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What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 2:02pm On Sep 13, 2017
We have been dating for quite sometime, 2 years to be precise, but in the last one year, I have had to deal with guys making passes on my woman.

Everywhere we go together; club, parties and even in the church, I always have this issue of a man hitting on my woman. Not that she is the most beautiful lady in the world, or that she is the sexiest, I just don’t know why guys keep passing compliments and erotic gestures.

Just last week, we were at an hangout together, and it seemed obvious that we were together, yet, guys keep trying to make a move on her.

I don’t want to sound a bit possessive and jealous, but I am bothered emotionally about this. I wonder what happens whenever we are not together.

http://deedeesblog.com/best-way-handle-a-man-hitting-on-my-woman/

cc: lalasticlala
mynd44

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by TheMainMan: 2:05pm On Sep 13, 2017
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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by madridguy(m): 2:07pm On Sep 13, 2017
Build wall around her tongue
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Lalas247(f): 2:12pm On Sep 13, 2017
Don't get possessive it will kill the relationship ...
As long as she doesn't respond to the guys then you have absolutely nothing to worry about

Some guys even like it .. knowing their woman is sort after, it's some sort of Ego boost ..

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by FemiEddy(m): 2:12pm On Sep 13, 2017
Lalas247:
Don't get possessive it will kill the relationship ...
As long as she doesn't respond to the guys then you have absolutely nothing to worry about

Some guys even like it .. knowing their woman is sort after, it's some sort of Ego boost ..

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by LordIsaac(m): 2:15pm On Sep 13, 2017
I had similar experience. It is in the past now as I had to leave her for the earth. Not ɓecause I caesed to love her for I was her first, ɓut for our mutual peace. This is because she ɓecame carrieɗ awaƴ ɓƴ the euphoria; receives almost a hunɗred calls per day in the name of ɓeing social; starteɗ ɓecoming ɗeceptive and not straightforwarɗ; turneɗ ɗisrespectful; alwaƴs consiɗers mƴ admonitions to her to ɓe careful as jealousƴ....hmmm...to cut the long storƴ short, it wasn't worth mƴ life!

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 2:23pm On Sep 13, 2017
LordIsaac:
I had similar experience. It is in the past now as I had to leave her for the earth. Not ɓecause I caesed to love her for I was her first, ɓut for our mutual peace. This is because she ɓecame carrieɗ awaƴ ɓƴ the euphoria; receives almost a hunɗred calls per day in the name of ɓeing social; starteɗ ɓecoming ɗeceptive and not straightforwarɗ; turneɗ ɗisrespectful; alwaƴs consiɗers mƴ admonitions to her to ɓe careful as jealousƴ....hmmm...to cut the long storƴ short, it wasn't worth mƴ life!


WoW!

So you broke up with her?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by paiz: 2:24pm On Sep 13, 2017
madridguy:
Build wall around her tongue
Are you trump?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by LordIsaac(m): 2:29pm On Sep 13, 2017
deturla:



WoW!

So you broke up with her?
4 ƴears experience...it was leaɗing no where. We woulɗ just enɗ up wasting each other's time. Oɓviouslƴ, our ɗefinitions for fiɗelity, ɗiscipline, self concept, ɗecorum anɗ finnesse are ɗifferent.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 2:32pm On Sep 13, 2017
LordIsaac:

4 ƴears experience...it was leaɗing no where. We woulɗ just enɗ up wasting each other's time. Oɓviouslƴ, our ɗefinitions for fiɗelity, ɗiscipline, self concept, ɗecorum anɗ finnesse are ɗifferent.

Hmmmn....
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by PatriotTemidayo: 2:46pm On Sep 13, 2017
A "thousand" men hit on women of all sizes, shapes and colour everytime, everywhere..............don't do nothing. If your woman fall, then she's not worth the fight

But if the guy becomes a nuisance, even when your woman had told him off, please contact "pepper them" gang to give him a run.......

Don't quote me cheesy
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by EmyLeo(m): 2:57pm On Sep 13, 2017
Lalas247:
Don't get possessive it will kill the relationship ...
As long as she doesn't respond to the guys then you have absolutely nothing to worry about

Some guys even like it .. knowing their woman is sort after, it's some sort of Ego boost ..

##Nice comment "Lala_lee", lol..


@op, follow that advice, but if / when you feel it's getting too much and you can't take it anymore, prolly just walk out bruh, your happiness is the key here, but b4 you do anything let her know your mind.



PS: stop wondering bruh, you will only increase your Bp without solving anything..

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by ojun50(m): 3:03pm On Sep 13, 2017
Incase u see any guy coming nd u are driving jst use d car to hit him small nd rush him to chemists shop.

Jst hit him small

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Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 13, 2017
Insecurity is worrying you.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Headlesschicken(m): 3:10pm On Sep 13, 2017
undecided It is a normal thing,I'm used to d sh!t though cos my Chickx r always d bomb,took one out sometime last year n immediately i stepped out to answer a call,one nigga dat has been in d Bar,just walked up to her,asking her to please help him wiv her number before i get back, like i said its a normal thing...
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by McBrooklyn(m): 3:17pm On Sep 13, 2017
cheesy
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Nobody: 3:24pm On Sep 13, 2017
You must remain grounded. Do not give in to jealousy, for that is the psychic fuel that will create further gulf with your woman. Let your woman know that you are aware of the persistent looks but you are assuming that she can deal with it and that you also hope that she is not going out of her way to encourage it.

These things can turn a naive woman's head with the quickness.

If the evolutionary trend of "hypergamy" common with women rears it's head, then you can keep your ass moving and live it up.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Nobody: 3:28pm On Sep 13, 2017
deturla:
We have been dating for quite sometime, 2 years to be precise, but in the last one year, I have had to deal with guys making passes on my woman.

Everywhere we go together; club, parties and even in the church, I always have this issue of a man hitting on my woman. Not that she is the most beautiful lady in the world, or that she is the sexiest, I just don’t know why guys keep passing compliments and erotic gestures.

Just last week, we were at an hangout together, and it seemed obvious that we were together, yet, guys keep trying to make a move on her.

I don’t want to sound a bit possessive and jealous, but I am bothered emotionally about this. I wonder what happens whenever we are not together.

http://deedeesblog.com/best-way-handle-a-man-hitting-on-my-woman/

cc: lalasticlala
mynd44

she has tried, I cant even date past 1yr
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 3:32pm On Sep 13, 2017
missbeckykisses:
she has tried, I cant even date past 1yr

So what happens after 1 year?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Divay22(f): 3:40pm On Sep 13, 2017
If a girl loves you so much, you don't have to worry about who love her....
Don't feel jealous, you guys have fun over it.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by LoRdCaT(m): 3:42pm On Sep 13, 2017
missbeckykisses:
she has tried, I cant even date past 1yr
How do you hope to get married?
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Nobody: 4:23pm On Sep 13, 2017
Enjoy being the one who has what those men want.
And pleaseeee...bask in it!
E no easy.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 4:48pm On Sep 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
Enjoy being the one who has what those men want.
And pleaseeee...bask in it!
E no easy.

hmmmn....
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by muller101(m): 4:49pm On Sep 13, 2017
Op do a little research on their women and hit on them too.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by LodiDodi(m): 4:52pm On Sep 13, 2017
You cant be this vexed if you aint married yet.
Seal the deal and put a ring on it.
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by deturla: 5:00pm On Sep 13, 2017
muller101:
Op do a little research on their women and hit on them too.

Interesting!
Re: What Is The Best Way To Handle A Man Hitting On My Woman by Tonero40000(m): 5:01pm On Sep 13, 2017
By nature beauty calls attention not really her fault anyways. But you should know her too well she is ur gf , if she have the tendency to dirty with u , u should kn that too. Already u r restless behind u.

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