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Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nwaoma198(f): 2:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
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Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Marib: 6:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I was just reading comments only but some people's response makes me amazed. Are some people commenting outside Nigeria at all? For my are, there are 10s of families that I know that don't even have a combined income of what op has. I know it won't be easy since the lady is a student. But students too hustle. Let ur lady do something but not one that will disrupt her studies. Above all, you are young so trust in God and u will go places. Seems this is a counter thread, where are the mods? cc: lalasticlala, royalroy 4 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Sarang(f): 6:17am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I wish you the best.. if people plan things the way you did, not many will be in after marital debt. I really hope for the best for you Mr. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Oyindidi(f): 6:18am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Nukualofa:No mind her, dey form watin no dey her blood. Fine dear, you? 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Sarang(f): 6:23am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missnawty: You don't need to have a wedding debt, a simple wedding like ops will do. A simple room for a start will do.Life after wedding , that's what matters. It's all about priorities.. You too can do it! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nukualofa: 7:26am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Oyindidi:We kajad. How Mr B |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by jay7(m): 7:26am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I wish you all the best. |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Oyindidi(f): 7:31am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Nukualofa:He is doing great, fada? |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Dshocker(m): 8:00am On Sep 07, 2017 |
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Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Dshocker(m): 8:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
They are not rare. They are everywhere. OP, is very discerning that's why he could pick her out of all the karashikas. Some of you want a girl with the so called 'slay queen' looks and body ...someone you can flaunt around as high class babe. That's how you guys end up ignoring the modest babe because she doesn't look overly flashy. When slayqueen slays una pocket, you come to NL and shout all girls are the same. Start observing pre-wedding pictures henceforth. Watch how modest young men go for modest young women. The best thing that can happen to anyone...male or female, is to know your size, it's not an insult...it's for ones peace of mind. [/quote] Are you saying that ugly girls make a good wife,more than the beautiful looking queens around¿ 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Truckpusher(m): 8:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:Shift lemme follow you and cry for him ![]() |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by LukeLook: 8:51am On Sep 07, 2017 |
One word for you: NYSC |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nobody: 8:52am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I am forced to respond to this thread, I work in a private firm, got married 2 yes ago on a 120k per month sal. Company restructured and slashed sal to 65k for me, mind you, those considered expendable lost their jobs. My wife, a student I am training, currently have a 1,year old son. Believe me we are not hungry. How do we cope: a careful breakdown. FOOD... We buy what we can consume every month end on this basis. Rice-2 painter=#3600 Beans-1 painter=#1800 Garri-2panter=#1600 Yams. =#2000 Egg crate=#800 Red oil, big eva can =#900 G oil, same size. =#800 Ingredients, maggi, pepper, salt, onions etc=#1000 Total=#12500. Gas #2000 actually #1800 for 5kg bringing total to #14500 My son now eats adult food along golden morn Golden morn 2 big pack=#1500 Milk...123 peak for kids 2=#1800 Usual drugs for children, bonabebe, paracetamol, cold drugs etc =#1500 Total=#4800 Actual cooking We cook once in a month and stock in d freezer, all we need do everyday is boil rice and make EBA. Or rather cook yam porridge or yam n egg. To cook soup, egusi and ogbon, Egusi 12cups is #1200, my wife also buys ogbono 1500,, tomato fruit and canned and fresh pepper for stew #1500. Meat to cook all 3=#6000, other things she may buy like vegetables n kpomo etc#1000, total =#11200 Other bills CTL cable TV #3200 Light =#1000 Waste mgt=500 Fuel for gen, 1k per WK=4000 My recharge n data=3000 Wify recharge n data=2000, I call more lol Her hair and cream, I don't know her she partitions it is #4000 Total=#17700 Grand total is #48200, So I simply give her 50k monthly to pay for everything at the end of every month. And yes unless you are blind, you can see we are well covered, mind you she and not me drew up our new spending pattern, what a good wife should be able to do. I save a mandatory 15000k every month, which is #180k per annum, I live in a 2 bedroom flat of 150k, with finance falling down, I simply rented out d guest room for 70k, call me greedy, mind you my guest room has no access to my living room and master room, I only share kitchen, now I only have to pay 80k per annum. .I still have change. I make bold to say we live very comfortably. Am I making plans to up my finances again YES. I only made this break down in support of op, from his breakdown, he may not live to even my now manageable standard, but he can, because he has focus. Lastly we have a good ride, but mostly used socially and for church, I don't fuel or maintain my car from salary, occasional once in a while free cash maybe from office runs does that, everyone who works must have that loose free office change from one or two racket. Moral..... LIFE IS ABOUT VISION, WHOEVER CANNOT MAKE ANYTHING OUT OF 35K WILL MAKE NOTHING OUT OF 200K, BECAUSE THE HIGHER YOU GO, THE BIGGER YOUR TASTE. I CUT DOWN MY TASTE, WE HAD A PAID HOUSE MAID AND A LAUNDRY GUY TOO, COMBINE SALARY OF 25K, MY WIFE DOES THAT NOW, WE USED TO PUT ON GEN EVERY NIGHT THERE IS NO LIGHT, NOW UNLESS, THERE IS CONSECUTIVE OUTAGE, DUE TO FOOD IN D FRIDGE, NO NEED AND YES WE DO HAVE NEPA LIGHT AT LEAST 10 HOURS EVERYDAY, I USED TO DRIVE TO GO AND BUY ORDINARY AKARA, NO MORE, I USED TO BE AN OMELORA, NO MORE NOW. IF YOU LACK FOCUS, YOUR EARNING POWER WILL STILL BE MEANINGLESS. 75 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Efewestern: 8:54am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Marib: this gat to show that we have only kids on this forum, I pity those who bring their problem here for matured advice. it's I. e you see comment like "Dude I got my first limo when I was 18" or "Dude hustle tight, 50k is too small for me to manage in a week, am just 20 and I own 5 houses " ![]() ![]() How many people earn about 100k/month in Nigeria? many people earn less than 40k and they're happily married, the wife will be working so she can take care of some stuff. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by 1miccza: 8:54am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Talk is cheap. Na for battle we dey know how far 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by win2kwire: 8:57am On Sep 07, 2017 |
The issue in Nigeria is not marriage, two people can marry and poll their resources together to survive. THE PROBLEM IN NIGERIA IS PEOPLE HAVING CHILDREN WHEN THEY CANNOT AFFORD THEM, THEY MASS BREED AND THEN THE CHILDREN END UP AS CRIMINALS, SELLING GALA IN THE STREETS, ACTING AS HOUSE HELPS AND DISGRACING NIGERIA ON THE WAY TO LIBYA/EUROPE! MAJORITY OF NIGERIAN CHILDREN ARE UNPLANNED AND UNAFFORDABLE! IT HAS LED TO OVERPOPULATION, POVERTY AND DESTITUTION! That is the biggest tragedy in Nigeria not marriage! 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by wickyyolo: 8:59am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Thanks for the encouragement 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Akalia(m): 8:59am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:pity yourself. Time wasting slayqueen. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Katyusha(m): 9:00am On Sep 07, 2017 |
donpata:Bro, don't bow to pressure and end up in an unhappy marriage grinding along with a ruthless economy. Save some of your earnings and find an investment. Marriage is only a status symbol in Underdeveloped countries of the world. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
From my assumption, u are from d northern part of the country like u rightly said different stroke for different folks.u don't play dat kind of play down south here ànd u fail to tell us that ur family n friends paid for ur wedding.what works for u might not work for d next person. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by rheether(f): 9:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Akalia: Idiot is every lady a slay queen? 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Antoeni(m): 9:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
HML |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Donjazzy12(m): 9:02am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:Pity yourself lesbian slay mama! |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by kaptainp(m): 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Bro I hail thee. Rare to see people start small (from where they are) everyone wants to start from the top... Make I save this page first. In fact I go begin follow u for NL... |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by boringnigerian: 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Dude, thus your fire brigade approach to getting married - not a good idea! At all! Even couples that both earns upwards of 100k without kids are facing financial challenges and you want to start a family on 35,000? That is very optimistic but in marriage, optimism is not enough. Optimism doesn't pay bills. Once you marry, you are now earning for two not one any more. Even if you don't have kids, lots of other expenses can and will crop up. We don't pray for sickness but what happens if either of you needs to visit a hospital for one reason or the other? The last time I was hospitalized with malaria, my bill after less than two days was 32k! That's almost your entire salary. And the worst thing you would do is start a family and then start borrowing or taking out loans because that is, sincerely, a bad idea. Besides, what's the rush? Why not wait till she is done with school and earning a salary too - at least your joint incomes would be a stronger footing to start your family on. Abi you're scared she'd leave you before then ni? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Tamarapetty(f): 9:06am On Sep 07, 2017 |
that's how we economists roll ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by sharpwriter(m): 9:06am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:lolz...why? |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Akalia(m): 9:06am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:yes idiot, you sounded and look like one 6 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Emeka71(m): 9:07am On Sep 07, 2017 |
queennsekxy:I was wondering as well ; probably by the time he starts paying kids school fees his babe would have started earning. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by tartarus(m): 9:07am On Sep 07, 2017 |
OP I really pity you. Why?! Life is very unexpected, you don't always get what you want. Sure, you've planned your life but you don't know what life has planned for you. At all!. Life will fckk you in the butthole ![]() I Really really pity you! Why the rush for marriage in Nigeria?? |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by rheether(f): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2017 |
No Donjazzy12: Your mother is a Lesbian. Is every woman a slay queen? Fool! 3 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Jagabanmonerry(m): 9:09am On Sep 07, 2017 |
edoman2016:Lagos of today are not meant for poor folks, Imagine someone getting a room n parlor for just 55k. Infact, North does it. That money alone is not even enough to pay for agreement and Commission. North is loading..... Lag is just a poo. 3 Likes |
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