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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by gideon1971(m): 8:06pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
well i could depending on things like how much do i love the woman, will the father be a nuisance to our union, does she love me too? |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by bobolizim(m): 8:17pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Keneking:i recognize your strong desire to be funny in order to garner likes but I'd advise you to put such energy into something worthwhile ....however, you're entitled to your stupid opinion . |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bobolizim: Nonsense comment |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:20pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
well I would say yes only if the child is a female and still not very old, but if the child has good manners I would do my all to make the child happy and forget the circumstances surrounding his/her birth. but single mothers are difficult, they are self centred and only care about that child even if u are dying the mother would prefer to be with the child and sometimes if you both have kids, she would give preference to that particular child and painting u black some would not want to go anywhere if that child isn't with them |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by babra19: 8:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bobolizim: If not why not i am a lover of kids children are great blessings from God i will not make them feel their mother's absence. My husband is their father i am their mother. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Codyt(m): 9:04pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by govnor4551(m): 9:49pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
iamdynamite:Oh yes my brother, u are speaking from the mind set. I can do it very well 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by deanmartins(m): 10:45pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Sabrina18:asked u to go ahead and confirm my shoe |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by vicspring(m): 10:49pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by vicspring(m): 10:53pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
chidichuddo: So true my dear brother |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by vicspring(m): 10:56pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
bobolizim: Bobolizim Dis is destruction |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by grandstar(m): 11:07pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Before I would have gladly said yes but I now have my reservations. Why you may ask? Recently my cousin lost her husband and she came to stay in our house with her 2 boys. The first boy she had was out of wedlock and is 14years. Her second boy who is 4years old is the only issue from her late husband. The first boy is devious though treat him very well. I even allow access to my phone which he uses to chat on WhatsApp or play games. The other day I found out 3,000 was withdrawn from my bank account through my ATM. I had been looking for my ATM for close to a week. Interestingly, my money was withdrawn about the time he borrowed my phone saying he wanted to use it search for his phone. I alerted him some days later that money was removed from my bank account illegally. I noticed hr was jittery but he tried masking it. The next thing I noticed the next day was that virtually all my First bank alerts were deleted. I said nothing. I simply requested a video footage of the illegal withdrawal and the result I got today was him in a green shirt at the exact time the money was withdrawn. In light of this, a stepfather might be visibly irritated by inexcusable lapses he finds in the child and and any form of serious correction will be termed abuse. Anyone wanting to marry a single parent must first consider whether he is very comfortable with the child and if he or she is truly, truly comfortable, you can take the big step and marry 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by BalogunIdowu(m): 11:12pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yeah, but it may not necessarily be my first wife...most preferably as second wife |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by loshybab(m): 11:23pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
adajoe555:yeske! but we all should try to make our past beautiful or devoid of negative life changing actions |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by omolajaone: 1:06am On Sep 15, 2017 |
yes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by SirLove72: 1:37am On Sep 15, 2017 |
yes I can cos have dated a single mom for 4years, some are more cool headed and matured after learning from their past mistakes but only if she can prove she have no feelings for the father of the child. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by stpat1(m): 2:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
NO. I wouldn't even have a serious relationship with a lady who has a child already. I just can't fit shout. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by bobolizim(m): 6:12am On Sep 15, 2017 |
; grandstar:ah , this one strong o |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Derushah(f): 7:06am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Guys that are saying never. Have you taught of if you didn't give her money to abort the pregnancy or if it was so difficult for the abortion to be successful? Ladies that are saying never. Have you taught of if you didn't accept to abort the pregnancy for fear of death etc or if it was difficult for the abortion to be successful? Many people had once been pregnant or got someone pregnant. Now where is the child? May God not give you a baby mama or baby papa as a partner as He gave Hosea a harlot as wife. It is then you will know that God's plan for us are good and not of evil. God bring that man you have destined to be my husband even if he has 3 kids already. Your plans for me are perfect. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by mechanics(m): 7:57am On Sep 15, 2017 |
It all depends like in your story, the rape of a thing won't be her making, if i love her then i can go ahead, but for someone to have a baby with a guy and later dump her while the guy is alive, i wont marry such o. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by elslaqq: 8:06am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Depends. Provided there's a tangible reason for the kid's story........ |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:10am On Sep 15, 2017 |
It depends. If the. Mother of his child is not married to someonelese? NO If the mother of his kid is dead? YES if the mother of his kids is remarried? YES |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by ajisal4u21: 3:10pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
I would advice against it. Too many complications will arise specially in this our dear Africa. Father's side, mother side's even the person you intend to marry. Life is simple, don't complicate your life |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Justeenaleo(f): 3:10am On Sep 16, 2017 |
mistel:I am female. I don't and I won't have much patience for someone who is capable of over pampering an SS2 student. 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Esemuze(m): 4:16am On Sep 16, 2017 |
I am a single father too,but it depends on the Lady or the guy, 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by HERSLEY(f): 12:57pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Gmasterp:hmmmm u eh....u r too fast. Chill 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by HERSLEY(f): 12:58pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
vicspring:not always |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by doctest001: 1:13pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
You are the smartest guy here. I have just been looking at people here saying yes! I almost made the biggest regret of my life when I almost married a lady with a kid. ... JUST ONE QUESTION I WANT TO ASK THOSE SAYING 'yES' I WILL MARRY ..JUST ONE QUESTION. ..........Considering the fact that your Husband/Wife already has a kid. Do you think He/She would never cheat on you all this years of marriage/relationship. Are you not a fool for carrying DOUBLE WAHALA for your head.......... You use your hand curse yourself . . . IF U ARE SINGLE WITH NO KIDS (ESPECIALLY A MAN ), TAKE MY ADVICE, NEVER , EVER MARRY A LADY WITH A KID... you ended up being the LAST MUGU in her life. mistel: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Gmasterp(m): 1:14pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
HERSLEY:lol... Chilling ... In fact that's my middle name!! |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Gmasterp(m): 1:20pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
HERSLEY:i really don't nairaland much, wanted to talk to you on whatsapp.... |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Factfinder1: Dear not everyone ok.if I accepted to marry you then I accepted to take the child as my child too.nothing I repeat nothing will make me treat him different.my children will also know him or her as my first child. |
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