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Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by marvelck: 11:39am On Sep 01, 2017 |
According to Nigerian girl, paying a small amount as bride price for a woman is seen as a demeaning act. Since it makes it look as if the bride is been given out as a 'dash' to her groom. And according to her, this is one of the reasons why most ladies prefer guys paying huge amount of money as bride price when coming to marry them...Cos no girl wants to look 'cheap' before the whole world...
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Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by MhizzAJ(f): 11:40am On Sep 01, 2017 |
I don't really see it as a demeaning act Women aren't 'products' The amount paid as bride price varies with different families and culture Where i come from..it isn't too expensive |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 11:44am On Sep 01, 2017 |
... Truly I abhor bride price. A means to sell a woman. I wonder why women think it's okay they are stylishly selling you off and you are there smiling and snapping picture |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Evablizin(f): 11:45am On Sep 01, 2017 |
What is she saying? Well A Nigerian Girl is talking not a A Nigerian Woman so i got nothing to say to you,when you grow up i believe you will talk like a matured woman not like a girl 1 Like |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 11:45am On Sep 01, 2017 |
So buying the woman and using her like slave will be better |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by NCP: 11:47am On Sep 01, 2017 |
I agree. Selling off your daughter at an expensive rate for a one time will help you recoup your investments and her new owner.... sorry pls husband will value his latest investment alot.
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Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by fowosh: 12:11pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Making him pay tru his nostrils makes him angry which leads to constant beating and humiliation to ur person...why? U av sold ur self to him... I don't blame some men tho |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Lovetinz(m): 12:23pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Evaberry:If 'it's paid for. It is a commodity. Similar to a pair of slippers, whether Okrika or Gucci. To be used and abused at the owner's convenience. *Barbaric. |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Akuneshiobike(m): 12:25pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
U re still a girl though...U will understand better when u grow up. |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Homeboiy: 12:26pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
story |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Paulosky1900: 12:41pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Guys ain't idiots that's why they don't go to those places to get a wife, I guess your dads are the ones to get married to you guys when your time passes, some imo indigenes are suffering from these, cos of this issue. WISEUP LADIES |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Apina(m): 2:34pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
In my locality, it's usually a very small price which cannot be used to buy even a bag of pure water. This simply means our daughters are walking into such Unions as equals. |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 3:30pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
I believe the lady who said this should be from a particular tribe in Nigeria. Why should I spend a fortune to 1 Like |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Team foreign babes. Marry with no bride price |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Dillusionist(m): 3:34pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
that's a shallow way of thinking. .paying an exorbitant amount on a lady automatically adds common sense into her??you need a medical check up young lady |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 12:44pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
vicfuntop:Oh, your husband is gonna be such a lucky man. Hope you won't sing a different tune when you get to the village sha |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 2:55pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Yeah she is right It is very cheap The guy should probably use his life savings to pay her bride price and wait for donations from well wishers to take care of her That will definitely make her look expensive and too costly for her husbad to maintain Rubbish |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 7:48pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
TimeMod1:I was going to mind my own business, but since you're ruining whatever vestiges of respect NL ladies have for men with your poorly crafted juvenile rants, I think it is in fact my business. What kind of sorry excuse of a man are you? So she offended you so badly that whatever childish message you sent her on WhatsApp wasn't enough, you had to come online to display your inability to construct simple sentences without sounding like a dimwit. I always wondered why some NL ladies think majority of guys are inbred im'beciles, judging from this abomination you think you so cleverly scripted, I can't say I blame them. You left NL to go and chat on WhatsApp then came back here to torment us with your idiocy. How does it concern us that she has a boyfriend she wouldn't cheat on with you?? If you feel hurt and rejected why not lick your wounds in private and preserve whatever scrap is left of your ego? Why come here to announce to the whole world that a lady did not find you good enough to spit on. You even insulted her boyfriend for making her love him too much to even reason your matter, how pathetic is that? You mean her guy is so much better than you that compared to him she saw you as s'hit? My friend you are an apology of a man. N.B just to be clear this is not how real men behave, this weak coward displaying feminine tendencies is in no way representing typical male behavior. When real men get turned down, they show some class, they don't come online to whine about how a lady broke their pathetic little heart. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by frankkydee(m): 9:27pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
MhizzAJ: but it expensive though? |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by frankkydee(m): 9:27pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
MhizzAJ: but it expensive though? |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by MhizzAJ(f): 9:30pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
frankkydee: not at all |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by frankkydee(m): 9:37pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
BenShammer: bros take a chill the guy is just lad who don't really know much. pls pardon him! 2 Likes |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by frankkydee(m): 9:38pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by MhizzAJ(f): 9:50pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
frankkydee: You re welcome anytime anyday 1 Like |
Re: Paying A Small Amount As Bride Price For A Girl Makes Her Look Cheap -Naija Lady by Nobody: 4:14pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Evaberry:Don't allow any man pay ur bride price OK. |
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