Mynd44:
This is funny sha.

One of the most inportant things people have to understand before getting married is that your partner is not the last person you will be attracted to, not the last person you will fall in love with and not the last person you will want to have sex with. If you can accept this and also see that you are not the last person your partner will love , you can move forward.

While the information you gave is vague but telling someone you love person or still love them is NOT cheating. It is you admitting how you feel. Now if he choose to act on those feelings, it is different kettle of fish.

But then there are two things to (sacarstically) consider here.

Men are scum: See all men are cheats and disgusting dogs and you can't trust any of us so that man is obviously thrash

Yoruba men are demons She married a yoruba demon . It is said that the only marriage a yoruba man is faithful in is an open marriage.

Ximenez:
Is it now a crime to love your fellow human being?

So because I'm married to a particular lady now, i mustn't love anybody else, i should rather hate them

Hilles:


I could bet my ass you ain't even married, cos if you were you won't be advocating for divorce just like that, what he did was highly reprehensible but that doesn't mean things should end between then just like that, I think its time for them to have a long a talk!

Mynd44:
This is funny sha.

One of the most inportant things people have to understand before getting married is that your partner is not the last person you will be attracted to, not the last person you will fall in love with and not the last person you will want to have sex with. If you can accept this and also see that you are not the last person your partner will love , you can move forward.

While the information you gave is vague but telling someone you love person or still love them is NOT cheating. It is you admitting how you feel. Now if he choose to act on those feelings, it is different kettle of fish.

But then there are two things to (sacarstically) consider here.

Men are scum: See all men are cheats and disgusting dogs and you can't trust any of us so that man is obviously thrash

Yourba men are demons: She married a yoruba demon . It is said that the only marriage a yoruba man is faithful in is an open marriage.

hedonistic:
The idea of African women *threatening to leave* their philandering husbands is quite absurd to me. Leave him and then do what? Stay alone or marry another one who is guaranteed to do same?

I'm even talking about habitually cheating women who as girls and women, made a livelihood out of sleeping with different married men (including their bosses at work, lecturers at school, customers in their biz, sugar daddies, 'sponsors', job givers, and other older male benefactors). Now they suddenly want their own husbands to be Snow White angels who wouldn't be 'typical' African men? How the bloody hell does that work?

Na too much films and social media dey worry una. Una never ready to marry. Goan ask your mothers. They know better.

EmperorLee:



Loads of experience marmee

ayokellany:


More like you lack what it takes to sustain a successful union btw both.

sekxyqueen:
men and lies..even when they are married they are still not satisfied. ..well,your friend knows what's best for her..,,it's better to stay single and happy than to die of disease and frustrations..
alas,marriage isn't for all.

SalamRushdie:


The day women know men are wired to fall in love with many women is the day they will finally have peace , all this one man one woman thing is basically just civilization... I am a 100 percent faithful guy till date but three truth is that in course of my activities I get to meet different women I know I like but I use a lot of discipline to shrug it off ..we are wired to love many women at the same time and we can't help it we can just hope to contain it for as long as we can

Lalas247:
So I have a friend whose been married for 3 years now she has a daughter, she is Southafrican but her husband is Nigerian Yoruba guy...
She went through his laptop where she found messages to an old fling back in Nigeria he told the lady he Loves Her
Long story short she now want to leave him because she said it's the same as cheating even though the guy has begged ans swore he hasn't been with anyone else since they got married.

Thought please...

Cc mynd44 lalasticlala

Mynd44:
This is funny sha.

One of the most inportant things people have to understand before getting married is that your partner is not the last person you will be attracted to, not the last person you will fall in love with and not the last person you will want to have sex with. If you can accept this and also see that you are not the last person your partner will love , you can move forward.

While the information you gave is vague but telling someone you love person or still love them is NOT cheating. It is you admitting how you feel. Now if he choose to act on those feelings, it is different kettle of fish.

But then there are two things to (sacarstically) consider here.

Men are scum: See all men are cheats and disgusting dogs and you can't trust any of us so that man is obviously thrash

[s]Yourba men are demons: She married a yoruba demon . It is said that the only marriage a yoruba man is faithful in is an open marriage.[/s]

sekxyqueen:
if he should be the unrepentant chronic cheat..yes,for one's safety cos there many uncountable dangers ahead..they are prone to domestic violence ,,when they see nothing interesting in their wife any longer..they will go extra mile to obliterate her existence. .well it applies to some men though.

sekxy:

rayralph:
A Nairaland mod spewing out anti-Tribal comment

Complete trash talk.

Kindly provide a link to the survey or verified statistics that supports your baseless claims.

Are you sure you've not broken one of Nairaland's rules?!

Perhaps you mods are insulated....

Cc : Seun

sekxyqueen:

that was why I used the word chronic cheat..if he is viable to repentance well,that's okay but if not I think the marriage should be dissolved

ayokellany:

Waiting on your saint husband.

Hilles:

now you talking! well in this case he was caught flirting and not even cheating!
this could be a sign for the wifey to either step up her game or talk to her man more!

dingbang:
seun oya ban mynd44 ...


He said you are a demon

Daeylar:




Mynd44 has entered problem today

laudate:

There was nothing tribalistic about his comment, because he did not cast aspersions on any single ethnic group. He paraphrased another person's earlier comment, to make a generalised statement..... So because he is a mod, he is not allowed to have an opinion again? [s]What about all your[b] pro-Biafra[/b] mods that issue bans left, right & centre, to those who do not agree with their views? [/s]

rayralph:
Blind generalization.... Am not in any way affiliated with such

Trash talk altogether.

laudate:

You keep using the word 'thrash' like it is your middle name. Na wa, o! Oya, make another comment, and put the word 'thrash' inside, since you like it so much!

centoke30:
What's all this nah? Citizens of Russia

Lalas247:
So I have a friend whose been married for 3 years now she has a daughter, she is Southafrican but her husband is Nigerian Yoruba guy...
She went through his laptop where she found messages to an old fling back in Nigeria he told the lady he Loves Her
Long story short she now want to leave him because she said it's the same as cheating even though the guy has begged ans swore he hasn't been with anyone else since they got married.

Thought please...

Cc mynd44 lalasticlala

Lalas247:
So I have a friend whose been married for 3 years now she has a daughter, she is Southafrican but her husband is Nigerian Yoruba guy...
She went through his laptop where she found messages to an old fling back in Nigeria he told the lady he Loves Her
Long story short she now want to leave him because she said it's the same as cheating even though the guy has begged ans swore he hasn't been with anyone else since they got married.

Thought please...

Cc mynd44 lalasticlala