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Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by TRADELYN: 1:52pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
How to do the restitution in such case? winnerz: |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by phintohlar(f): 1:54pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
jubrealguy:i tot as much |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by jubrealguy(m): 1:58pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
phintohlar:A lot of things women want but they won't say |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by aalangel(f): 2:08pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
gabazin080: So you came to Nairaland to ask this nonsense question? Kill her, crucify her, destroy her!!!!!! Mr. you have trust issues!!!! Have you discussed with your wife before posting it for more than 2 million people to see and judge?? I want to put myself in your wife's shoes....I work for a TV station as a Marketing, Advertising and Brand Manager..so if my client calls me to tell me such things, I should tell him off abi? This is just my scenario cos I don't know what your wife does. Mr. you don't tell a man off like that when you don't know how dangerous he is. What if it's an agbero (big rich one O, that can do and undo)? She should insult the person? Please, Wisdom is profitable to direct, the Bible says. If you feel sooooooooo insecure, call your wife and discuss with her. She might have a story to tell. Otherwise, drop the subject and stop snooping around. Are you looking for excuse to jump to another woman? Mind yourself. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by jubrealguy(m): 2:09pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
BrightDeGea:u use the word fvck too much, I don't think your wife will want to cheat on u ooo 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by phintohlar(f): 2:09pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
jubrealguy:buh wah happened to the husband's own now? |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Hedonistically: 2:17pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
GetMeRight:Well, I'm not sure what a man would want to talk about with a cheating wife. The evidence of her cheating is there - stark, recorded for posterity, thus immortalising her lack of virtue for generations unborn . What exactly would you talk about? Ask her why she did it (doesn't matter at this point), give her a chance to apologise and seek forgiveness? Ask her what she wants you to do to prevent her from cheating henceforth? Or what exactly? The point is to do to her exactly the same thing you would do if you caught her butt naked with another man. There's really no need for long talk. 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by loswhite(m): 2:23pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
torres89:foolish post.... women will never take responsibility for their foolish act.. smh always blaming men for their madness |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by jubrealguy(m): 2:25pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
phintohlar:**pensive** |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Amberon11: 2:29pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
I asked because some people only condemn cheating when it involves the woman. mayorkyzo: |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by royalamour(m): 2:39pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Don't mind those dirty things or small children advising you not to quit. How did the guy get her number? Why would she think about his proposal? Those that are advising not to quit are demons and shits. You won't trust her again forever. Don't die younger, she will remarry asap. Divorce immediately. I mean immediately. 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Ryocaj(m): 2:50pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
torres89:Shut up.. u just saod nonsense.. y get married when u knw u cant stay faithful 2 1 person.. She is married n should not entertain any form of advances from d opposite sex... these hoes will neva b loyal.. team baby mama.. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Ryocaj(m): 2:52pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
torres89: Shut up.. u just saod nonsense.. y get married when u knw u cant stay faithful 2 1 person.. She is married n should not entertain any form of advances from d opposite sex... these hoes will neva b loyal.. team baby mama.. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by lilmax(m): 2:55pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
aalangel:and he got the number through? read the crap once again.... 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by 2bam: 3:28pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Hmmmmm you mean u saw something like that and you want us to advise you on what to do? |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by samsam2019: 3:36pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:I understand you but this woman has already soiled the marriage. She has probably slept with another guy I don't know about you but I can't live with that |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Okonkwo22: 4:19pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
NCANpatroller: I need this too. Pls any help? |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by DJperdurabo: 4:22pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Don't mind the folks talking 'bout "sit her down, talk, love her more bla bla bla". She has cheated already. Its too late! This guy is not the first, I can bet my DJ decks on that (and they cost a whooping 2.1m, no games). I see them everyday in gigs I anchor...you guys won't understand... 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Okonkwo22: 4:22pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
WrathOfHadez: How can I tap one's line pls? |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by DJperdurabo: 4:23pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
[quote author=GeneralOjukwu post=60507277] Great comment...i am a bit surprised, but sorry to be chauvinistic, a lot of women don't think the way you do. Some fall for the attention and don't know that a man who isn't hungry will HARDLY fall for a woman cheating on her husband. @OP....your wife is already riding the guy's KUKURUKU!!!!... Never forgive a cheat, you would be miserable [/quot Please tell him! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by DJperdurabo: 4:24pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
murphyibiam15: Horrendously shameful!!! |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by CoolAmbience(m): 4:28pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: Lol. |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by NCANpatroller: 4:30pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by oruma19: 4:36pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
gabazin080:I bought a secret line and started toasting my wife with fake macho pix on wassap, she read and never replied for once. Each time I chatted her she changes her dp to family pix(me, herself and d children) . truth is that in real life she never told me once that someone was bugging her, BT she never replied the person (wc was the fake me) not even once. Wise women wont allow their husbands to even thibk that is possible because some impatient men may turn the story upside down. Therefore , Mr man, ur wife may just be fooling the guy, she may not wana bother u with such nonsense. Don't conclude and scatter ur marriage because of unnecessary jelosy. Be wise, u don't know who else u will go and marry. Girls of these days are mostly flirts. Their records are not one to look into, remember what a DJ said about akpororo's wife, na so e jus be. Be wise and allow ur family blossom. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Nobody: 4:38pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Op, as a married man, I will advise you to see this movie " fire proof" . First see it alone, check areas you are not paying attention to in your marriage, start making moves to fix it. Also, see the movie with your wife and have a heart to heart talk with her. She might not be cheating, but just like being admired and you ain't doing that. I work in environments filled with married women, and I know how they feel each time I get to compliment or show some acts of kindness. Perhaps just to get my job done. There is no vaccum in life. If you don't compliment her often, she will certainly fall for someone who does. It's just a matter of time. Build a firewall round your marriage pls. You can't divorce your wife on mere suspicion without more. I am not saying what your wife did was great and I don't encourage it. She might have just said she will think about it to get the guy to soft pender a little. You should equally see the movie by Tyler Perry" the confessions of a marriage counsellor" determined guys don't back down easily. The fact that you discovered her enjoying the flirting means there is a crack on the wall and you have not been doing much to fix it. When was the last time you held you wife by the waist , look into her eyes and told her how much she means to you? When was the last time to spent quality time with her, just to listen to hear rant /tell your her worries, trials, fears,etc. When was the last time you did to tiny winny little things you use to do for her before you married her. I can go on and on without stopping. Let's tell her selves the honest truth, if you don't, she will find someone who does and you will lose her. Divorce her! If she leaves and you marry another, what's the probability you won't divorce her again? I am not perfect but I learn everyday. Marriage is work, more work and continuous work. I will like to invite you to a marriage class I joined that has changed and his changing Our marriage. Changing me in particular. https:///BuuRexOSVOZ4GqxpTGrQAu 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by WrathOfHadez(m): 4:53pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Okonkwo22:There are so many spyware app online but they are paid for. But you can try the trial version. You will need to install it physically on the targeted phone. The other option is using ussd method which is a common knowledge but which I can't discourse here. But it is not encouraged to tap in on other people's calls. As you will definitely find something to vex you. No one is beyond fall. Except of course you have strong reasons to believe you're being taken for a ride. |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by greatwhite(m): 4:57pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Do a DNA test for you child. Whatever the outcome forgive her and move on. If the child is not yours den return to the rightful owner. |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by olufemi7onifade: 5:44pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
NCANpatroller: She has already been cought red handed! |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Rozaytee: 6:03pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
phintohlar:lolzz..maybe a bigger oko |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by markapela007: 6:08pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
gabazin080: Ask Her Bout It First Just To Be Sure.... U Could Invite An Experienced Third Party Later To Counsel Her.... |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by alexis007(m): 6:31pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
cstr1000:Are you my alter-ego or something? Because if you're really a personification of your comment in real-life, then you're exactly me. For the records, real men love their ladies with their whole hearts, but when situations like this set in, they can change it for any b!tch till she can hardly recognise them. Me- I'd just summon the lady in question and demand her version while sipping something strong. That moment- I'm not really listening... I'm just getting my already-made decision fueled by the effect of that drink. And if my mind tells me you don't deserve my forgiveness...I'd just hear you out till the final sentence, draw you closer, embrace you for the last time, and then whisper "Get out" into your ears. Once I say those two words to anyone, my soul automatically blanks them out. I don't tolerate BS. Men who aren't weak don't too. Op, this is your wife we are talking about. Every advantage belongs to you in this game, unless you mess things up. You alone know the true extent of the situation more than any of us here, thus, unless your sanity has been messed up, you can come up with the best decision. Whatever you want to do, be firm with it. |
Re: I Caught My Wife Making Dirty Calls With A Guy. Help by Myself2(m): 6:35pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: No he is confused |
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