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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JGracious: 12:56pm On Sep 16, 2017
I won't judge you babythug.
Every woman has her tactics in dealing with her husband because she knows and understands him better.

In your case, I guess you forgot to consider his kind of person/personality before forming the habit.
Did you ever feel guilty when you collected the money cos if na me enh...I'll have used my mouth to confess in the course of gisting because of guilt feeling. Its hard to cover price inflation o.

Now him finding out must have hurt him deeply because there is tendency to think you've not telling him whole truths etc. infact you don enter ya own smiley

Just get ready to hear him refer to this matter every time you're collecting money but bear it with patience. He will get over the pinch.

babythug:
Happy Saturday everybody! Trust we are all good? To those who got some kpekus,how una dey? To we who didn't get tonight is another opportunity to try lolwink

I thought of something this morning and felt we could all discuss it! I've recently* developed a habit of inflating bills for hubby and sometimes "embezzling" the said monies! I do it sometimes because I need extra cash which I don't want to ask for and sometimes just for the fun of it and because he's my Husband!

Anyway I got busted and he involved some third parties who of course really scandalized the whole matter and I really was embarrassed and it seemed like it was a totally unheard of thing ie for a wife to chop her husband's money!

I always felt if caught it would be settled under the "I'm your wife -diplomatic immunity"!

What are your thoughts? Was it sooooooo bad of me?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 1:29pm On Sep 16, 2017
babythug:


What are your thoughts? Was it sooooooo bad of me?
you will be surprised, those people condemning u, na them do am pass

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by babylove01: 1:50pm On Sep 16, 2017
Babythug

I don't think it was bad in my opinion but then again u know ur husband
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by babylove01: 1:53pm On Sep 16, 2017
Come and join me smiley

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 1:55pm On Sep 16, 2017
Like Jazzy said, depends on his personality. I don't think it's that big a deal but some people will say it's breach of trust etc. He's obviously in the second category. Now you have to humble yourself and learn new kpekus styles


babythug:
Happy Saturday everybody! Trust we are all good? To those who got some kpekus,how una dey? To we who didn't get tonight is another opportunity to try lolwink

I thought of something this morning and felt we could all discuss it! I've recently* developed a habit of inflating bills for hubby and sometimes "embezzling" the said monies! I do it sometimes because I need extra cash which I don't want to ask for and sometimes just for the fun of it and because he's my Husband!

Anyway I got busted and he involved some third parties who of course really scandalized the whole matter and I really was embarrassed and it seemed like it was a totally unheard of thing ie for a wife to chop her husband's money!

I always felt if caught it would be settled under the "I'm your wife -diplomatic immunity"!

What are your thoughts? Was it sooooooo bad of me?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by farydah: 2:01pm On Sep 16, 2017
@babythug just as someone said, it depends on the kinda man you married. my husband will be unhappy too but I don't think he will bring in third parties. then personally, dunno if it's because I'm working, I tell him the correct prices then if I get it lower, in the course of gist, I mention it.

unfortunately your husband may be pissed for a long time since he could bring in third parties so get ready to hear him occasionally make reference to it or query you plenty when you make requests/purchases.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Giddyperson: 2:21pm On Sep 16, 2017
babylove01:
Come and join me smiley
Recipe please
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by beyedew(f): 2:52pm On Sep 16, 2017
babythug:
Happy Saturday everybody! Trust we are all good? To those who got some kpekus,how una dey? To we who didn't get tonight is another opportunity to try lolwink
I thought of something this morning and felt we could all discuss it! I've recently* developed a habit of inflating bills for hubby and sometimes "embezzling" the said monies! I do it sometimes because I need extra cash which I don't want to ask for and sometimes just for the fun of it and because he's my Husband!
Anyway I got busted and he involved some third parties who of course really scandalized the whole matter and I really was embarrassed and it seemed like it was a totally unheard of thing ie for a wife to chop her husband's money!
I always felt if caught it would be settled under the "I'm your wife -diplomatic immunity"!
What are your thoughts? Was it sooooooo bad of me?

Awww, you know the kind of dh you have ma. Me I do it wella, I collect my apriko grin money with joy, learnt it from my mil. I do it with every purchase. I do it for the fun of it and because I have bailed us out on severally occasions with said apriko money, my dh doesn't really frown at it. With this recession, I had to reduce the amount I inflate drastically. This one that he involved third party (don't be surprised say na dem do pass grin), well, water don pass garri oo. How I resolve most issues with my dh is by playfully telling him, it hasn't never failed me, maybe you can try that. Also like hunniesuzie said, goan learn new kpekus styles. Sorry mammy. We are with you in the spirit kiss.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Lalakas: 3:05pm On Sep 16, 2017
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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by perfectcrown(f): 3:17pm On Sep 16, 2017
babylove01:
Come and join me smiley

Yeeeee!
Mama pls share the reciepe of the soup ma.

Ive bn thinking of wat other food one can prepare aside d regular.

So in love wit dis!
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by crystalzoe: 3:38pm On Sep 16, 2017
hunniesuzie:
Like Jazzy said, depends on his personality. I don't think it's that big a deal but some people will say it's breach of trust etc. He's obviously in the second category. Now you have to humble yourself and learn new kpekus styles


cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Fyngal1(f): 3:52pm On Sep 16, 2017
farydah:
@babythug just as someone said, it depends on the kinda man you married. my husband will be unhappy too but I don't think he will bring in third parties. then personally, dunno if it's because I'm working, I tell him the correct prices then if I get it lower, in the course of gist, I mention it.

unfortunately your husband may be pissed for a long time since he could bring in third parties so get ready to hear him occasionally make reference to it or query you plenty when you make requests/purchases.

farydah!! grin grin grin ;Dlong time no 'see'. good to 'see' you here. how are you and yours?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 4:12pm On Sep 16, 2017
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Fyngal1(f): 4:23pm On Sep 16, 2017
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by perfectcrown(f): 4:28pm On Sep 16, 2017
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day



Happy happy birthday ma. Wishing you more and more of fruitful,blessed and prosperious years ahead.

Today is also my ds' birthday!
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 4:31pm On Sep 16, 2017
Happy birthday Mama. God bless you
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 4:39pm On Sep 16, 2017
happy birthday Akorkor. age gracefully
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by realdentist(f): 4:40pm On Sep 16, 2017
jazzyjazz how do I buy baby clothes from MFA?
Cc other sabi mamas
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Moaba(f): 5:18pm On Sep 16, 2017
Good evening mothers. I've been in the anon mode since early July but I need to come out now. I was transferred at work to Lagos in February from Ibadan while I was 4months gone to a higher position that required me doing 3weeks travels to different parts of the country and 1week in Lagos. My husband is in Ibadan. I ended up becoming anaemic at some point (Ftm) and well at 8months, my family insisted I quit. I've been home since End of May till I had my baby early July. I recently started reapplying but I haven't gotten any offer yet. My husband insists we all stay in Ibadan as he doesn't think I can cope alone with d baby and work in Lagos (I've also realized that Lagos stress in not for the faint hearted). The reason for my Epistle is that I need a job in Ibadan. I have a B.Sc (2.1) and a M.Sc in one of the basic medical courses. I am however open to all offers if I can be trained as I learn fast. Please Ibadan mothers, help a bored mum. Housewife life isn't for me as I'm losing myself daily. God bless you.



Phew!!! That was a long one. I feel much better already.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by buccee: 5:47pm On Sep 16, 2017
please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


Happy birthday!

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mzleemah(f): 6:03pm On Sep 16, 2017
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


Happy Birthday, i wish you all the good things you wish yourse
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Mzleemah(f): 6:11pm On Sep 16, 2017
How do i make help my ds, i think he is constipated he has been struggling to poo and the poo is coming very hard. He is on formula and i make sure i give water either before or after each feed and i give warm water early in the morning.
Cc
Zaynie
Alphahandmaiden
Onegai
Enque
Jazzyjazz
All sabi mamas
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by queensnow: 6:19pm On Sep 16, 2017
cheesy cheesy this got my ribs cracking
hunniesuzie:
Like Jazzy said, depends on his personality. I don't think it's that big a deal but some people will say it's breach of trust etc. He's obviously in the second category. Now you have to humble yourself and learn new kpekus styles


Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Eminya(f): 6:38pm On Sep 16, 2017
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day



Happy birthday maami, age gracefully.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Eminya(f): 6:56pm On Sep 16, 2017
Babythug you know your hubby better than anyone here, forget those self righteous people that blew the whole thing out of proportion. As a mama said, get a new kpekus style that will shake his senses outta this world cheesy after the do, you can then apologise and promise not to do that again.
I personally don't do that cos hubby loves shopping esp foodstuff and secondly he keeps money in the house and once it's untouched for some days he gets angry and scolds me for not using the money. I usually end up apologising and using it for little chops around, so I've not had such experience of inflating price of things. I did that for my Dad a lot sha, and my mum also did same to get enough money to buy some things that we will all end up using or eating. The anger I believe is just for a while, so just try and lay low and apologise.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JGracious: 7:01pm On Sep 16, 2017
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


May your new year be filled with more favours and divine liftings.
happy birthday super mom..
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JGracious: 7:14pm On Sep 16, 2017
Moaba:
Good evening mothers. I've been in the anon mode since early July but I need to come out now. I was transferred at work to Lagos in February from Ibadan while I was 4months gone to a higher position that required me doing 3weeks travels to different parts of the country and 1week in Lagos. My husband is in Ibadan. I ended up becoming anaemic at some point (Ftm) and well at 8months, my family insisted I quit. I've been home since End of May till I had my baby early July. I recently started reapplying but I haven't gotten any offer yet. My husband insists we all stay in Ibadan as he doesn't think I can cope alone with d baby and work in Lagos (I've also realized that Lagos stress in not for the faint hearted). The reason for my Epistle is that I need a job in Ibadan. I have a B.Sc (2.1) and a M.Sc in one of the basic medical courses. I am however open to all offers if I can be trained as I learn fast. Please Ibadan mothers, help a bored mum. Housewife life isn't for me as I'm losing myself daily. Kindly contact me on damola.busari@gmail.com or pm. God bless you.

Phew!!! That was a long one. I feel much better already.

Hi Moaba,

I would suggest you take time to nurse your baby till at least 6 months before starting a new job. While you are at it, think of any other thing you can do in case the job does not come at the time you want it.

You can entertain yourself with you tube videos on whatever you have always desired to learn but had no time for.

Again, have you tried LinkedIn for job opportunities. Market yourself well with your profile. I'm sure you'll be smiling soon.

Enjoy...

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by JGracious: 7:18pm On Sep 16, 2017
Mzleemah:
How do i make help my ds, i think he is constipated he has been struggling to poo and the poo is coming very hard. He is on formula and i make sure i give water either before or after each feed and i give warm water early in the morning.

how old is your ds?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 7:20pm On Sep 16, 2017
Happy birthday ma'am!
Akorkor:
What's going on in the house!!! Mama, please wish me Happy Birthday. Today is my day


Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by farydah: 7:28pm On Sep 16, 2017
Fyngal1:


farydah!! grin grin grin ;Dlong time no 'see'. good to 'see' you here. how are you and yours?
hello love. I've been 'seeing' you here ooo. I'm just almost always on peeping mode. congrats on ur baby.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 7:29pm On Sep 16, 2017
Mzleemah:
How do i make help my ds, i think he is constipated he has been struggling to poo and the poo is coming very hard. He is on formula and i make sure i give water either before or after each feed and i give warm water early in the morning.
Cc
Zaynie
Alphahandmaiden
Onegai
Enque
Jazzyjazz
All sabi mamas

No idea ma'am. I would have said give water but you're already doing that

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 7:31pm On Sep 16, 2017
Happy birthday Akorkor
Live long and prosper

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