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Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
tomdon:What are the bases for your questionable inference? |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Nobody: 6:35pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Kayceenaz: You are yet to give reasons why you believe marriage has a priceless value as against staying single. Give reasons ...valid ones and don't play on sentiments. Please remember that the validity of arguements can be eroded by assumptions such as the one made on my marital status. Many thanks |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 6:38pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
collinsebuka:Before you erroneously order another crate, kindly scroll up for the reply to his shaky comment. |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Blonchilli(m): 6:50pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
collinsebuka:KNOWLEDGEABLE AND SMART!!! I will have financial challenges, I'lll need to go further in career and I'll need to talk to my wife. I don't need a wife that's only bred for the kitchen but don't know how to make a career with her man (Michelle Obama). Bro I wonder when Nigerian girls will look beyond makeup and cars and get a life 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 7:09pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
1stCitizen: Apparently, your position is "In this age it is better to stay unmarried." My inference about your marital status was hypothetical and rightly so which is in tandem with your assertion. Recall that my proposition "That you choose to stay unmarried" does not necessarily imply that you are unmarried. It is a conditional statement that alludes to your position. Therefore, it is no assumption because the statement was made on the back of a sufficient reason contained in your position. And as for valid reasons for marriage, go through my article again and preceding reply to you. Perhaps, your bias toward marriage renders you blind to see the validity of my exposition on the subject. Preconceived opinions can do a lot of harm to objective consideration. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Nobody: 7:17pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
happney65: pls give this nigger 2 bottles of Beer.....!! |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Empressabbie(f): 7:21pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Kayceenaz:Yes that's true, being current is the best way. Curiousity is what drives me a lot of time |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Empressabbie(f): 7:33pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Kayceenaz:It's not that important, people can live without it |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kendrick80(m): 7:41pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
miarhpe:Arsene wenger 2 Likes
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Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 7:52pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Empressabbie:Of course, some people can decide and live without it but not all. That certain persons do not fancy marriage does not displace it as an integral part of the human society. It is misplaced when some people in contrast to current realities downplay marriage out of their own discontent. For instance, since Mr. A reckons marriage is not that important and is overrated, then that is a viewpoint everyone shares thus making marriage entirely inconsequential. Such overgeneralization is irrational and just intolerable. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 8:10pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
sonnie10:Why the displeasure? How do you mean? |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Langbasa: 8:17pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
fatymore:Sorry you knocked at the wrong door,try my neighbor... marriage no dey my plan now; D. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by fatymore(f): 8:24pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Langbasa:lols..cos you are so ugly 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by sonnie10: 8:48pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Kayceenaz: It's just your style of writing. Take this your question for instance, you could have said; what don't you like about my writing? Why the displeasure, is too mechanical or colloquial. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Langbasa: 9:03pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
fatymore:Very very ugly.... yes I'm ugly. |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by mansapost: 9:18pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
sonnie10: I felt the same way. Article is full of unnecessary words, which makes it hard to understand. The article also lacks clarity. Is he saying marriage is good or bad? I should not stress my brain to understand what is being said. Well, maybe the article is not for mumu like me but for intellects. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 10:00pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
sonnie10:if one doesn't like something, doesn't that entail one is displeased with the thing in question? How is that mechanical, colloquial or not a formal literary word? Are you sure you really know what those terms you used mean? More so, "it's just your style of writing" is a circular answer that does no justice to my enquiry about reservations. In as much as I value constructive criticisms, it is clear you have no clue about your claimed shortcoming in the above article, hence your struggle to articulate it. You seem to be bent on discrediting the article, which is hypocritical of one that purports to have high regards for literary propriety. Destructive criticism is as grievious as persecution of the innocent. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Kayceenaz(m): 10:20pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
mansapost:Those "unnecessary words" may be another's key to deep understanding; one man's poison could be another man's food. Also, the article is meant for intellectuals like you; maybe there was a gap in understanding while you read. The article says marriage is a good thing, but frowns at the widespread misplaced perception of it as a paradise, where happily ever after prevails. It reminds us of the seriousness of marriage, a journey that contains hurdles. Conclusively, the piece calls for those outside marriage to be ever conscious of its realities and those inside to handle such realities the right way. |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by hartson(m): 10:53pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Op is this passage for or against,didnt get what this gist is all about 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Nobody: 11:20pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Kayceenaz: What a lame embarrassing attempt to impress with unnecessary words Go back and study what conditional statements are and how they are applied and match it with yours. If you are smart enough you will understand the gaffe you made in your bid to construct a supposedly hypothetical statement. Why do I find your last comment very funny? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by mansapost: 12:27am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Kayceenaz: Oh, thanks for the compliment. Back to your article. I can see that you have a passion for writing and you are good with vocabulary. But, I think, when writing, you should think about your readers. Who is this article meant for? Intellects or a single guy who might be interested in knowing more about marriage. In writing, clarity, simplicity and elegance is important. Well, as you said, quite rightly, one man's food is another man's poison. Keep on writing, though. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by mansapost: 12:31am On Sep 06, 2017 |
1stCitizen: You need to, probably, tone down your comment. Seems harsh. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by fatymore(f): 7:50am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Langbasa:good morning.. Hope you had a splendid night rest |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Langbasa: 7:58am On Sep 06, 2017 |
fatymore:Good morning to you too,so na you send those bedbugs and mosquitoes not to allow me rest. |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by fatymore(f): 8:01am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Langbasa:you no get shame .go and fumigate your room joor |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Langbasa: 8:05am On Sep 06, 2017 |
fatymore:I go fumigate am,are you on Facebook |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by fatymore(f): 8:07am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Langbasa:nope..2go |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by chukagates(m): 9:48am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Sniper12:nice one bro |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by chukagates(m): 10:00am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Kayceenaz:oga who do u want to deceive and intimidate with english?? is like ur a fresh graduate?? state reasons why marriage is so important simple and short stop blowing grammar to shy away from what u are asked to proof...to me marriage is soo OVERRATED 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by Langbasa: 10:41am On Sep 06, 2017 |
fatymore:I talk am say you be scam. |
Re: Marriage And The Happily Ever After Syndrome: An Alternative Perspective by fatymore(f): 10:53am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Langbasa:lols.. |
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