So I have a friend whose been married for 3 years now she has a daughter, she is Southafrican but her husband is Nigerian Yoruba guy...
She went through his laptop where she found messages to an old fling back in Nigeria he told the lady he Loves Her
Long story short she now want to leave him because she said it's the same as cheating even though the guy has begged ans swore he hasn't been with anyone else since they got married.

Thought please...

Cc mynd44 lalasticlala

It is. However, should she leave ? Her choice.

Well, it's so unfortunate

left to me, she is married, she should take things slow and not just use bcoz of that and end her marriage.

assuming they were still dating, It would be a different case.

most guys are like that

At times we should just not kill ourselves on top another person matter...

If she wants to leave, na her kasala be that.. If she wan stay, we ain't forcing her too..

After all he who seeks for something, he will find it. Shebi she was pucknosing , and she found what she was looking for..

men and lies..even when they are married they are still not satisfied. ..well,your friend knows what's best for her..,,it's better to stay single and happy than to die of disease and frustrations..
alas,marriage isn't for all.

Lalas247:
So I have a friend whose been married for 3 years now she has a daughter, she is Southafrican but her husband is Nigerian Yoruba guy...
She went through his laptop where she found messages to an old fling back in Nigeria he told the lady he Loves Her
Long story short she now want to leave him because she said it's the same as cheating even though the guy has begged ans swore he hasn't been with anyone else since they got married.

Thought please...

Cc mynd44 lalasticlala

Na wa

rosalieene:
Well, it's so unfortunate

left to me, she is married, she should take things slow and not just use bcoz of that and end her marriage.

assuming they were still dating, It would be a different case.

most guys are like that

what if the guy is a chronic cheat, ,and maybe gives her one dangerous disease like that??isn't it better she leaves the marriage cos certainly she is no longer comfortable with the marriage.

SouthAfrican Lady + Nigerian Man = Tragedy..

sekxyqueen:

what if the guy is a chronic cheat, ,and maybe gives her one dangerous disease like that??isn't it better she leaves the marriage cos certainly she is no longer comfortable with the marriage.

unless that.....

now, she should do her investigations first.

Act like all is well for now and do her investigations.

ppl don't just jump out of marriage because of a chat.... most guys can really be crazy.

It's so unfortunate, assuming she was dating him, I would have advised that she dump his silly ass.

she knows who she got married to more than the OP and Us.

This is funny sha.

One of the most inportant things people have to understand before getting married is that your partner is not the last person you will be attracted to, not the last person you will fall in love with and not the last person you will want to have sex with. If you can accept this and also see that you are not the last person your partner will love , you can move forward.

While the information you gave is vague but telling someone you love person or still love them is NOT cheating. It is you admitting how you feel. Now if he choose to act on those feelings, it is different kettle of fish.

But then there are two things to (sacarstically) consider here.

Men are scum: See all men are cheats and disgusting dogs and you can't trust any of us so that man is obviously thrash

Yourba men are demons: She married a yoruba demon . It is said that the only marriage a yoruba man is faithful in is an open marriage.

EmperorLee:
SouthAfrican Lady + Nigerian Man = Tragedy..

lol talking from experience?

Nomfanelo99:


lol talking from experience?

Loads of experience marmee

Flirting shows cheating tendencies. But leaving because she caught him flirting is foolish. This is not some Cinderella Story where the couple live happily ever after. Confront him! Marriage is an institution where you dialogue.
When you catch him again after confronting him, then you can leave. But whatever you do, leaving should be the last on the list.

Yes

Is it now a crime to love your fellow human being?

So because I'm married to a particular lady now, i mustn't love anybody else, i should rather hate them

okay

sekxyqueen:

what if the guy is a chronic cheat, ,and maybe gives her one dangerous disease like that??isn't it better she leaves the marriage cos certainly she is no longer comfortable with the marriage.

you people and divorce... Forgetting there are children in the middle

EmperorLee:


Loads of experience marmee

hahaha thought as much

rosalieene:


unless that.....

now, she should do her investigations first.

Act like all is well for now and do her investigations.

ppl don't just jump out of marriage because of a chat.... most guys can really be crazy.

It's so unfortunate, assuming she was dating him, I would have advised that she dump his silly ass.

she knows who she got married to more than the OP and Us.

yeah,,she should scrupulously investigate into it before she dumps his sorry ass,,atimes some men deserves no mercy!

slyd90:
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Holyfield1:
T

lilmax:
okay

Nutase:
Yes

lelvin:
Okay

HottestFire:

What's all this nah? Citizens of Russia

When you go through someones privacy expecting to see a clean sheet, you end up getting more than what you bargain for.

If the man has shown remorse, what else does she want. How will she feel 2 years after this divorce....If she can answer that, I think that will justify any action now.

So with that kind of booty those SouthAfrican ladies get that guy still won knack naija pussy again.... Na wa o

Big Booty does not keep a man





The way you use it in the other room does

And she had to rub "the tribe" somewhere in there.
OP may sense fall on you

Kiss the truth!

Flirting is an act of .......

he don't love the ex the just want to taste another cocoyam

its means nothing, that doesn't mean that is where his heart belong.

The idea of African women *threatening to leave* their philandering husbands is quite absurd to me. Leave him and then do what? Stay alone or marry another one who is guaranteed to do same?

I'm even talking about habitually cheating women who as girls and women, made a livelihood out of sleeping with different married men (including their bosses at work, lecturers at school, customers in their biz, sugar daddies, 'sponsors', job givers, and other older male benefactors). Now they suddenly want their own husbands to be Snow White angels who wouldn't be 'typical' African men? How the bloody hell does that work?

*Besides, in Nigeria and Africa by extension, marriage is a buyer's market. And of course men are the buyers. I'm not gonna explain what that means. Do your own research and reinterpretation.

Anyway, na too much films and social media dey worry una 'slay queen' minded females. Una never ready to marry. Goan ask your mothers. They know better.