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Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by kobijacobs(m): 9:10am On Sep 07, 2017 |
you are brave and very positive about life. God will see us all through |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nobody: 9:11am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Even if I respect the OP for engaging in a honest means of making ends meet, i must say that I find this thread irritating and nauseating. I refuse to be infected by this poverty mindset. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by boringnigerian: 9:11am On Sep 07, 2017 |
kaptainp: My brother, it's not a starting from the top something. It's what we have learnt from people's experiences. You don't build a family on optimism and best wishes - it takes resources. And the fact is that once he marries the babe, her family would practically wash their hands off her financially and she becomes his responsibility full time. You think all these people with plenty children they can't take care didn't hope that things were going to get better as time goes on? Even those that start a family with enough resources are not secure. One financial emergency and your resources are gone and you start knocking on friends, relatives and in-laws doors to borrow money. Take the reality of country into consideration and you would know that starting a family on a meager salary is not a good idea. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by smirn(m): 9:11am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Bible story. Who never go nor go know. Your story be wan sweet but your inexperience thoughts kon spoil everything. Try to improve in your next post. |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by sharpwriter(m): 9:11am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Oyindidi:No mind am... even with PhD, where the job guarantee for this buhari era |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Acidosis(m): 9:12am On Sep 07, 2017 |
You're wise man Now to the dunces here, this guy earns 35k monthly on the payroll of Kaduna State Government. All civil servants in the world start from a low/average grade level. Those castigating you are too dunce to realise that in the next 8-10 years, you'd be earning nothing less than 300,000-400,000, all things being equal. If you push harder with your Masters and PhD, you're over qualified to be a Permanent Secretary, a Director of Local Govt or a Commissioner in your Ministry. By the time you rise to grade level 13 or 14, majority of the women condemning you here wouldn't turn down a side chick or baby mama offer from you. This is the problem with many Nigerians, so short-sighted. A lot of persons have already destroyed you with evil comments because of your current Salary. You're wise bruv, your woman is wise too... You've made a very strategic move. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Malawian(m): 9:13am On Sep 07, 2017 |
donpata:instead of make you suffer alone, you want bring innocent kid to follow you suffer. go and price infant baby formula, ABI na ogi you go give am? |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by honourable356(m): 9:14am On Sep 07, 2017 |
THAT TWO PLOT OF LAND NAILED IT!!!!! OTHERWISE.... Well,if I can predict the future accurately, I will say I'm impressed at your logical reason but let all things work for your good along the way. Best wish!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by slimmax: 9:14am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Guy you just made the (my)list. Abeg give me the handout wey you read. nice post |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by jwax: 9:15am On Sep 07, 2017 |
when you achieve all that, you can come back but first tell us your other sources of income cos from your post, u spend too much. someone on 35k stipend after feeding what's left? |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Acidosis(m): 9:16am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Your future is soo secure, in fact, more secure than many out there. You're a civil servant with a Masters and a PhD in view.. Whoever insults you because of your current salary is myopic and f00lish. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by folks4luv(f): 9:16am On Sep 07, 2017 |
i can remember i got into an argument with someone recently about marrying a low-income earner, i said i will rather marry a guy with lots of brain than one with a large income with lil brain and op just proved me right. Believe me, it won't be easy, Op will face lots of challenges, but though i dont know him, i am confident he will come out stronger and better. i wonder why men like op are just so scarce 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by nonjebose(m): 9:19am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Interesting peice. Op, i respect your courage. The wedding is never as important as the many years ahead. There is nothing as good as detailed planing. Wish you all the best |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Teespice(f): 9:20am On Sep 07, 2017 |
greatnaija01: I totally agree with your opinion. a follow up thread to this one will go a long way to either encourage those who want to tow this line or otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by boldndbeautiful(f): 9:20am On Sep 07, 2017 |
OP, i aint discouraging you, just voicing out what i think. you are able to manage 35k because of your location, i wont advice any young man living in places like, lagos, ph and the rest of them to get married with that salary and no other source of income. You said blocks in kd cost #20 ![]() Remove your tithe from that 35k, transport, feeding, house rent and other necessarry bills, my dear u will be left with little or nothing. congratulations in advance, and a happy married life I wish ya. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nobody: 9:22am On Sep 07, 2017 |
edoman2016: True talk bro. The truth those 2k , 4k, 10, etc we think are nothing and thus spend having fun could amount to something. Bible talked some much about planning.. yes some things may not go according to plan but you will surely find things earsier if you can plan, be disciplined enough to a bid by your plan. @.Op. You will agree with me that the standard of living is cheaper in the north than south. Blocks for 20N ? You won't get it for 100N in the remote island in the heart of the mangrove swamps I call country home. You also have family and friends, not everyone has that. Weddings are cheaper in the north, but no matter how you try to cut cost, you will still spend a huge some of not less than 300k assuming it's traditional wedding without more. I like the way you planned it out and every body both married and single should take a clue from your deligence. But this will hardly work in the south and pls don't even come close to Lagos. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by lereinter(m): 9:22am On Sep 07, 2017 |
rheether:must u comment... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by KingMicky3286: 9:23am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Okay thats 100$ a month. I dey laugh you in obj voice. How much is baby milk. Pampers, pap, how much is a pot of soup. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by feezy48(m): 9:24am On Sep 07, 2017 |
God Bless you bro ![]() |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by eleojo23: 9:25am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Why are people taking panadol for the OP's headache? The message is clear: cut your clothe according to your size. It is not a bid to justify poverty. Just like someone said, it doesn't matter if you earn 1million or 30k monthly, if you fail to plan, you will still run into debt... The OP seems like a focused person who has his life well planned out. We know that life doesn't always go as planned most times but at least have a plan and stick to it. I wish OP all the best. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by nonjebose(m): 9:26am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Acidosis:Exactly! He is even a civil servant, with all the opportunities for promotons and job security. The girl is a sharp babe, smarter than some others on this forum 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Paretomaster(m): 9:27am On Sep 07, 2017 |
queennsekxy: I believe they will cope well, life ain't that expensive in the North.. .. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by notttty(m): 9:28am On Sep 07, 2017 |
This one weak me. How can you be so passionate to analyse poverty. Yes im the kind that hayes when money comes before other things. I believe in a humble beginnings. But guy I'm not sure if you gonna sail thru except things change to your favour which I pray for. There is a reason people keep getting poorer cos we don't think well. Among all your analysis you Forgot to include emergency medical trois to the clinic especially middle of the month when salary is exhausted already. Mind you this is no Yankee . Your plans to get married is a good one but wrong for your income. I don't even know what to say sef. God be with you sha but remember he will not come down to give you cash. You still gat to hustle. Did I read you planning on a mood brick. Yeah I know u already. My kaduna south brothers. Anyway food acuff are cheap there sha. Zonkwa an co Areas 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by shadeyinka(m): 9:28am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missnawty: Life isn't like that. A man I know used to work in GLO, when Glo was Glo and he had money, 2 cars even before marriage. One year after, he lost his job. He began to do home lesson for children. Total income now cannot be more than 30k per month...and he has a wife and two children. The wife hasn't got a job. Equations do change 3 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by einsteine(m): 9:29am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Well, the OP doesn't live in Lagos or Port Harcourt or Abuja. Plus he has a whole LOT of support. If you earn 35k in Lagos, any time marriage comes to your mind, rebuke it. 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by MdRabx(m): 9:30am On Sep 07, 2017 |
This post is a very motivational one, one of the best ve seen here on NL, though it also depends on environment, the cost of living in Kd is cheaper compared to other states and as a young man, one needs to think like a man, wish and pray for God's mercies, glory and favour.. I really like the way you carefully explained comprehensively how you planned on settling down with your salary, being poor sometimes is a thing of the mind and thats why we should learn to appreciate even the little with we have and aspire for more so honestly a big kudos to the poster.. Am also serving in kaduna and hoping to stay back after nysc to start mylife here 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by kaptainp(m): 9:32am On Sep 07, 2017 |
boringnigerian: Bro I'm not saying it would be easy but with that level of planning even when challenges come they'll be easy to handle. Besides I live in the north... Cost of living is not as high as that in d south. |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by eejo(m): 9:32am On Sep 07, 2017 |
35k under buhari govt well i have no comment but if it is during Goodluck regime i will support you but under this change hummmm |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Onedibe1: 9:33am On Sep 07, 2017 |
You must be yoruba.. |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by Nobody: 9:33am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I rili love the analysis of the OP tho...But seriously this world is truly ironic! I earn 13 times what the OP earns yet I'm not married and I'm 32 years! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by godfrey01(m): 9:33am On Sep 07, 2017 |
A veryy nice and informative post for the young that are yet to get married.. person like me 1 Like |
Re: I Am 30yrs, Earn 35k A Month And Will Marry A Student In A Months Time. by lympy: 9:34am On Sep 07, 2017 |
May Go bless the days of your humble beginings. "Your not in this world to live up to peoples expectations and They are not in this world to live up to theirs" You will have a lot of challenges but will scale through so long as youre marrying a virtuous woman . I ve seen couples who started worse off. Imagine using bag of rice as your seat. lol... 3 Likes 1 Share |
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