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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Alech101(m): 1:55pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yes i can...am even involved with one right now and we are happy together 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Emasel(m): 1:56pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
For me it's No. There are too many fresh girls to pick from. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Natureinspred: 2:01pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
for me sure i will. i have a friend who got pregnant when she was in secondary school and had a son for her boyfriend then. now the child is 7 years old and she is getting married next year to another man who loves her and the baby but the baby is definitely not going to leave with them but with his grandparents so thats cool |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by claremont(m): 2:01pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
No, there are many single ladies around with no extra baggage. There is a reason why the father of the child didn't marry the lady, I don't want to be the one to find out what the reason was. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Justeenaleo(f): 2:04pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
There's nothing wrong with it. If I like you then I will like whatever you come with as long as you said it upfront. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
The question is hard for singles to answer as i see they rush to say "YES." As a married dude i wil advice guys "DO NOT EVEN TRY IT!" Two things matters, 1. what kind of a child is d child? 2.wat kind of woman is ur wife? U wil never knw til u get married, u wil regret it later in marriage... 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Tamarapetty(f): 2:07pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Oluwasaeon: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by 989900: 2:07pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
If as a lady you say no you won't, and you end up marrying some other guy and this guy ends up giving another girl 'belle', what would you do? We've seen a lot in this life. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by 989900: 2:11pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
mistel: Save this your post in your memory, and replay it in 20 years from now, I'm sure you will be far blessed with more experience of life then to realize life ain't math. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Maxi112: 2:13pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Massive yes for me, I don't care! I can marry a single mom regardless. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Justeenaleo:bro its not about saying it upfront or not. Wil u leave for work at 7am, return 8pm and the 15yrs old SS2 son is stil wit ur wife in d bedroom & u hv to go to parlour to sit, bath later and hang around outside til d over-pampered bastard is evicted from d room? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by lilnick(m): 2:13pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes y |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Agbgift(f): 2:14pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yes o. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by tosyne2much(m): 2:14pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Papiikush:That's very the bro and that's why you need to trash out any habit you cannot condone while in relationship, otherwise, you will continue to live with it in marriage |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by tosyne2much(m): 2:16pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
As for me, I don't think I can You don't put your head into something you will not be comfortable with just because you want to show that you're a real man 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by VeeBuzzer(f): 2:18pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bluetrails7: thanks. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by RaeMystix: 2:18pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
If he is a widower, then yes....Can't stand baby mama drama. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Orgym(m): 2:19pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
It is not a crime to have kids before marriage. It is an accident of nature. If there is love, I can marry her depending on the circumstance surrounding it. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Papiikush: 2:19pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Women have a saying "You will have to love me just the way I am" or "You met me this way, I can't change my lifestyle just to please a guy". Then they call men trash when such guy decides to walk away. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
989900:thanks, have u ever corrected a 14yr old child who went to toilet wit d bowl u use for making eba to wash bum-bum and wat ur wife can say is "ehen! Yes! I know u dont love my child" ? 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Coldfeets: 2:23pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Why not? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
There is a diff btw marrying her and bring d child to marriage! For those saying yes e nor mean, i pray u last one month in marriage. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by ASERNALFOREVER: 2:24pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bobolizim:On the condition that the other spouse is not alive |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Coldfeets:was it ok? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by tosyne2much(m): 2:26pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Papiikush:That's attitude is the destroyer of marriage and relationship and many ladies don't know. However, no matter how much a guy can loves a lady, such an attitude usually quench the love Some of them are like, "that's my nature and I don't think I can change it," that's the way I've been right from my childhood and my parents know me for it", "my ex knows me for that and he's already used to my character You will only be jumping from frying to fire if you wife such a lady with negative characters |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Coldfeets: 2:29pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
mistel: Okay how? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by lutek84: 2:31pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yes and any lady interested, let her DM me |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bobolizim:Yes. Yes and yes again! Infact, I'd prefer such kind of lady to the one who hasnt given birth before. At least I know she's fertile. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Papiikush: 2:32pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Question is; Will you let a good girl walk away due to a character that irritates? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by menxer: 2:32pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Don't marry a lady with a child If you can predict precisely what that child will become in future. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
On a final note, start afresh if u are no baby papa wit a non-babymama or else ur kids wil learn all dirty manners from a 15yr old senior who over the years has seen his/her mum date multiple bfs, some of which press and fvck d mum in their presence. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Jilo83(m): 2:33pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Is having child/children a disease or sin? |
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