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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by HaneefahRN(f): 4:20pm On Sep 16, 2017
Ode.

I always wonder how some people can be this stupid.
She should keep risking her life for an idiot.
If he is not ready to father a child but ready to have sex, how much is condom?

When they are done aborting this one too. She should still open her leg for him again, luckily she will lose her womb or life next time.
I want to believe this is a Super story, but some people are actually going through this cos they can't help being stupid.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by odutolasodiq(m): 4:22pm On Sep 16, 2017
Stay with him until he ruins your life! I pity the man that will end up with you if he eventually dump your Ass!

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Timbuktuo: 4:26pm On Sep 16, 2017
dominique:


Spoken like a true fuckboy, the type we warn our daughters against. Give me the three options that women have in preventing pregnancies that men don't? If you're not ready to father a child either you (1)pull out, (2)use condom or (3)abstain totally. Can a woman 'trap' you with pregnancy if you do any of these? It's only an irresponsible man that will say a woman trapped him with pregnancy. Except if he was drugged and raped, he can totally prevent that from happening.

Fuckboy? That word doesn't mean what you think it means.

Maybe I should educate you on the options exclusive to women.
i. Morning after pills
ii. Contraceptive patch
iii. Pre sex pills
iv. Lime express
v. Strong drink
vi. The list is almost endless

Unless a woman is drugged and ráped, she knows what to do after receiving a fresh batch of thick, potent male essence. If after two abortions, she conceives a third time, she should be regarded as mentally deficient.

What is more? She can stop having sex with the guy in question if he feels compelled to always piss inside. Perhaps, this OP's friend was rapéd, I would like to know for sure the circumstances that led to this latest pregnancy.

Meanwhile, I doubt your daughters would have a chance with me seeing how arrogantly ignorant their mother is. God forbid I find any of them attractive not to talk of even thinking of unzipping and sticking my blessed super schlong in them. I'm sure there are lots of idiots who would be their perfect match.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by temi2008: 4:30pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.


Is unfortunate most ladies never learn from past experiences at all.. Is unfortunate.. Ladies bear the brunt or consequences of this why the guy works free.. Nothing to lose o... The lady is damaging her womb gradually and when worse comes to worse the guy marries another lady.. Ladies Shld never be decievd in falling into this... Pre marital does more harm to the ladies life ...by the way abortion is commiting murder.. Killing innocent soul cos of pleasure? It is well
Say no pre marital sex and yes to Chastity..

If she commits that abortion again... God will ask from her cos she is killing an innocent child who may be Leader of tommrw .She should not commit another murder again or else it might take her life too.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Timbuktuo: 4:34pm On Sep 16, 2017
dominique:



Because she got pregnant by herself right? So you expect her to put her life at risk to please a useless irresponsible fellow. When your daughter end up with such goat, tell her to go and abort or raise the child on her own. You must not call for the man responsible o, afterall she tried to trap him with pregn's completely innocent.

I can't have stupid children that will make such a daft mistake three times in a row.

When your own daughter ends up with such a person, I will be interested in knowing how you were able to compel the man to marry her. Abi once person give person belle, next thing na forced marriage abi? grin
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by coleoche: 4:47pm On Sep 16, 2017
Brain fall on her
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by pweetychyka(f): 4:49pm On Sep 16, 2017
Assume d first one was a mistake out of ignorance, the second n third one shouldn't be cos the price of gold circle didn't change undecided undecided undecided
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by 400billionman: 4:51pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

Nah this kind people Nigerian army supposed to do python dance ontop their heads.

Wicked boyfriend..

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by 400billionman: 4:53pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

Why did you miss your period ?

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by tonguengineer(m): 4:57pm On Sep 16, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:
wake me up when u acknowledge u re the one embarassed
>: grin
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by dingbang(m): 5:00pm On Sep 16, 2017
mofeoluwadassah:
her stupidity is like zeewold...extraordinary everyday cry
you wicked cry
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Tintinnoty(m): 5:04pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, [b][/b]parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

Op what's the traditional name for parsley either Ibo or youruba
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by tosyne2much(m): 5:06pm On Sep 16, 2017
That's how some ladies put guys into problems. You know fully well that a guy is not yet financially stable then you want to use pregnancy to hook him down

Later now, when the lady is suffering for the consequences and the guy is busy flexing about, they will say guys are heartless

Wetin be my own sef?

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by dominique(f): 5:24pm On Sep 16, 2017
Timbuktuo:


I can't have stupid children that will make such a daft mistake three times in a row.

When your own daughter ends up with such a person, I will be interested in knowing how you were able to compel the man to marry her. Abi once person give person belle, next thing na forced marriage abi? grin

The Apple will not fall far from the tree. A man that thinks so lowly about women can't possibly have a daughter bright enough not to fall for the charms of fuckboys like yourself. She will definitely fall for the likes of her father.
Seems you have comprehension issues. Where in my post did I say the man must marry her because he got her pregnant? Being man enough and taking responsibility for your action doesn't mean he must marry her. Making a girl go through abortion after abortion without putting yourself in check is not only evil, its irresponsible. You won't know how bad it is until your daughter experiences same fate.

Timbuktuo:


Fuckboy? That word doesn't mean what you think it means.

Maybe I should educate you on the options exclusive to women.
i. Morning after pills
ii. Contraceptive patch
iii. Pre sex pills
iv. Lime express
v. Strong drink
vi. The list is almost endless

Unless a woman is drugged and ráped, she knows what to do after receiving a fresh batch of thick, potent male essence. If after two abortions, she conceives a third time, she should be regarded as mentally deficient.

What is more? She can stop having sex with the guy in question if he feels compelled to always piss inside. Perhaps, this OP's friend was rapéd, I would like to know for sure the circumstances that led to this latest pregnancy.
.

How safe are these options? So she should continuously risk her health by swallowing different pills and concoctions because a man does not deem it fit to prevent a pregnancy he does not want to be 'trapped' with.


Meanwhile, I doubt your daughters would have a chance with me seeing how arrogantly ignorant their mother is. God forbid I find any of them attractive not to talk of even thinking of unzipping and sticking my blessed super schlong in them. I'm sure there are lots of idiots who would be their perfect match

You and your likes will be doing my daughter a huge favour by staying far away from her. It's only a girl with severe low self-esteem like OP's 'friend' that will fall for such fuckboys. A girl that knows her worth will never get attracted to such mess of a man.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by HARDDON: 5:29pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:


Expected

angry undecided
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Rozaytee: 5:38pm On Sep 16, 2017
@ op dat ur friend is a stupid dumb girl.....2 abortions for a man dat may end up not marrying u?...chai...women!!!!...some ladies need to really wisen up

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Rozaytee: 5:39pm On Sep 16, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

Your girlfriend kwa??

Its either you are a lesbian or you are the fool in the picture.

Let me make it easy for you.
If you decide to keep that baby, just know he/she will grow up without a father because that dude has no intention of wifing you.

Its one thing to be a babymama,
It's another thing to be a babymama to an anonymous father undecided

Thank you.
lolzz..nwamaikpe is back!
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Sep 16, 2017
Break up with the selfish destiny blocker
And stop being foolish for useless love.
They tell you they want you to stick by them when they are poor to prove you love them. But they refuse to wear protection and you end up aborting severally because you're trying to please them.
You think he will remember you when he travels like he plans to? Or that he will remember you when he becomes rich?

Go and build your own future. Stop building it around a selfish asshole

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On Sep 16, 2017
tosyne2much:
That's how some ladies put guys into problems. You know fully well that a guy is not yet financially stable then you want to use pregnancy to hook him down

Later now, when the lady is suffering for the consequences and the guy is busy flexing about, they will say guys are heartless

Wetin be my own sef?
If you don't want to be hooked by pregnancy, wear protection.
Stop being irresponsible and claiming victim for something you did knowingly

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by HARDDON: 5:49pm On Sep 16, 2017
All of you raining curses on her, have not the feintest clue so take a chill pill.

N i know most of the ladies spewing dross on here, have done worse than this.


Op, here are your/her options:

1.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Nobody: 5:51pm On Sep 16, 2017
cococandy:
Break up with they selfish destiny blocker
And stop being foolish for useless love.
They tell you they want you to stick by them when they are poor to prove you love them. But they refuse to wear protection and you end up aborting severally because you're trying to please them.
You think he will remember you when he travels like he plans to? Or that he will remember you when he becomes rich?

Go and build your own future. Stop building it around a selfish asshole

She should learn how to have safe s.ex FIRST.
It's the 21st century for God's sake. Unwanted pregnancies should be a thing of the past or extremely rare.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.
If my girl is pregnant for me and I love her, why not? I would marry her of course. cool

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Duru009(m): 6:03pm On Sep 16, 2017
Y does she luv fuvking without condom ?
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by tosyne2much(m): 6:04pm On Sep 16, 2017
cococandy:

If you don't want to be hooked by pregnancy, wear protection.
Stop being irresponsible and claiming victim for something you did knowingly
What at if the lady in question insisted on unprotected sex?


Please stop making it look like guys are the only one that initiate unprotected sex

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Nobody: 6:13pm On Sep 16, 2017
tosyne2much:
What at if the lady in question insisted on unprotected sex?

Please stop making it look like guys are the only one that initiate unprotected sex

If you can't say no to her request then there is a thing called the pull out method. Do I need to explain it to you?

Gosh, and some people think that there should be no s.ex education at schools.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by tosyne2much(m): 6:18pm On Sep 16, 2017
Mindfulness:


If you can't say no to her request then there is a thing called the pull out method. Do I need to explain it to you?

Gosh, and some people think that there should be no s.ex education at schools.

Take me out of it. Remember I'm not the OP tongue
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Nobody: 6:22pm On Sep 16, 2017
Paw paw for abortion Kei nawa.abeg make she no try am.secondly those people blaming her here some of you are not better than her.I repeat some oooh before you come for fight.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by hokafor(m): 6:23pm On Sep 16, 2017
Hmm, your girl friend will continue to abort till she removes her womb then the guy will quietly go and marry a virgin.wise up girl.

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Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Ballmer: 6:24pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

Your friend is so senseless to the extent she can not open her mouth to tell the bf to use protection after the first pregnancy ba. And pls do not tell me the guy insist on not using condom when she can easily let the bf understand no condoms you take responsibility no story. How hard is that ?
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by catso(m): 6:26pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
Please, Is Her Man Playing Her Or Just A Victim Of Circumstance?

HI

My girlfriend came to my house yesterday and during girls chit chat, she told me something that is kind of baffling to me.

She met this guy late 2015 on facebook and they later met in person. They have been in relationship since then till now. She told me she had 2 abortions for him last year immidiately she missed her period by taking a drug. He gave her his reasons, that he is not yet buoyant to foot pregnancy, baby, traditional marriage and that his place is too small to house relations that may want to visit.

She missed her period 4days ago and she told her boyfriend she will want to keep it and suggested him paying only bride price since he had the plan to marry her like he said, but he told her that, that will obstruct his plan to travel out by him making use of his budgeted money and also it is expensive for him now to keep to take care of pregnancy,mother and baby. He then suggested she starts taking unripe papaya, parsley leaves etc to miscarry since she just missed her period. She came to me feeling confused.

I told her if the guy truly loves her and want to make her future wife finances shouldn't be the problem...but in all, the decision is hers to make. It is obvious this guy is not that serious but may be wrong.

Just wondering how many of you would decide to marry their present girlfriend if such case presents itself. Though i do not support marriage because of pregnancy.

That your friend need brain transplant.
The guy is not ready for marriage now. Your friend should wake up from her foolishness before she destroy her life.
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by Ballmer: 6:26pm On Sep 16, 2017
MissKim:
[b] .

Your friend is so senseless to the extent she can not open her mouth to tell the bf to use protection after the first pregnancy ba ? Pls do not tell me the guy insist on not using condom when she can easily let the bf understand no condoms you take responsibility no story. How hard is that ?
Re: She Had 2 Abortions For Him, She's Pregnant Again & He Wants Another Abortion by SalomonKane: 6:30pm On Sep 16, 2017
Mindfulness:


If you can't say no to her request then there is a thing called the pull out method. Do I need to explain it to you?

Gosh, and some people think that there should be no s.ex education at schools.

This method doesn't always work. I know peeps who fell victim to it.

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