Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Desyner: 9:28am On Sep 15, 2017 |
@GeneralNass, Just like the nurse said this isn't the end. There was a thread about how to survive and even reproduce hiv-free children just few days ago on Nairaland FP. May be you didn't see it cos u logged out. I strongly suggest you go back to that woman ( nurse ) and hear what she has to say ( !!! Very Important ). |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by SheIsElle(f): 9:28am On Sep 15, 2017 |
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Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Ajusshi: 9:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
GeneralNass: Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.
To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.
When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.
Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh
If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.
All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.
When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing. What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.
I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes
Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now. Goodnight and God's speed be with you all. You are right to feel bad, but to be honest you are over reacting. I am not trying to comfort you, but I don't see a reason you should be resentful of yourself. You made mistake, yes, accept it and move on. That's what life is all about. You learn from your mistake and apply the lesson. Now from a practical experience perspective, I know many people (some of them couples) who are HIV positive but are living fulfilling lives. Most of these people were diagnosed during maternity. They are living normal lives and having HIV free kids. How do I know this? I know it because they were tested in our private hospital. I have counseled hundreds of folks like you and they always come back to thank us for our help. You bro, your life has not changed one bit, HIV is NO LONGER a killer disease. It's now more of a discomfort than a disease. This is not to say you should not be careful with your loved ones, don't just coil up and wallow in self-criticism. Rise, dust your butt and forge ahead. Life goes on. Do this and in a few years time, you will be proud of how you handled the situation. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by ireneidiva(f): 9:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
CHESTER48:
I know how difficult it can be. Actually I don't know. But I haven't had sex that much.. Cause I'm so scared to get hiv. Right now I'm having unprotected sex with one single person. My gf. I broke her myself. And that just her.. If I get Hot i usually masturbate. I think it's better than going to have sex with sex worker. When I'm masturbating I'm sure I never get disease or something. I'm a medical student and I know how to protect my self. Sex can be attained by masturbating also. For others if u have kids, teach them about masturbating too. It will help them..
What rubbish is this? 2 Likes |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by stevecantrell: 9:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Alcatraz005:
God bless you. You are very wise. HIV ko, HIV ni.
The OP doesn't have HIV. The thread is a hoax. |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by nenergy(m): 9:29am On Sep 15, 2017 |
idupaul: Why do I have a feeling this thread was intentionally opened by a HIV awareness advocacy group to help spread the word ..any which way it's working because people are learning I agree social media is manipulative, but if the end result is for a greater good then its allowed. HIV is no joke o! 7 Likes |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Nobody: 9:30am On Sep 15, 2017 |
#TeamNoSexBeforeMarriage #TeamStayFaithful #TeamOnePartner #TeamSexCanWait #TeamOrgasmsCanKill I'm a bonafide member of all the teams above ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) taoheedoriloye: . You can rage from now till tomorrow that won't stop the bad new because you were careless ,reckless and not smart enough. Sorry bro. Thank god am sharp enough. No sex till marriage. I love my life more than amarababe! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 4 Likes |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by nenergy(m): 9:30am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Alcatraz005:
HIV ko, HIV ni.
Are you denying HIV as Donald Trump denies global warming? 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Pearl05(f): 9:31am On Sep 15, 2017 |
This is good;knowing your status. You should go back to the clinic and undergo counseling on how to live and manage the virus without spreading it on.
You have your live still ahead of you, so don't give up on yourself just because of Hiv + virus . Do you know that many are living with the virus ignorantly? Now that's more deadly.
Start taking the anti retroviral drugs and live positively. 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by vibratingpenis: 9:31am On Sep 15, 2017 |
no wonder when ever I hear of sex, my pencil runs out of lead. say no to illegal sex my oga to be honest, your story no touch me cos I personally do caution people who make sex distasteful but they don't listen, I just believe experience is the best teacher in life so those shagging, shag onnnn! sex is dangerous, it makes you lose your sense of judgement, it gets you vulnerable, it can be used to set you up and do so many things bad to you. I can't have sex, drink, smoke, or take drugs cos I always want to be aware of my environment, I want to know even when I die to know how I died, I hate surprises of any type both by seduction and addiction. let those that have ears hear and young man and please don't go to spread it cos there is second contamination. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by fpeter(f): 9:32am On Sep 15, 2017 |
baby124: Don't worry... you can still live a long and full life. Take your drugs and find a woman who has the same HIV strain as you. Get married and have children who are HIV Negative. It's not the end of the world. Look for and join an HIV support group to meet people. Don't go out there spreading the disease. You made the decision to have sex with prostitutes and refused to stick with one partner. So claim that responsibility and don't put others in your situation on purpose Hello, please enlighten me. Is HIV different? When you say a woman with the same strain as the poster, what do you mean by that? TBH, i truly want to understand. |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Perge(m): 9:32am On Sep 15, 2017 |
taoheedoriloye: . You can rage from now till tomorrow that won't stop the bad new because you were careless ,reckless and not smart enough. Sorry bro. Thank god am sharp enough. No sex till marriage. I love my life more than amarababe! ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Are you insinuating that she is HIV positive? |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Bro, please go for serious guidance and counselling. Be strong. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by hadayleke(m): 9:32am On Sep 15, 2017 |
I wont be surprised if all this is a fake news just to make front page..... "Weird tins people do" 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by muller101(m): 9:32am On Sep 15, 2017 |
I already knew the result will be positive. 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Etizz: 9:34am On Sep 15, 2017 |
guy sorry, it pained me after using condom u still contracted HIV, but I must say, the one who gave u d HIV is not the prostitute but one of those so called innocent girl who is not a prostitute but fukk house to house without precautions, most prostitutes are even clean and safe Dan some home girls, u see my guy, it's so unfortunate u got it, I have met someone who fukd real time prostitute without condom and still negative,...
I wish you the strength to move on with life,........
guys and babes pls oh, fukk with caution oh.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Nobody: 9:34am On Sep 15, 2017 |
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Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Aurelius1(m): 9:35am On Sep 15, 2017 |
stevecantrell: Reading the other day from University of Ibadan that seroconversion took place in 6 hiv + subjects who consumed aqueous extract of Nigella sativa aka Black seed daily for 6 months.
OP, take note of this before starting any drug regime. What is black seed? |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 15, 2017 |
ireneidiva:
What rubbish is this? kwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by mamuzoOMAH(m): 9:35am On Sep 15, 2017 |
sorry bro. Valar morghulis. |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by nkemlove: 9:36am On Sep 15, 2017 |
I will like to make you my friend. if you want am available. call me with this number. 07060655530 |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by muller101(m): 9:37am On Sep 15, 2017 |
phintohlar: Haaaa my God,so painful. But den can u pls be kind enough and show me ur real face. no need for him to show his real face. Abi u wan de sure if u don jolly with am before? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Aurelius1(m): 9:38am On Sep 15, 2017 |
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Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Aurelius1(m): 9:38am On Sep 15, 2017 |
vibratingpenis: no wonder when ever I hear of sex, my pencil runs out of lead. say no to illegal sex my oga to be honest, your story no touch me cos I personally do caution people who make sex distasteful but they don't listen, I just believe experience is the best teacher in life so those shagging, shag onnnn! sex is dangerous, it makes you lose your sense of judgement, it gets you vulnerable, it can be used to set you up and do so many things bad to you. I can't have sex, drink, smoke, or take drugs cos I always want to be aware of my environment, I want to know even when I die to know how I died, I hate surprises of any type both by seduction and addiction. let those that have ears hear and young man and please don't go to spread it cos there is second contamination. No wonder you call yourself vibratingpenis 1 Like |
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Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:39am On Sep 15, 2017 |
It's not the end my brother. Life is a journey faced with several challenges, but we must continue. Take ur meds, join a pressure/support group and tell ur story. Don't let any lie from the devil kill ur zest for life. U knew what was right, u wore a condom but they kept breaking, its also in part the wickedness of fellow Nigerians who assist in adulterating or reducing the quality of these condoms. No matter what pray, talk to the maker of ur soul and don't stop believing for a better tomorrow.
Help is on the way! |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by stevecantrell: 9:40am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Aurelius1: What is black seed?
Go to
konga.com or any other online retailer. |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Sunkyphil(m): 9:40am On Sep 15, 2017 |
cc poweredcom aka niggaraw come and c ooo |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Amberon11: 9:42am On Sep 15, 2017 |
ashawoo patrons trying to.make themselves feel good. Alcatraz005:
God bless you. You are very wise. HIV ko, HIV ni.
The OP doesn't have HIV. The thread is a hoax. 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Nobody: 9:43am On Sep 15, 2017 |
I can see many ashawo house patronisers that are still in denial. I pity all of una! HIV fall on all of you one by one ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by spencekat(m): 9:44am On Sep 15, 2017 |
IwantToShashe:
Omo as I dey see this thread e real o.. Fear don dey catch me sef ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) Go and know your status today 1 Like |
Re: How I Contacted HIV From Sleeping With Different Prostitutes At The Age Of 24 by Foxykevo(m): 9:44am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Good morning bros, can I at least talk to you about it if you don't mind am a Case management officer I handle HIV client on drug adherece so if you don't mind you can give me a call 08068219364 or chat me via watzapp. Thanks GeneralNass: Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.
To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.
When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.
Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh
If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.
All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.
When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing. What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.
I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes
Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now. Goodnight and God's speed be with you all. 3 Likes |