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Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by pryme(m): 11:18pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
You guys will do well to get some good earpiece and listen to some good music. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by chikk(f): 2:39am On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage: hartson: As our faces are different, so are our likes and interests. Everyone is not the same and no body knows it all. You can't expect someone who fancies anything religion or fashion for instance, to successfully converse with you on politics or current affairs, especially when they have no flair for those. It makes no sense for you to expect others to like what you like. By this posts, you guys have successfully proven that you are responsible for the boring conversations you have. When you attract the wrong kind of people, you get the corresponding response from them. Need I remind you that by going political with your chats all the time, they too will be seeing you as some boring nerds who only talks about "the problems of the world". Now how does that make you a lively conversationist? Attract people of like minds and interests and see how well you flow when you gist. Otherwise, do well by yourselves and take pryme 's suggestion above. 7 Likes |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by Nobody: 6:17am On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage: I think most Nigerian women don't really debate issues when there is a potential suitor interested in them, in case the guys end up labelling them as too intelligent, argumentative or stubborn. The Nigerian guys ego is very fragile, so most women act less intelligent or don't debate issues to pander to their lack of self esteem. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by pryme(m): 6:37am On Sep 05, 2017 |
kmcutez: Different strokes for different folks they say, me on the other hand is looking for a lady that will keep me on my toes (intelectually). Expressing her self to the fullest being her own person. I don't want to believe ladies will also enjoy the silent treatment or one word response to guys they find attractive. Fine if the guy is not cutting it, or he is not breaking the ice, why not tell him off? Let him know your are not interested? Or better still tell him "you are boring me". But no that won't happen, cos it's normal (in this parts). This is why Akim had to live Africa to go find a Wife in America {Coming To America } because of the bolded. 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by ayokellany: 6:57am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Evaberry: Lol... Am assuming that is because they ain't talking Tonto Dikeh ...ROTFL. 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 8:20am On Sep 05, 2017 |
kmcutez:yes i woudnt say you are not true,but to be sincere with you,many men get turn on with a very intelligent and witty lady who's very vast in different spheres of life.Be it as it may be,its only a 'mediocre' that see such a lady has "too knowing".When i know shes going to pass that 'trait' to my offspring. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 8:30am On Sep 05, 2017 |
hartson:you are not far from the truth,many ladies exhibit these behavioural traits,except some few have gone beyond excessively obsess with irrelevant issues that thosint add any tangible value to your life. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 8:48am On Sep 05, 2017 |
@chikk.Yes,am aware of individual differences coming from; different backgrounds, biological composition, social millieu and education which plays a large role in the attitude,behaviour,cognitive,perception of how "man" view a social phenomena.Even at that,man is dynamic in nature, as such he's insatiable,quit sure we have our !preference' whic stems from our 'instrinsic or extrinsic value'in life,but it cost us nothing to be versatile.I love politics,critical thinking,music,research,but i also averagely have some ideas on fashion,entertainment gist,celebrities issues which i thosint really fancy.I agree with the likes mind you said,have meet a couple of ladies that beat my imagination the way they analize issues ranging from social issues and social problems,but to be true with you,the 'bulk population' of our female folks cant hold an entensive convo with you at these different dimensions of life. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by MrCork: 8:49am On Sep 05, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: ![]() |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by Ginaz(f): 8:49am On Sep 05, 2017 |
I can hold a conversation to any length, even if I don't know much about a particular topic I try to be humorous and jovial. The only downside is I'm an introvert (always indoors) ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by MrCork: 8:51am On Sep 05, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20: ...so u love men but hate women...... corrrrect?...do u realise being gay is 14year imprisonment?[..SMH!!! ![]() |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by Nobody: 8:58am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Most ladies cannot hold an interesting, enlightening conversation. Because they're limited in knowledge (bimboes with only fashion and celebrity gossip knowledge), conversations with them are limited too. Also, most ladies on social network are very boring chatters. Most of them would just type 'Hi' and let you carry on the conversation while they'll be busy replying 'lol', 'yeah' and 'kkk'. The day you're not in the mood to chat, the conversation dies a painful death in seconds. I used have a female friend who's versed in everything...music (a lover of rap), education (highly intellectual), football (an avid Chelsea fan) etc. She could hold a conversation for hours. 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 9:11am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Ginaz:this the clue to the type of lady i am saying,even if you didnt have an indepth idea on the topic, atleast have some ideas it makes the 'convo' flow.Wonther,why we have to borrow courses in our days in 'versity',irrespective of our courses is to be dynamics and vast in our endeavour.Spot on |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by jericco1(m): 10:41am On Sep 05, 2017 |
When she can't keep up an intelligent conversation, and can't explain herself. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by jericco1(m): 10:45am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Evaberry:why that?...seems you've got what it takes |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by jericco1(m): 10:46am On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage:spot on |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 1:49pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
jericco1:i hope you got the point. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by ceezarhh(m): 1:56pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
How she converses, whether in person or on social media... |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by jericco1(m): 2:20pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage:yea |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by agrovick(m): 2:51pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
SgtKisswhere: You are a wise man |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by donMIG(m): 5:24pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Wen shes not laffin at my nuty jokes Wen she claims 2 b a big girl no doesnt call *a nigga cant b callin u all d tym Wen she wldnt go for a walk wit me Wen she wldnt watch one of dos horror movies wit me..hahahahah. Lov dat...ofcos i mean if she watches n laffs at me wen i get scared Wen she claims 2 b a gud girl ![]() |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by hartson(m): 6:19pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage:I have engaged quite a lot of them during conversations. 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 6:40pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
hartson:you are on point.It turns me off,when a gorgeous lady have nothing in her uper echelon.Bitter truth,very few of them are versatile,thats why you see some men prefer to have a heart to heart talk with their frends rather than their spouse/gf 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by SgtKisswhere: 7:21pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Nomfanelo99:Exactly or at least that's what I thought.....but some peeps even with the whole OBVIOUS sparks nd reactions from the chemistry still are poor conversationalists....noted I am not there yet but I try to put in the effort |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by hartson(m): 8:42pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage:like really?? |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by walepackage(m): 8:45pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
hartson:i hope you aint having a 'dull' moment.Stay bless man. 1 Like |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by hartson(m): 8:54pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
walepackage:Sure,Cheers Man. |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by chikk(f): 3:03am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Lol, I'm eating popcorn and zobo on top all these comments I read here. Y'all should try brains before beauty for a change guys, sometimes it helps. You get attracted by the looks, and when the brain turns out empty, you feel disappointed. Well, deal with it. Meet them at their level, or go for what's available at YOUR level. And I mean that both ways because ladies complain about boring guys too. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by chikk(f): 3:11am On Sep 06, 2017 |
SgtKisswhere: A beautiful lady who knows she's beautiful is very self conscious and probably thinks of herself first before any other thing. She'd rather be the topic than engage in another. And frankly sometimes, same applies to her day to day relationship with people. She's gorgeous!! She's got all the looks and shitz like you want, probably cooks well and turns your head in bed, knows her job and does it well, and you still want her to talk politics and shits? Lol, you can't have it all paapi, sorry, just compromise biko ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by Nomfanelo99(f): 7:39am On Sep 06, 2017 |
SgtKisswhere: you should also let them try and put more effort |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by DanielGb(m): 9:47am On Sep 06, 2017 |
Evaberry: Aren't you borring |
Re: What Makes A Woman Boring To You? by DanielGb(m): 9:54am On Sep 06, 2017 |
You guys are the pinnacle of your own problem. You have to be concern about your happiness first. Then, think in terms of friendship. In truth, most ladies are borring but you know what, it depends on how you are able to explore her deeper part. She will give you everything easily. The thing to do is just to 'tease'. Teasing is a wow factor. When you do that reward her with some honesty and there you go. It will lead to equal investment. 1 Like |
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