If i cant let go of him, will forgive him nd hope for the best

accept such a person and do your own back

selflessposhheart:
accept such a person and do your own back

Revenge is bad

Ladyjumong:
If i cant let go of him, will forgive him nd hope for the best

I tink dat is the situation I am nw

Maleka1:


Revenge is bad

all I've learnt from the opposite sex is revenge I've never gone scot free with what I do with the opposite sex I get purnished so now its my law no guy will go Scot free with wateva he does to me go with the flow guy or u die of indecision

Common sense has departed from OP body since 1758. This time is prophecy ba? Next time she will blame spiritual husband

Maleka1:


The story is very long. But the summary is that the scenario is connected to revelations, prophecy etc

there is no excuse for cheating,you people should get that..anyone that cheats wants to cheat

alexistaiwo:
Common sense has departed from OP body since 1758.
This time is prophecy ba?
Next time she will blame spiritual husband

I agree
.this OP is annoying..its like they have cooked vegetable for him

Maleka1:


She dreamt abt the person, she was open at the beginning. She later dated the guy sha and according to her, he was not a ryt person for her and she regretted her actionsand cry for forgiveness. I still love her with passion

lolz..see scam aye..dem don job my guy..do as you feel

selflessposhheart:


all I've learnt from the opposite sex is revenge I've never gone scot free with what I do with the opposite sex I get purnished so now its my law no guy will go Scot free with wateva he does to me go with the flow guy or u die of indecision

alexistaiwo:
Common sense has departed from OP body since 1758.
This time is prophecy ba?
Next time she will blame spiritual husband

Tnx fr ur contribution

Maleka1:

just like my post that's how confused you sound just wanted to give u a reflection of wat u sound like "my gf cheated and I love her" her village people are sitting on your head o

babyfaceafrica:
I agree
.this OP is annoying..its like they have cooked vegetable for him

Don't be annoyed bro. I only seek ur advice

Maleka1:


Don't be annoyed bro. I only seek ur advice

Peace..Don't let any babe job you again..which kain prophecy and dream?..you better wise up......

Maleka1:


She dreamt abt the person, she was open at the beginning. She later dated the guy sha and according to her, he was not a ryt person for her and she regretted her actionsand cry for forgiveness. I still love her with passion

e be like say wen she leave u na dat time u hamma she wan come reverse with scope..USE UR HEAD O


I respect that babe

selflessposhheart:


just like my post that's how confused you sound just wanted to give u a reflection of wat u sound like "my gf cheated and I love her" her village people are sitting on your head o

Seems u are offended. Pls, don't be, I only seek ur opinion not incendiaries. Tnx though

Maleka1:


Seems u are offended. Pls, don't be, I only seek ur opinion not incendiaries. Tnx though

u so in love you want someone to give u reasons to justify your taking her back

Sorry I sounded harsh was just catching my fun

babyfaceafrica:
Peace..Don't let any babe job ypunagain..which kain project and dream?..you better wise up......

Tnx bro

selflessposhheart:


u so in love you want someone to give u reasons to justify your taking her back

Sorry I sounded harsh was just catching my fun

Not asking fr reasons to take her back. Wanted to gather experiences of pple on this issue for me to knw wht to do. But u acted as if I av wronged u.

Tnx though

Maleka1:


Not asking fr reasons to take her back. Wanted to gather experiences of pple on this issue for me to knw wht to do. But u acted as if I av wronged u.

Tnx though

You didn't wrong me o but to be serious which I hate to be if u love her forgive her since she is truly remorseful not every one that cheat once is a chronic cheater some learn from their mistakes and never repeat them again ok

selflessposhheart:


You didn't wrong me o but to be serious which I hate to be if u love her forgive her since she is truly remorseful not every one that cheat once is a chronic cheater some learn from their mistakes and never repeat them again ok

Tnx so much. She did not really broke up with me wen she was dating him. Infact, I discovered it after she had broken up wit him after some month through her fone. She cried and begged for forgiveness that day and she has bn begin since then.

Tonero40000:
Look up here. You don't forgive only because you wan pastors , colleagues or friends to see u acting matured.

1.Forgiveness that would bring u kn joy as regard relationship i advise you forgive only and stay way.

2. If You kn that u can wipe away what she did to u from ur tot totally and u feel happy forgiving her in your heart then go ahead and forgive her otherwise don't make a mistake.

3. And hope she is not bn remorse base on what u v always offer? Rather than the love ..

You must apply wisdom however.

Tnx Broo. I will utilize this

Maleka1:


Tnx so much. She did not really broke up with me wen she was dating him. Infact, I discovered it after she had broken up wit him after some month through her fone. She cried and begged for forgiveness that day and she has bn begin since then.

Awwww forgive her ok

Maleka1:
Pls I nid ur advice

Forgive her, but never ever get back with her.

It will only take any damn made up prophecy and dream to jump ship.

She is not feeling remorse, she is only feeling unfulfilled.

Do not be a second fiddle.

selflessposhheart:


Awwww forgive her ok

Tnxx

Prec1ous:


Forgive her, but never ever get back with her.

It will only take any damn made up prophecy and dream to jump ship.

She is not feeling remorse, she is only feeling unfulfilled.

Do not be a second fiddle.

Really appreciate this. Tnx

M kind of having case similar to urs.......it was even are friend that was telling me that she said the love i had for her was true..... True!!! ... Bt latter tori change.... Latter she said a bro in her church said this said that... That she prayed abt it and God showed her he's the one for her.... Guy i let her go... I mean who m i to stop her when she says God showed her... though itz was very tough for me to let go ..... In ur case she's back in my case i don't knw if she will be... Op i knw what ur thinking there is no way u won't abt the romance she had with the guy.... If true she feel she is sorrry forgive her take her back bt to avoid another heart broke....... Dnt involve ur emotions until u are sure it safe.bt if u can't forgive bt let her go.

smoby:
M kind of having case similar to urs.......it was even are friend that was telling me that she said the love i had for her was true..... True!!! ... Bt latter tori change.... Latter she said a bro in her church said this said that... That she prayed abt it and God showed her he's the one for her.... Guy i let her go... I mean who m i to stop her when she says God showed her... though itz was very tough for me to let go ..... In ur case she's back in my case i don't knw if she will be... Op i knw what ur thinking there is no way u won't abt the romance she had with the guy.... If true she feel she is sorrry forgive her take her back bt to avoid another heart broke....... Dnt involve ur emotions until u are sure it safe.bt if u can't forgive bt let her go.

Hummm, tnx bro. The fact is that I still love her truely and she has positively changed since then, always trying to make me api bcus I was so hrt broken. I trusted her with my life and love her dearly. I feel so deceived each time I remember the issue bcus I cud bet my life dat she can't do such.
I have forgiven her but I still remember the issue and it brings sadness each time I remember.

Tnx everyone

Maleka1:


Hummm, tnx bro. The fact is that I still love her truely and she has positively changed since then, always trying to make me api bcus I was so hrt broken. I trusted her with my life and love her dearly. I feel so deceived each time I remember the issue bcus I cud bet my life dat she can't do such.
I have forgiven her but I still remember the issue and it brings sadness each time I remember.

u will feel the hurt it normal, the injury has not been healed yet u opening ur hrt again is like deepin ur injury in a boiling water. Dnt use ur emotions or if u get hurt it will be worse not until u feel it safe.

smoby:
u will feel the hurt it normal, the injury has not been healed yet u opening ur hrt again is like deepin ur injury in a boiling water. Dnt use ur emotions or if u get hurt it will be worse not until u feel it safe.

Alryt bro. I will act on this