change bt finding it hard though |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by olaboy1: 11:34pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I think some girls keep close male friends for validation, financial support, educational support and lastly sex. Girls are very smart and believe that not keeping those beta males as close friends would not bring anything to the table...I knew some girls back in the days who played guys whilst assuring them of some fake friendship. Girls know fellow girls like themselves can't be used for financial gains, so they are quick to call the beta guys their closest friends. Often times the guys are far below the girls in the looks department, so they can rationalize it in their heads that no sex could ever happen considering the zero attraction they have for those beta guys. The downside is that this beta guy who is more than happy to be placed in the friend zone initially, would one day become sexually violent after norturing those sexual feelings for years and analyzing all the cost implications. The only time such a friendship may end up sex free is if the girl is like 8/10 and Mr nice guy is 4/10 in appearance. If you are in a committed relationship, you should only keep casual male friends and stop sleeping over at best male friends. I don't believe that shit that girls don't get along with girls. What happens in a girl to girl relationship is obtainable in a guy to guy relationship, it's all excuse for freebies and stuffs. 3 Likes |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Rick9(m): 11:38pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Too much 'Myopic' thinkers on this thread, "A girl and a guy are seen together, oh they have started dating." In school I have female friends OK that we are just close we have our boundaries, it all depends on the relationship you have with the person, There are some females that I can't imagine getting laid down with but being friends is cool. Life is not all about boobs & bums OK. If you are intelligent we have sth to share in common. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Prec1ous: Your kind is what every lady should avoid when making male friends. The number of likes in Ur comment shows how bad our society has gone. Back in skul then, my best friend (not even my girl) was a girl. Never touched her nor dreamed of. Her advice and overall intellect was second to none. When a suitor came, she traveled all the way to school to tell me all about d guy (as she was my senior colleague and graduated b4 me, though age mates). And mind u, she was super hot. Sometimes in Ur life U've got to reason outside d skirt. During her trad, u should have been there to see d dance scene bw us. His man stood and laughed widely b4 joining us. 1 Like |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Papadoh(m): 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
She smiled at A and frowned at B, came with C and left with D, hugged E but didn't hug F, solve for X... blah blah blah. Can't you just mind your own business and find something worthwhile to do? The girl probably doesn't even know you exist and here you are, giving yourself a headache over something so silly. If you really want to know why she is the way she is, simply go and ask her. Good Night And Sweet Dreams. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by doughziay: 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sexybbstar: good make i Pm you. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by makydebbie(f): 11:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Lorechino:Bro why are you doing this to my ladies nau. |
Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by OlujobaSamuel: 11:49pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
aside my lady who is my wife in the making, my next best pal is a lady, we do so many things with each others consent, her parents at a point thought we were dating but later realized nothing of such exist btw us. we know how to set our boundaries, we understand the fact that human feelings would set in at intervals, so we have various ways to manage it before it gets out of hand, above all, we both appreciate our space, so no one invades the forbidden areas. If you have a close friend of opp sex with no motive ab initio, trust me, you might not want to get married aside for legitimate love making and babies. |
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