Etizz:
guy sorry, it pained me after using condom u still contracted HIV, but I must say, the one who gave u d HIV is not the prostitute but one of those so called innocent girl who is not a prostitute but fukk house to house without precautions, most prostitutes are even clean and safe Dan some home girls, u see my guy, it's so unfortunate u got it, I have met someone who fukd real time prostitute without condom and still negative,...

I wish you the strength to move on with life,........

guys and babes pls oh, fukk with caution oh....

Not true my guy. Several olosho houses are filled with HIV, several prostitutes have HIV and are doing that job because they know their status already and are just waiting for d end of everything. Do u realise how a prostitute disappears into thing air with no trace, do u know how many condoms burst on prostitutes daily. It's a high risk job my guy.

As long as you take your drug,you will live as long as you were supposed to live. The present drugs stop the multiplication of the virus and as long as you take it you will live to grow old,have HIV negative children. The good news is the cure for HIV is fast approaching. So much success has been made but they need to do enough trials to be sure there are no side effects. HIV will just be treatable like syphilis before the next 20years. I tell you because I have worked with so many HIV positive people and I keep to date with the trends.

Brother, so many of us have bleeped ashawo. You are not worse than anybody because you did. If fucking ashawo was done by a small part of the population, why do their numbers increase everyday? Also, so many people in Nigeria are living with HIV. You are not the first, u won't be the last. Stigmatisation of HIV+ people is so old school and it happened because there was no treatment. Things have changed. You need to take your destiny in your hands. Seek counselling. You are not alone. There are groups of hiv+ people who meet regularly and live even more productive lives than hiv- people. My uncle almost died because he was afraid of stigma. His wife dumped him on us when he was comatose, purging and vomiting. We took him to hospital, confirmed his status, and started treatment. Today, he has 3 children, all negative. He's into politics and business. He is the only surviving uncle we have on our father side. My dad died of a heart attack. I telling u this story so you know hiv is even better than so many ailments this days. The no 1 killer in Nigeria among middle aged people today is heart disease/stroke. Diabetes is even worse than hiv. Another reminder: nobody will escape death, hiv+ or not, so don't let death scare you. This is the beginning of a life of responsibility for yourself and those around you. Thanks to research, you are completely in control of your own destiny. Pick yourself up and live.

phintohlar:
Haaaa my God,so painful. But den can u pls be kind enough and show me ur real face.

are you a customer to many men

see you!

Some of y'all judging the boy playing holier than thou. I pity you. It can happen to anybody. There was a time I was working with a bank($ales). We engage in Customer Acquisition Campaign quarterly -you gotta hit the street and acquire new customers. I always lead a team as the supervising RSO... After hustling for few hours, I'd encourage my team to quickly locate a brothel, some of the sex workers will open accounts but my main intention was to see half-unclad or fully unclad sexy bodies and pretty faces..*chai* you think about it and you'll be like I'll have this one, two others that are way more endowed would show up and you'll be like no I'd have this one again, then 5 more hot ones would show up. You'll realise you can't have them all, and they'd just disgust you especially when the ugly big ones join them. Then you think about you monthly target and upcoming appraisal... I'd give up and flee. Used to be really tempting though.

If you can't abstain please stick to a partner and... You know what, have sex less or better still, engage your mind, derive a life vision and establish ways to achieve them. Yes the body isn't made of wood but once you find a purpose in life, the thought of achieving them stimulates your mind always.

Aside HIV, there are numerous STDs one can contract. Chase your life goals, use protection if you must bang a p***y datz all.

HIV is a hoax.

Never ever get tested.
It is the unnecessary HIV medication that overtime knocks out immune system and kills people.
Helps depopulate Africa, hence reason imperialist nations through NGO they sponsor, are pushing HIV testing and treatment in Africa whilst ignoring real mass killer diseases like malaria.

Alcatraz005:


God bless you. You are very wise. HIV ko, HIV ni.

The OP doesn't have HIV. The thread is a hoax.

Lies, lies, all lies

If you tell them to have a girlfriend, dem no go gree, they don't like spending money on girlfriend, they prefer spending it on ashawo, see wetin ashawo don do you.

Its a pity.

fpeter:


Hello, please enlighten me. Is HIV different? When you say a woman with the same strain as the poster, what do you mean by that?
TBH, i truly want to understand.

HIV1 and HIV2 dey, some people are infected with one or both strains, if one is infected with one strain, he can be infected with another again, which makes things even worse. However times have change and HIV status shouldn't be a yardstick for marriage. Once a person is on antiretrovirals and the viral load is down the chances of infecting another is quite negligible sometimes as low as 0.001%, hence the increase in discordant couple phenomenon.

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

can I have ur number

Some years back when all i do think of was sex, I had a sex with a lady and d condom busted though I continue without condom, after some days I started noticing some strange feelings in my body, I couldn't go for blood test cos av accepted in my mind that it was HIV cos the lady came from pH and she is good at having sex, so i concluded that am an HIV positive, the sickness started taken me down, i started losing strength, slimming down and becoming weak. So I later went for the test and I was told it was typhoid not HIV that was how i nearly killed myself cos the typhoid has gotten to advance stage. I was so happy and I promised God that I won't have sex again but some months after i went for nysc there I started again, I do have sex with two different ladies in a day at times and after some months the weakness came back, I thought I have finally contracted the disease I summoned courage to do the test it was negative. To cut the story short today av given my life to Christ, there is nothing in sex, 5mins enjoyment shouldnt cut the whole destiny down, some might not have the opportunity i had, so is better to abstain, u are using condom but the condom is not reliable, our girls these days can sleep with dog because of money. The innocent looking girl friend of yours might be sleeping with 3-4 guys while u think u are the only one and from there u put yourself at risk. Pls give your life to Christ today and be rest assure of your future. Now am free from fear, I can do my HIV test anytime cos am sure am safe. Apart from that, God's grace on me now is unexplainable, am enjoying peace from within, No sex before marriage but in my marriage by wife will know that once a champion is always a champion but I will wait till then. Give your life to christ, God hates sexual immorality

Sabrina18:
If you tell them to have a girlfriend, dem no go gree, they don't like spending money on girlfriend, see what ashawo don do you.

Its a pity.

What are u saying, gal friend no fit get HIV?

Your username tho

vibratingpenis:
no wonder when ever I hear of sex, my pencil runs out of lead.
say no to illegal sex
my oga to be honest, your story no touch me cos I personally do caution people who make sex distasteful but they don't listen, I just believe experience is the best teacher in life so those shagging, shag onnnn! sex is dangerous, it makes you lose your sense of judgement, it gets you vulnerable, it can be used to set you up and do so many things bad to you.
I can't have sex, drink, smoke, or take drugs cos I always want to be aware of my environment, I want to know even when I die to know how I died, I hate surprises of any type both by seduction and addiction.
let those that have ears hear and young man and please don't go to spread it cos there is second contamination.

I will advise you do the test at least three different standard hospitals or centre just to be sure

Yes there are different HIV strain, dat why reinfention is always dangerous, if someone who is adhereing to his medication very well it will help subress the virus and to a stage where is will be.....

fpeter:


Hello, please enlighten me. Is HIV different? When you say a woman with the same strain as the poster, what do you mean by that?
TBH, i truly want to understand.

No one holy pass. Just commence the treatment already. 180 prostitutes in 4 years. Average of 45 prostitutes every year? Hmmm...

sgtponzihater1:


What are u saying, gal friend no fit get HIV?

The possibility is very low unlike when you Bleep public toilet.

Damn. Now I am so scared. I dont wanna Bleep the girl coming tonight again.

taoheedoriloye:
. You can rage from now till tomorrow that won't stop the bad new because you were careless ,reckless and not smart enough.
Sorry bro.
Thank god am sharp enough. No sex till marriage. I love my life more than amarababe!

Still does not stop contacting HIV .......

The honest truth is that those that practice the same habits as the op after seeing this post will consider turning a new leaf, or they might give their self break from olosho house for like a week... By next week they're back there doing their thing.... Op stay strong

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

have you gone for the confirmatory test

Sabrina18:
If you tell them to have a girlfriend, dem no go gree, they don't like spending money on girlfriend, they prefer spending it on ashawo, see wetin ashawo don do you.

Its a pity.

but if they "toast" you, you go gree?

Oga I can help u trust me

Joeblack01:
Op i honestly don't know what to advise you. Because I don't know half of what you are going through now.

But on a second thought confess your sins and give your life to jesus christ. Allow the holy Spirit to dwell in so that he can vitalise your Body and regenerate your spirit man.
a regenerated man can receive a regenerated health.

Romans 8: 11

And if the Spirit of Him Who raised up Jesus from the dead dwells in you, [then] He Who raised up Christ Jesus from the dead will also restore to life your mortal (short-lived, perishable) bodies through His Spirit Who dwells in you.

Draw closer to God
He can change your story if only you will allow and have faith in him.

Thanks for this, OP, no matter how hard it may be, don't give up and follow this guys advice. Your mind is a powerful tool, once you revitalize it, you can do same to your body. Now, still abstain, don't distribute it. YOU NEED GOD MORE THAN EVER, HE CAN DO WONDERS FOR YOU.

How do Orgasms kill?

LadyGoddiva:
#TeamNoSexBeforeMarriage
#TeamStayFaithful
#TeamOnePartner
#TeamSexCanWait
#TeamOrgasmsCanKill

I'm a bonafide member of all the teams above

Sorry bro. I got something to say to you, give your life to Christ and life a life of great faith to be healed. This is not in the books anyway; one time during Ebola outbreak in Nigeria, I was doing a little research on how to cure Ebola with electricity and I stumble on some article about how viruses an be killed or made to disoriented in its DNA (if that's correct). If it losses its life form then it can no longer be a virus a d thus no longer a threat to one's health. One thing caught my attention, which is; several people who came up with the different papers on electricity potency in curing diseases either end up dead or go missing. My point is do a ressarch on it and see how you can use it energy to cure yourself. I heard there is a device that can deliver non lethal volt of electricity to the body at the right frequency in order to disorient the virus's structure.
Disclaimer: This post is not meant to encourage you to use high voltage electricity on yourself. This can be fatal. Whatever you do with the information will be solely at your own discretion and you are solely liable for whatever happens to you as to the use of information provided here.

IT' SO UNFORTUNATE AND I EMPATHIZE WITH YOU.
I WILL ADVICE YOU GET COUNSELLING AND ALSO SURRENDER YOUR LIFE TO JESUS.

Someone out there is fucking more prostitutes and having sex with more women than you ever had without condom, but he isn't infected with Hiv

Is not as if you are the most promiscuous man out there, you were just unlucky bro.


I won't advice to stay strong or keep living, that's your own decision to make

Acidosis:

but if they "toast" you, you go gree?

If I like the person, why not?

Why HIV will be on the rise in Africa, Nigeria most especially is this reckless a careless attitude we have. Even the world's richest men don't sleep around the way many men in Nigeria do. Sex is relatively cheap in Nigeria. When I say cheap, I don't mean price. I mean it's easier to sleep with a lady for some amount of money in Africa, than to sleep with a lady outside the shores of the continent. Do we blame it on poverty... No. It's part of the social problem where everyone want to be termed successful without products or services delivering value to show for it. Check online dating sites 98 percent of the ladies are there too hook up with a man. These are men they don't even know their sexual records and some can agree to sleep without condom for some certain amount. We saw it in the shuga movie. The movies are there, the awareness are there, we hear it on rythm but still no obvious change. This shows we might not be able to fight a common problem as nation. If we can't fight HIV to zero level, how can we fight corruption. They are both as a result of need for some pleasure... No discipline
OP, just keep taking your drugs and feeding well. Some are lucky even after their sexual adventures with sleeping with hundred of girls, they turn negative whislt majority are very unlucky. At sometime, we can be careless but we should always give ourselves brain. I wasn't an exception.