blaze612:

Must you have sex?
Is sex the reason you are in relationship?

no,
but it is vital to growth of relationship

kelvinatkins i see you trying to send me a PM. I can't access my nairaland mail. PM on awunord(at)gmail(dot)com

kelvinatkins:

no,
but it is vital to growth of relationship

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kelvinatkins:

no,
but it is vital to growth of relationship

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kelvinatkins:

no,
but it is vital to growth of relationship

chai! see reasoning!
Lawd have Mercy!

Good mrng OP...my issue is...I have this babe frm childhood friend... reconnected via fb.. now we close AF we talk very often.. I assumed the BF role.. but she always reminded me I aint her bf.. so asked mayb she had a bf.. so we cn date.. she allowed me know .. she actually has a bf but it isnt serious nd she actually wants to leave him.. but the thing now is.. she said she doesnt want to leave her bf yet cos..the devil she knows is better than the angel she doesnt know.. based on the fact that we just met..barely a mnth.. she still hasn't stopped being close..we talk evry hr..via phone or chat..the thing dr is.. how do I get out of this zone fast or steps to accelerate this phase..cos she said I should gv her time..nd d truth is im not the patient type nd im scared of being friendzoned ..one virtue God didnt gv me...

Boss xxxtedyxxx I hail oo..
How do I handle a situation whereby all the females around know that i have basically zero social skills like one jokingly blurted out ones that the thought I was dumb. How best do you think I should project myself to clear them of that conclusion on me...... Dating is the only thing that still gives me difficulty because of cold feet and procastination with fear of rejection.

Ffs, I'll soon be 30 and I've not even had a 5 minutes long discussion with a babe.

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Boss xxxtedyxxx I hail oo..
How do I handle a situation whereby all the females around know that i have basically zero social skills like one jokingly blurted out ones that the thought I was dumb. How best do you think I should project myself to clear them of that conclusion on me...... Dating is the only thing that still gives me difficulty because of cold feet and procastination with fear of rejection.

Ffs, I'll soon be 30 and I've not even had a 5 minutes long discussion with a babe.

The limitations are only in your mind. Focus on pushing an stretching your comfort zones. Getting social with the opposite sex starts with a practice.

Get in the field, and forget about your shortcomings. Check out pages 0-9

Showing genuine interest in a girl and acting like a boyfriend from the outset are two things a guy must never forget to do. Failure to do these will:

1) will stifle the effect of your approach,
2) land you in the friendzone, and
3) set you up for failure.

There are no two ways about it. The sole reason why girls automatically friendzone you, or give you cold shoulders is because they do not feel this gut-level attraction for you. For women, attraction is an emotional thing. They are more concerned with how something makes them feel.

Attraction factors -

Here are some key attraction factors you need to ponder on.

Health ( Handsomeness, 6 Packs, Genetics,)

Status in the society.

Fame. celeb, socialite etc.

Social Circle. Do you roll with very influencial people.

Wealth --- You gat some paper to blow?

Humour.... How funny are you?

Smartness/Intelligence - No doubt, some ladies have a deep attraction for intelligent dudes.

How many of these qualities do you possess?

Think about it.

xxxtedyxxx:
Showing genuine interest in a girl and acting like a boyfriend from the outset are two things a guy must never forget to do. Failure to do these will:

1) will stifle the effect of your approach,
2) land you in the friendzone, and
3) set you up for failure.

There are no two ways about it. The sole reason why girls automatically friendzone you, or give you cold shoulders is because they do not feel this gut-level attraction for you. For women, attraction is an emotional thing. They are more concerned with how something makes them feel.

Attraction factors -

Here are some key attraction factors you need to ponder on.

Health ( Handsomeness, 6 Packs, Genetics,)

Status in the society.

Fame. celeb, socialite etc.

Social Circle. Do you roll with very influencial people.

Wealth --- You gat some paper to blow?

Humour.... How funny are you?

Smartness/Intelligence - No doubt, some ladies have a deep attraction for intelligent dudes.

How many of these qualities do you possess?

Think about it.

Hmm. You are making sense, here. Kudos !!
I think every thing about dating is practice and hardwork.

Djboosting:



Fvck dude.. What in heaven's sake is wrong with you?

Okay.. I know people might not be telling you the truth, but I will.. You killed yourself.. Yeah, you heard me.
I don't know if I should hang your dick for seven days right now or I should lock you up.

Can't you see that you're the SOLE cause of everything this girl did with your "heart". You are..

Open your eyes and feel your anger towards yourself..
@bolded, this girl made you loose some girls that show interest in you.. Okay.. I can understand " jealousy"..

But again @bolded, you loose some of your close friends because of this girl. What DA fvck?

Wrong move bruv, bad move. Do you think she's going to value you if you don't even value your close friends? Fvck No..

Brotherhood OVER Bitches..

Again you worsen the whole thing by being super caring needy.. Don't you see that you chase this girl away yourself?

She held the whole keys in the relationship. She can open or lock you up, if she wants. And it's clear what she already did.

The fact that you kissed another girl is not the problem like you think, in fact it made her love you more, but you, yourself is behaving like the Presenter to her QUEEN personality..

I'll give you the first Law to always follow with women:

The #1 Law of Fvcking, states;
"Women will only fvck men who they perceive are of higher value than her, and will not sleep with guys beneath her".

(Exception - prostitute).. Even some "runs girls" still choose classy clients..

Now do you see where you are with this girl? Beneath her.

If you don't change your game plan and learn game from people who know the rules of the game, you'll keep experiencing this same issue over and over again.


Final say: Let the young beautiful girl be to enjoy her life, and WORK ON YOURSELF, and change from being a cheesy vanilla of women to a Hard Solid Game Creator..

Thanks.

-(angry) JD..

please bro, how do I demonstrate the high value dude? the thing de disturb me. bro the main thing is, my conversational skill sucks, sometimes even when conversing it goes lull and am like what the Bleep! how can I fix all of these, plus I have heard women like a spontaneous (creative) man. how do I fix these, thank you, anticipating your reply.

Ok

Weldone Tedy

Showing genuine interest in a girl and acting like a boyfriend from the outset are two things a guy must never forget to do. Failure to do these will:

1) will stifle the effect of your approach,
2) land you in the friendzone, and
3) set you up for failure.

There are no two ways about it. The sole reason why girls automatically friendzone you, or give you cold shoulders is because they do not feel this gut-level attraction for you. For women, attraction is an emotional thing. They are more concerned with how something makes them feel.

Attraction factors -

Here are some key attraction factors you need to ponder on.

Health ( Handsomeness, 6 Packs, Genetics,)

Status in the society.

Fame. celeb, socialite etc.

Social Circle. Do you roll with very influencial people.

Wealth --- You gat some paper to blow?

Humour.... How funny are you?

Smartness/Intelligence - No doubt, some ladies have a deep attraction for intelligent dudes.

How many of these qualities do you possess?

Think about it.

nice one mate... pls shed more light on buying temperation. thanks!!

xxxtedyxxx:
So we kick It off wit FMAC....FMAC is an acronym for Find Meet Attract Close.

Find-- dis is basically d part where u av to look for the chick, be it online, or one-on one

Meet- dis is d part where u open the chick.. Or say hi. A simple line I crafted myself dat works all d time is "" hey..hi..I av seen u arnd a few times, but we a avent met...am <insert ur name here>"" #smile...u can move ahead from there. Note its ur dilivery dat matters..u may or may not use d same exact words.u can frame it arnd to sth dat suits you.

Attract -- this is d part where u ease her and make her relax using different methods. Humour,buying temperation,teasing,role play etc

Close- this is d part where u get her contacts or u move the convo to a different location. Closing can also mean s**x too. So it all despends on your time constraints.

Note..u don't av to be Goodlooking...Just be LOooking GOOOD.

bro i greet,u dey try.e get one u talk 4 one of ur post i try am.e dey wrk.ur post mak sense fall on me lik shower.we need more of pple lik u.but bro i wan ask three questns.1)hw do mak a gal invest in u unconsciously nd hw do mak a lady sexually attracted 2 u thru texting(online)nd outline.nd also afta taking a gal out hw do mak wan 2 cum 2 ur place without failing.

Guys guess what? I asked her out. I had bin buildin d suspense, bt 1 9t i took d courage nd told ha on phone. It didnt go well dough bt she told me she wanted face 2 face gist. It tuk a while bt even uptil nw no reply yet. bt my instincts are buzzin me dat she's in. She laughs at d stupidiest joke, nd hang up wheneva i make jest (not in an offensive way) of her. Am not lusing patience oh, bt should i be playing d bf role or just continue d parole... urgent help o. And anyway tanks xxxtedyxxx, u hav reali moltivated me.

martinsfm:
Good mrng OP...my issue is...I have this babe frm childhood friend... reconnected via fb.. now we close AF we talk very often.. I assumed the BF role.. but she always reminded me I aint her bf.. so asked mayb she had a bf.. so we cn date.. she allowed me know .. she actually has a bf but it isnt serious nd she actually wants to leave him.. but the thing now is.. she said she doesnt want to leave her bf yet cos..the devil she knows is better than the angel she doesnt know.. based on the fact that we just met..barely a mnth.. she still hasn't stopped being close..we talk evry hr..via phone or chat..the thing dr is.. how do I get out of this zone fast or steps to accelerate this phase..cos she said I should gv her time..nd d truth is im not the patient type nd im scared of being friendzoned ..one virtue God didnt gv me...

all she wants from you is assurance that you won't break her heart n hurt her in the long run! its already obvious shez in to you already if a girl likes you is usually nt really hard to read. just be urself blurtly tell her you want to collect her from her soo called boy frnd, n you'd like to be her man promising you won't toy with heart n that's it. trust me she'll all be urs. when your both ready to get intimate brother give her head use ur mouth, go down there n make her feel real good, the sex should be good too that act alone restores her back to default setting, erasing all other viruses (passionate moments with her current soo called guy) I've done this times with out no. it works perfectly, show her love, take her out once in while, send her love text in the morning and at regular intervals, give pocket money once in a while (if ur a working class guy) no matter how small, buy her gifts too. its the little things we do that really matters in a relationship! . all she wants from you is reassurance Goodluck Bro.

exclusivejayce:
Guys guess what? I asked her out. I had bin buildin d suspense, bt 1 9t i took d courage nd told ha on phone. It didnt go well dough bt she told me she wanted face 2 face gist. It tuk a while bt even uptil nw no reply yet. bt my instincts are buzzin me dat she's in. She laughs at d stupidiest joke, nd hang up wheneva i make jest (not in an offensive way) of her. Am not lusing patience oh, bt should i be playing d bf role or just continue d parole... urgent help o. And anyway tanks xxxtedyxxx, u hav reali moltivated me.

assume the bf role already. What are you waiting for?

Don't ask her out oh.....pls.


Go for a date.

you are doing fine.

xxxtedyxxx:


assume the bf role already. What are you waiting for?
Don't ask her out oh.....pls.

Go for a date.
you are doing fine.

ask her out asin? i already told her the I Love You line.

exclusivejayce:

ask her out asin? i already told her the I Love You line.

you dont need to tell her you love her. That's too mundane. You need to show you love her. Never tell a girl you love her. Show it. But before showing it, you want to make sure she is clearly invested in you. You dont wana be a "Maga" you know.

xxxtedyxxx:


you dont need to tell her you love her. That's too mundane. You need to show you love her. Never tell a girl you love her. Show it. But before showing it, you want to make sure she is clearly invested in you. You dont wana be a "Maga" you know.

Owk, d problem is that we are not in d same place now, i actually met her in school, bt is d texting nd calling enough.

Hi xxxtedyxxx,luv ur write up my current problem is ther dis gal dt friendzone me yrs bak.but we talk normal but hav flirt wit her she flow well sote she cum dey call me 1 tym but stop.but if i wan control am she dey dodge dey throw lie.only giv am airtym only on her bday na 200naira once 700naira but na only her bday o.she say she dnt lik guys dt ar big(refering 2 me).na i say ok o.dis yr she tell me she engage but neva fix date.but wen we chat 4 fb she said twice she no dey c 4 watsapp.wich i explain because am using java phone nd no fit buy smartphone.so wen i saw ur write up i try d bf stuff cum dey use d baby 4 her dey flirt.she jux dey flow well dey lol.sote i use 1 line we chatting lik sum old couple.i think we mak a nic couple wit 10 daughter nd 5 sons.she jux dey lol.tedy abeg advice me hw go about her.i wan bleep am.but 2 control cum my place na wahala.but i tell am i go flex am small.which she lol nd agree.teddy advice me my goal na run am.

More life bro @xxxtedxxx
Thanks in advance for my question.

I really have the problems of not knowing how to

* Start and keep a conversation with a new girl i just met either on call or chatting.
* I need some great pick up lines that'd make the conversation last longer.

*****************************

And there's one girl laikdat, we used to be together in sch days to the extent that our classmates used to call us Bf n Gf. I was scared to tell her that I love her then.....i was small then tho*, now we're now even in the same varsity, same level studying the same course and i don't even know how to bring it up to her....

Good day my bosses in the house, need your help and advice on this.. There's this gurl I liked so much and she loved me too.. So we started dating about a year now, tho we were far from each other but still try to see each other once in two months.. Recently, I noticed that the kinda affection she had for me some months ago reduced drastically and she hardly paid attention anymore.. Then I tried to ask her about wat went wrong, she kept on nagging on us seeing which we did.. After we saw, she explained tinz to me, Dat truly d love she had reduced along the line because of the thoughts she had bn having recently;which are, will I be ready whenever shez ready? Or whenever am ready, will I leave her for somone younger? Shez having dz kind of thoughts because of what happened to her cousins that were in relationship with almost the same age bracket and then the guys jilted them (tho m a year older Dan she is)and she doesn't wanna dabble into somtin nt productive .. So she said dz tots has bn going on in her head thus making her scared.. And she doesn't wanna hurt me and she just want to make me happy .. Tho I already told her to consider her happiness first before odas and if she thinks leaving is d best tin, I wld accept wit open arms.. My question now is, shld I forget abt her, or how can I elate my love in her?

cc:xxxtedyxxx

I called on u just to appreciate your efforts,.one,for creating such a wonderful trend where people table thier dating/relationship problems and a suitable solution is given to tackle thier problems and I can say it wasn't easy for u because when u created this trend in 2013,I was not yet a member of nairaland by then.
But when I came across this trend,I wen t through ever thing from the beginning till the end,one thing I noticed was u always make effort to reply as much mentions as possible which is a very difficult thing to do and u never minded how bulky the writes up where and a can boldly tell u the main aim of this trend was achieved which is all that matters.
To me personally,your tips and coaching has changed me by helping me step up my game which I can say is a big success in my gaming life...I am not that good in writing all I wanted to was just to appreciate you even thou I wasn't able to

express my self the way I wanted to just know u have affected the life of many people out their positively.

dmgr:
cc:xxxtedyxxx

I called on u just to appreciate your efforts,.one,for creating such a wonderful trend where people table thier dating/relationship problems and a suitable solution is given to tackle thier problems and I can say it wasn't easy for u because when u created this trend in 2013,I was not yet a member of nairaland by then.
But when I came across this trend,I wen t through ever thing from the beginning till the end,one thing I noticed was u always make effort to reply as much mentions as possible which is a very difficult thing to do and u never minded how bulky the writes up where and a can boldly tell u the main aim of this trend was achieved which is all that matters.
To me personally,your tips and coaching has changed me by helping me step up my game which I can say is a big success in my gaming life...I am not that good in writing all I wanted to was just to appreciate you even thou I wasn't able to

express my self the way I wanted to just know u have affected the life of many people out their positively.

This thread wouldn't have reached this stage if not for you guys.

You all made it possible.

Thanks for the kind words boss. I really appreciate this. Though I haven't posted new updates here, I have not forgotten this thread. It's dear to me.

I have been testing some new stuffs lately. I would be posting them here very soon. I' am also working on some ebooks and some stories. That's I haven't posted here.


I feel you Boss...thanks for this.

exclusivejayce:

Owk, d problem is that we are not in d same place now, i actually met her in school, bt is d texting nd calling enough.

It's OK, as far as she is also calling and texting too. It should never be a. 1 way thing. Keep her on her toes, and don't forget to package other babes.

Kredz:
Good day my bosses in the house, need your help and advice on this.. There's this gurl I liked so much and she loved me too.. So we started dating about a year now, tho we were far from each other but still try to see each other once in two months.. Recently, I noticed that the kinda affection she had for me some months ago reduced drastically and she hardly paid attention anymore.. Then I tried to ask her about wat went wrong, she kept on nagging on us seeing which we did.. After we saw, she explained tinz to me, Dat truly d love she had reduced along the line because of the thoughts she had bn having recently;which are, will I be ready whenever shez ready? Or whenever am ready, will I leave her for somone younger? Shez having dz kind of thoughts because of what happened to her cousins that were in relationship with almost the same age bracket and then the guys jilted them (tho m a year older Dan she is)and she doesn't wanna dabble into somtin nt productive .. So she said dz tots has bn going on in her head thus making her scared.. And she doesn't wanna hurt me and she just want to make me happy .. Tho I already told her to consider her happiness first before odas and if she thinks leaving is d best tin, I wld accept wit open arms.. My question now is, shld I forget abt her, or how can I elate my love in her?

She needs a sense of trust. ThTs all. Use future projection on her. She is acting this way because she is not fully attracted to you yet. When she does, all these logical thinking and fears concerning you leaving her will wane. Just assume the bf role, and continue your thing.

xxxtedyxxx:


It's OK, as far as she is also calling and texting too. It should never be a. 1 way thing. Keep her on her toes, and don't forget to package other babes.

Package oda babes. Am now into polybabing, all thanks to you.

Nice work you have been doing OP.
For instance you got a girl's number from your friend or hers. You chatting her up and she was replied you with the question 'how did you get my number'. You tried diverting her to forget about that, but she insisted on knowing how you got the number. She just stopped replying your chats. How can I answer such question...

exclusivejayce:

Package oda babes. Am now into polybabing, all thanks to you.

Ur welcome.

Having an abundance mentality lowers your desperation. It gives you options. In addition, your rate of investment will be less, which is better.

Finally, it will make the look/seem normal to you: because you have other girls like her. Simple and easy