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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by pocohantas(f): 7:27pm On Sep 17, 2017
KevinDein:

Hahaha grin

This pocowhatever wants my attention that's why she mentioned me when she quoted someone else. Basically love it when moroooonic men haters like you detest me.

Lovely grin


It's nice that someone else sees through your innate stupidity. Other men saw nothing wrong in that comment, only you...an insecure man, rapist apologist and supporter of every evil, sees man hating in every comment.

May your healing come soon.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cococandy(f): 7:28pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

So, you also advice my sister to Bleep around, coz she is immuned to HIV abi. . grin
No.
Someone else.
Not multiple people.
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nancy2016: 7:29pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

That is to say, If the devil comes knocking, you will gladly open the door and won't fight, I wish I could send a little video to clear d air about ds ish

For how long will you fight? So you want me to spend my whole adult life praying for a wayward husband, so that when I'm old and nearing death, I become a bitter woman full of regret. Why do you think there are so many embittered people in the world? They realize that they wasted their lives on a human being who wasn't worth their tears. We all have one life to live and you are responsible for your happiness.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cococandy(f): 7:31pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

In this case, the women are stronger and the men are weaker
You know I know that we all know that the women are stronger and men are weaker in this regard
Lmao
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by KevinDein: 7:31pm On Sep 17, 2017
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pocohantas:


It's nice that someone else sees through your innate stupidity. Other men saw nothing wrong in that comment, only you...an insecure man, rapist apologist and supporter of every evil, sees man hating in every comment.

May your healing come soon.
I love you too, Poco wink
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by pocohantas(f): 7:32pm On Sep 17, 2017
KevinDein:
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I love you too, Poco wink

I don't love rapist apologist and supporters of evil.
So sorry...

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On Sep 17, 2017
You're not a woman so don't tell us about our bodies.

Why are you fighting so hard to justify nonsense?

Dancing around and making wild assumptions. It's stupid. Stop
Sebastine1606:

Really? Did u read my comments, I said in this regard
A woman can stay without having sex for quite a long time, but men can't.. That's what I meant by "in this regard "
Plz endeavour to read well and understand before u comment

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:33pm On Sep 17, 2017
Nancy2016:


For how long will you fight? So you want me to spend my whole adult life praying for a wayward husband, so that when I'm old and nearing death, I become a bitter woman full of regret. Why do you think there are so many embittered people in the world? They realize that they wasted their lives on a human being who wasn't worth their tears. We all have one life to live and you are responsible for your happiness.
Have you tried, OPs mum haven't tried... No she didn't
The next thing she did, was to take to her heels, after how many years of marriage
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:34pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

Really? Did u read my comments, I said in this regard
A woman can stay without having sex for quite a long time, but men can't.. That's what I meant by "in this regard "
Plz endeavour to read well and understand before u comment

Did God exclude any specific area when he was giving men headship over the home?
Did God say, "Man, you be the leader in every aspect of your marriage except faithfulness, you will be your wife's subordinate when it comes to sex and being faithful"? Did God say that?
God has giving you men headship and leadership over the entire home so carry your responsibility and stop picking and choosing which one you want.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:35pm On Sep 17, 2017
cococandy:
You're not a woman so don't tell us about our bodies.

Why are you fighting so hard to justify nonsense?

Dancing around and making wild assumptions. It's stupid. Stop
Am not against your thoughts or infringing on your privacy, am only against the idea that the mum should continue, which sadly is What you all want
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by KevinDein: 7:36pm On Sep 17, 2017
pocohantas:


I don't love rapist apologist and supporters of evil.
So sorry...
I'm neither of those, but I bet it's hopeless convincing you otherwise, so let us both have a lovely evening and a great, fruitful week ahead cool

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:36pm On Sep 17, 2017
elektra:


Did God exclude any specific area when he was giving men headship over the home?
Did God say, "Man, you be the leader in every aspect of your marriage except faithfulness, you will be your wife's subordinate when it comes to sex and being faithful"? Did God say that?
God has giving you men headship and leadership over the entire home so carry your responsibility and stop picking and choosing with one you want.
That's why you are the helper, help mate, not contestant mate
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:
"Agenda "..... grin grin grin FYI, am a socialist, but doesn't mean I don't read my Bible So look for something to eat
you are a walking contradiction.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cococandy(f): 7:40pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

Am not against your thoughts or infringing on your privacy, am only against the idea that the mum should continue, which sadly is What you all want
What's sad about that? The woman is happy
Do you have something against women's happiness?

Like some folks have said. Desisting from sending nudes is advisable I agree because as usual fvck boys like to blackmail with nudes (which brings us back to guys as the problem in most cases).

Otherwise she should fvck whoever she wants with protection of course. cool
She doesn't owe him faithfulness in the least bit.

If I were in her shoes, I'd think of a way to do it that will crush his souls forever. Nonsense

Bringing a woman in my home of all places. The nerve on that dude.
And the nerve of all you hypocrites having something to say about her.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:41pm On Sep 17, 2017
Proudgorgeousga:


you are a walking contradiction.

And you are a confused fellow grin
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:44pm On Sep 17, 2017
cococandy:

What's sad about that? The woman is happy
Do you have something against women's happiness?

Like some folks have said. Desisting from sending nudes is advisable I agree because as usual fvck boys like to blackmail with nudes (which brings us back to guys as the problem in most cases).

Otherwise she should fvck whoever she wants with protection of course. cool
She doesn't owe him faithfulness in the least bit.

If I were in her shoes, I'd think of a way to do it that will crush his souls forever. Nonsense
Yes, she doesn't owe him any fidelity, but at least we all went to school, and we have heard the saying "two wrongs don't make a right"
Many women too who have crossed this path has also patiently and prayerfully win back their husbands and lived happily ever after
But yes, you want her to go for divorce... .that's OK, if it will make you happy
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:45pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

That's why you are the helper, help mate, not contestant mate

I know I am a helper. What is your point?

You have not answered my question! Did God give leadership of the home entirely to the man? Or did he give man leadership in other aspects and gave woman leadership in faithfulness and sex?

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nancy2016: 7:47pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

Have you tried, OPs mum haven't tried... No she didn't
The next thing she did, was to take to her heels, after how many years of marriage

The op's mum certainly went above and beyond the call of duty. She has endured a lot of disrespect. I would have gone within a year, especially after being attacked in my home by my husband's concubine. That's the height of humiliation.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:48pm On Sep 17, 2017
elektra:


I know I am a helper. What is your point?

You have not answered my question! Did God give leadership of the home entirely to the man? Or did he give man leadership in other aspects and gave woman leadership in faithfulness and sex?
What I meant is on occasion of weakness in sex and bedmathics grin grin,if she can't continue, which is understandable,she may quit, God supports it "divorce on occasion of adultery..... .but I mean helper, coz when he falls on cases like ds, you may forgive him, pray for him, show him love and win him forever
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 7:49pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

And you are a confused fellow grin

you are the confused one. your bible says one thing you say another just to support your stupid argument that is dead on arrival.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by pocohantas(f): 7:51pm On Sep 17, 2017
KevinDein:

I'm neither of those, but I bet it's hopeless convincing you otherwise, so let us both have a lovely evening and a great, fruitful week ahead cool

When you stop getting angry at females who call out rapists and emotionally abusive men, we will know you have resigned from the aforementioned groups.

For now, you're a grand patron there... have a fruitful week too.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by cococandy(f): 7:52pm On Sep 17, 2017
What does my happiness matter in this case? Or yours?

It's HER happiness that's important

Yes let's keep promoting mistreatment of women because women in the past have been talked into enduring trash.

If you will give this same exact advice to a man who's wife has been philandering from the day one of their marriage, then I will take you seriously

Otherwise you're just another sexist entitled male who thinks men's feelings and wants are more important than women's. You're the type I usually ignore.

Sebastine1606:

Yes, she doesn't owe him any fidelity, but at least we all went to school, and we have heard the saying "two wrongs don't make a right"
Many women too who have crossed this path has also patiently and prayerfully win back their husbands and lived happily ever after
But yes, you want her to go for divorce... .that's OK, if it will make you happy

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:55pm On Sep 17, 2017
cococandy:
What does my happiness matter in this case? Or yours?

It's HER happiness that's important

Yes let's keep promoting mistreatment of women because women in the past have been talked into enduring trash.

If you will give this same exact advice to a man who's wife has been philandering from the day one of their marriage, then I will take you seriously
Calm down oh, this is the world we live in
It's not my make inugo

Otherwise you're just another sexist entitled male who thinks men's feelings and wants are more important than women's. You're the type I usually ignore.

Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by elektra(f): 7:55pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

What I meant is on occasion of weakness in sex and bedmathics grin grin,if she can't continue, which is understandable,she may quit, God supports it "divorce on occasion of adultery..... .but I mean helper, coz when he falls on cases like ds, you may forgive him, pray for him, show him love and win him forever
Wow, is that what helper means nowadays? I must have been gone for too long. I hope the leader will be able to do the same to the helper when she falls too

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:

Yes, she doesn't owe him any fidelity, but at least we all went to school, and we have heard the saying "two wrongs don't make a right"
Many women too who have crossed this path has also patiently and prayerfully win back their husbands and lived happily ever after
But yes, you want her to go for divorce... .that's OK, if it will make you happy

gringrin

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Amberon11: 7:58pm On Sep 17, 2017
Op didnt say so, dont put words into his mouth.

Sebastine1606:

OP said, he's trying to curb the excesses of his dad

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 7:59pm On Sep 17, 2017
Obviously it's now a gender fight and no more an issue of saving marriages.... cheesy cheesy
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Sebastine1606(m): 8:01pm On Sep 17, 2017
Amberon11:
Op didnt say so, dont put words into his mouth.

He said he has been talking to his dad to stop na, it's d same thing in one of the occasions, the dad agreed the mum had been a good wife all along and he owned up that he doesn't know what's wrong with him
Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by BigIyanga: 8:02pm On Sep 17, 2017
Nancy2016:


The op's mum certainly went above and beyond the call of duty. She has endured a lot of disrespect. I would have gone within a year, especially after being attacked in my home by my husband's concubine. That's the height of humiliation.
Even the man allowed his concubines to harrass his family and some folks are here siding with the man. What manner of toto-drowned man would allow his concubines to come and harras his blood?? That man needs to be flogged mercilessly in a market square on a market day!!

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 8:03pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:
Obviously it's now a gender fight and no more an issue of saving marriages.... cheesy cheesy

which marriage are you saving? the one the husband of the house has moved on with a lover? your brain is paining you.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 17, 2017
Sebastine1606:
Obviously it's now a gender fight and no more an issue of saving marriages.... cheesy cheesy

No, it is not. It is a fight against selfish i.diocy, which you represent. wink

No woman here will call out a man who is reasonable and fair but many will challenge i.diocy and unfairness against women.

HUGE DIFFERENCE.

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Re: My Mother Is Seeing Other Men by Nancy2016: 8:07pm On Sep 17, 2017
BigIyanga:

Even the man allowed his concubine to harrass his family and for folks are here siding with the man. What manner of toto-drowned man would allow his concubines to come and harras his blood?? That man needs to be flogged mercilessly in a market square on a market day!!

Tell me about it. The kind of nonsense they expect women to tolerate. That's why we have all these useless pieces of advice telling women how to keep their marriages but none for the husbands. If we spoke up more and shamed these irresponsible husbands, then maybe our society will be better.

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