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Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 4:38pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Hi, fellow landers, situation + experience gave me no second choice but to ask this disturbing question I often asked myself on whether or not people still indulge in agape love nowadays. I'm an honest and God fearing guy, in my late twenties and preparing to settle down but the issue is that each lady I hook up with in relationship and try to maintain my faith and keep my cool ends up cheating on me with other guys, the one I'm presently with now claims to be a born again, i love her and i guess she also loves me, in fact we both opted to keep our cools up to our wedding night but it appears that her action has betrayed her supposed intention cos she's already doing the opposite with another guy, at times I would be tempted to make love to her just to satisfy her urge and to stop her from going to seek for it from the other guy but I don't want to betray my faith so I keep my cool, NOTE; I'm not a virgin neither am I looking for a virgin wife, but the truth is that I can't keep on farming while another guy is harvesting my crops, and so curiosity pushed me to ask whether guys/girls still practice agape love in this 21century? |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by NairalandCS(m): 4:51pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Op, You're the definition of Greedy. You no wan chop, and you still no want make another guy chop.
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Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by dukeprince50: 5:06pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
chai, that guy stole my spot. I dedicate this second to comment to the love of my life, the person my Hrt beats for and also the person my girlfriend love the most In other words, I dedicate it to my very self |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by dukeprince50: 5:11pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
I hope this helps
Love cannot help
you stick to one person all year round, and on the
other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not
loving your partner.
In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not
falling in love with someone else. Relationships
work out mostly because of our heads not our
hearts.
It works out because of our emotional maturity,
empathetic intelligence and self discipline;
because, time will come when you'll see more
beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy,
rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one
you're in a relationship with.
In those times, love will not help you. Self control
will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to
your rescue and commitment will keep you going.
With those characteristics, no matter how you feel
for someone else, the person you're committed to
will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't see better
people than the ones they married? You think
they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they
don't catch feelings? They do!
But understanding that commitment is greater
than feelings and is the great arsenal that do
destroy those unhelpful impulses.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a
relationship takes absolutely more than what
attracted you to them and takes more than love.
We are too fond of loving when it's convenient
and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is
there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6
months of the relationship.
After then, you'll realise that the feelings have
dropped and it's now your responsibility to make
the relationship work, not love's responsibility.
Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to
build it and it's never always about love, it
requires commitment and intelligence.
On the long run in marriages, it's not just love
that keeps them together forever, it's
determination and commitment.
Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to
do that. But staying in love? Building a
relationship? Only the strong and committed ones
do that.
That's why we must find that one person and
commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle
your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.
It's always tough. At some point it will be so
bitter but you can make it work by putting your
heads together. You can scale through the trying
times by staying focused and committed.
The kind of love that attracts two people together
is not the kind of love that will keep them |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 7:10pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
dukeprince50:thanks dear, quite encouraging.. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Lalas247(f): 7:12pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
This is serious.. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 7:24pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
NairalandCS:that isn't greediness brother, and the fact that you can't abstain from sexual immoralities should not blur your mind to think that everyone else cannot. A piece if advice for you brother; Risk all it takes to stay out of evil. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 7:32pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
dukeprince50:Lol.. he didn't steal your "spot" what is meant to be is bound to be. meanwhile, what's your take in respect to the topic above? |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 7:38pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Lalas247:yes! quite serious, so what's your answer to the question? |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Lalas247(f): 7:40pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Chibest2000:Need to eat first ... I need calories to type it out |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 7:45pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Lalas247:Lol.. don't be a glutton, have you existed all the calories in your system? Lalas247:Lol.. don't be a glutton, have you existed all the calories in your system? I hope to see your answer when you might have filled up. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by FemiEddy(m): 7:54pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Bro, agape love is rare to find, very rare, u just need to upgrade ur operating system for now, and I pray you get your heart desires |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by Chibest2000(m): 8:22pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
FemiEddy:Thank God they are just being rare and not that they don't exist. a bit relief.. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by schoolbest: 9:47am On Jan 23, 2018 |
FemiEddy:Pls wat does Agape love means?asin when ur gal has agape love u.. |
Re: Does Agape Love Still Exist? by itzudee(f): 9:51am On Jan 23, 2018 |
Plz what is agape love |
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