guy go find money. you are poor, girls don't like poor and jobless guys. they are pest to them, ur girl don't c better person wet go dey buy am better gifts not pant and bra, stupid boy u better face ur studies and look for how to make money.mumu

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
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when a girl start acting up as in start showing or giving you attitude. I use to ask myself one question is she worth the stress? If she is you continue and if she is not please let her be. secondly u said this is you first relationship so I don't blame me u need a lot of experience. Please don't call her again human being don't like it when you start disturbing them. she will call you when she is ready to talk to you.

Take this advice seriously. These are what you need in these order. 1. Take your studies seriously. Very seriously. If you enter into woman problems now you are gone in life. No matter how beautiful a girl is, u will another more beautiful or manners than her.

2. Finish your studies. Look for money. If you have money, 1 million girl will fight for you. When you are educated and rich.


3. Women. You can then play with them as much as you want.

Remember. Do not invest your heart in anybody. We are all capable of putting up any character. Even you can decide to walk away. The only thing permanent is change.

My dear am a lady, and trust me when a girl starts acting like that means she is 'TIRED' and probably do not know how to tell you or she has one guy somewhere washing her brain, making her feel he is better than you.

It hurts, but you have to move on with your life. You have a long way ahead of you, you will meet girls of different characters, size just name it.

You will regret it later if you allow this incidence disturb your studies, and you will also realise that it wasn't worth it.

Are you sure she doesn't have a boyfriend, you could be just a friend to her.

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

face your book!

you are still in sch for God sake!

when you learn that women are nothing but just a piece of shiit! you can reach any height in life

OP ain't shagging the poosey...POOsey cant just lie fallow like that


E be like say na Bold1 OP dey use

FutureLeader00:

I didn't do anything wrong, I kept asking myself what have I done wrong I couldn't get it..Thanks big bro

U didnt do anything wrong! Probably got tired of all ur loveydovey!

Can u just fecking man up!

Go befriend one badass nigga arnd u, make e hook u up wit d oloshos. U sound loaded, buy pussies, till u build up ur confidence abeg!

Right now, luv is dead in naija! Money speaks!

AlanTuringAI:
Never knew Nairaland has been overtaken by kids. No wonder the childish and plain senseless comments from most commentators.

Exactly. Such foolishness we see here are mostly from people who have zero clue what life is or how to live. It's possible he's 17, 18 or even 16 and we are here advising a child, who can't even take care of himself or understands himself, on how to take care of another complex human being.

Thallyheart:
Come let's date I won't snub you

na me make u date, am single
Am fresh graduate

See below

@ op
You mind is need to be restructured back to default setting.
Most of the guys who commented were ones in your shoes, you should put your purpose and plan for future closet to you than a girl. Girls aren't worth the dilemma, guess you need a therapist because all this words wouldn't stop you at night from thinking about her and calling to beg ones more. Undergraduate love story has just ended

Whenever I read a story where a beloved is hurting the lover I remember how that bastard deceived me. OP she is seeing someone else and looking for an excuse to dump you. Forget her and never speak with her again.

But you won't listen to me, it is the lover's curse. We all must go through it at least once.

bro,to be frank with you,your babe have seen another guy who she thinks is better than you that's why she's acting up .

She wants to end the relationship but don't want to come out straight.

na their way be that when dey don get new bobo,just free her and move on.

As for the gifts,u can bring it to my side make I give my girlfriend her birthday na this Sunday.after all na still bday gift

Let me b sincere with u. U have lost ur priority that is ur education suffers because of a girl hmm mm. Then u Wil might want to commit suicide if she leave abi? Abeg wise up and stop behaving like a coward. If I may ask which school in osun?

Some people in ur life may only serve as distractions. Focus on your studies and on improving yourself bro.

The truth is, she never loved you. Move on bri

Still a learner in relationships u need 2 grow up & move on.

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

you should be engulfed to your CGPA

BluntBoy:


Face your studies. She probably got tired of you. Don't call her again for now. Either of these things would happen:

1. She would come back to you.

or

2. She would never come back.

If the second one happens, you have to take it like a man.

You should have stopped at FACE YOUR STUDIES

ikp120:
A typical pussy nigga!

You have handed over your balls to her, now she is controlling you by the balls.

She was at her real boyfriend's place when you were calling that day. She obviously slept over. All the proof you need are inside her phone.


Just delete everything about her. Don't call her again or even text her. If she call, DO NOT pick. DO NOT chat with her or reply her texts.

Next time, DO NOT ever tell a girl that you love her. DO NOT ever apologise to a girlfriend. It's all a game to them so you should be sharp enough to spot her moves and beat her to it, and grab and control her by the pussy (just the way they grab and control pussy niggas by the balls).

Girls know how to play this game very well but the guys who should have sense are super stupid!

She told you that you're not caring enough in order to shoot the ball into your court ( unconsciously or consciously using reverse psychology on you). Instead of you to be angry with her, you will now be apologising to her.

Use your head! Girls are not complex! It's pussy niggas that are very very stupid and naive!

men!!! I like it when guyz with brains talk....... Dnt u e'er tell a gul u love her.......... Guy u get sense tumbs up brov.

Maybe she's on her period . Just give her some time

fatymore:
Mumu.. Lover boy.. Face your book joor and leave the underage gal alone

Your fellow girls above dropped a sensible comment that will help the dude in question.
But as for you...... I don't even know where you came out from!!!
I weak for you.

I dont understand hw u will buy dos tins urself, wen u could ve given her d money. u know her size for pant and bra? d kind of material dat her skin wont react to? d type of pad she uses either for heavy or light flow? not to mention d colour self... one last question "Why her name carry d title "work" in bracket? sometin is missing somewhere? least i forget i notice u like to address urself as gentleman, while gentlemen at dis stage in ur life face dia education and try to get d best foundation for dia future

The girl have no single love for u again. U are just fooling urself by pestering her. LEAVE THE BITCH ALONE AND FACE UR STUDIES!!

May that panties fall on u if u ever call the bitch again,,,if she call back no pick am,,we get many girls wey go appreciate half of what u r doing

fatymore:
Mumu.. Lover boy.. Face your book joor and leave the underage gal alone

and he should rather come for u ba?

Before Goat Come Out For Street Come Dance Their Must Be A Paid Piper Somewhere In The Bush Playing A Sweet Melody For It... Baba From My Own Experience I'd Say Dump Her, She's No Longer Interested In You. It's Either They've Told Her She's Too Good For You Or She Has Seen One Bastard Like That Has Promised Her Marriage & Wealth. Yes Naa Because Our People Say "Cassava No Dey Just Town To Tapioka Over Night It Must have Undergone Some Processes" & Since She Changed Over Night Something Must Have Trigered It... See Oga Just Forget Her, She's Gone!!!.. The Earlier You Forget Her Now The Better. Before You Turn Adekunle Gold Against Simi And She Has Even Started Refusing To ANSWER YOUR CALLUU OH.. Just take Heart Ooh Yoruba Girls Are Just Fund Of Breaking Hearts Or Loving The Highest Bidder I Was Once A Victim, But Now I'm Dating An Igbo Girl And She Thinks The Sun Shines Out Of My Ass.. Nigga She Adores Me, Upon Sey Over Fine Dey Worry Her, No Seriously, You Know Igbo Girls Naa And She Hold Money Pass Me X 100

The same pant and undies she go wear go visit other guys when you go back to school and when you come back sey you wan play with her na those old tear tear pant and undies she go take welcome you so dat your prick go hiss when e see dem

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

OP why are you dating a small girl? That girl you are dating is not more than 22years,am I right ?She is behaving like the last child of the family .Very childish! Just because of birthday .....nonsense.
Abeg dump the girl before she dumps you ..and your academics starts suffering.My guy dump her now o ..because she is about dumping you like used tissue paper .Just because of birthday celebration. Arrant nonsense!
OP will she even buy a cheap t- shirt for you on your birthday this one you are wasting the money you were supposed to use for your academics on her? Nor buy any thing for her again.
In fact, spend every seconds on your academics from today so that you can make 5.0 and let's see if the finest and sweetest babes in school will not be praying to God for you to be their boyfriend.
Go and read your books o and leave the child that calls herself your girlfriend alone

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

you need Harddon in your life. visit his thread in the romance section immediately and start from page 0