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Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Prognose: 8:40am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Sigh Well, shit happens. Inasmuch as I would want you to forgive her, it doesn't tell too well of the relationship if she's cheating on you even before you guys got married. And since she has already established a pattern where she dirty-chats other guys when you offend her, just to make you angry. ..then there is a very strong possibility she'll do it again when you guys are married cos marriage can be really stressful. I say forgive her but walk away from the relationship. She's not your wife. Don't ruin her life. The other guy isn't worth your sanity that you should be thinking of killing him. And suicide? Lol, guy, you're 30, tougher things will come your way, it's your duty as a man to tough up and overcome obstacles, not to consider suicide at the slightest inclination. Where are u based? Do you drink? I would have invited you to this great bar, we drink ourselves silly and forget all this emotional nonsense o jare and move on with life Chill bro. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by itzmarvyx(m): 8:49am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Guys here are just forming staunch.. I used to do that too until my homie was shedding tears in my front because of his woman.. Vex I no fit vex.. I just dy console am.. Na that day I know say love strong sha.. OP dust yourself and stand up.. That's what we do as men.. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.. What if you were married?? That means you go just go hang yourself na.. I sense that you are an emotional person so just give yourself time to heal and see if you can trust her again.. Coz 6 years is no joke. But if you can't, end it biko.. It's well.. 7 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by coolcatty: 9:36am On Sep 19, 2017 |
I can understand how u feel bro... 6yrs is not beans walahi... I can relate to all u are saying after investing time, money, emotions etc... Ur greatest fear is the fear of starting afresh and trusting another woman after your experience..... I have been through that shiiit but trust me... You go dey alright last last..... I didn't really feel mine cos I was the one that did the cheating and had to beg and plead for forgiveness for a whopping 6months but she refused... So calm down... Ask ursef if you can forgive... If not just move on... U will meet someone some day. 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Maxvasia(m): 9:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Smh. Lover boy. When we tell u guys to forget about these ladies, and focus on more important things like being very successful, u ppl always think u r smarter. U fall into a trap and the first thing u think of is suicide. Issokay. It just means the only thing u know abt marriage is its spelling. U think its a joke. U obviously dnt know what these ladies are. Guy forget them, make money and dey will auto-fall in place. If u like dnt listen. This is what happens to ppl who allow the society tell dem "just get a girl and settle down, u r already 30". U r lucky u r not married yet, ur suicide would have been surer 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by sleuthhound: 10:46am On Sep 19, 2017 |
HarunaWest:abi o lol! I dey wonder sef, d monkey sef disvirgin da babe, as if he had a right to do dat to an unmarried lady @1st. Now somebody else wan chop d kpomo too, he's rantin as if he has paid her brideprice.... He sounds lik he has dis sense of entitlement, am sure d girl is tired of him. Dats y she flirts, He needs to check himself! 5 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by favourmic(m): 10:49am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Gbese re |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by ChykeBivins(m): 10:50am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Marvel1206:Good advise |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Tlordy: 10:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: Oga you are bloodily fool. You go dey invest timeuntop woman u never marry.. just thank God you still Alice's. All u have to do erase that and start over with someth Ng new |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by KKKWHITE(m): 10:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
All girls cheats Don't ever show so much love for any girl because they don't deserve it girls don't love they only love someone because of the money that is why I consider them as liabilities 9 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Naijashortcode(m): 10:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Let married mens dress this issue proper |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by 26Clueless(m): 10:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
seek medical help first..before I could think of d best advice for u.. imagine becos a girl jilted u.......u started having negative thoughts...to d point of committing suicide...seek help first den...will help u |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by hanassholesolo: 10:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
My whole world is shattering too, bro. I lost half my portfolio on Binary Options. Feels like the end of the road for me. Bleep life. 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Juliearth(f): 10:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Thats a fact. You should pick up the pieces of your life and move on. Suicide et al is out it please. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Bants(m): 10:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
You only 30 bro why the rubbish scatter any place any where |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Elenurazorr(m): 10:54am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Similar thing happened to my friend his fiancée since 9yrs was dating, had sex with and even contacted sti from another man, and he got to know, confronted her and she confessed. I told my guy to leave the lady but right now they are planning their wedding. My guy said he can't start again, he made the lady abandon the lover and promised never to repeat such. The whole scenario made me realise love can turn some ppl to fools. My advice if you have also been bleeping other ladies all along just forgive her if she's remorseful. All ladies are the same 14 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Fembleez1(m): 10:54am On Sep 19, 2017 |
You just have to believe it. That is Konji's tradition. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by LockDown69(m): 10:55am On Sep 19, 2017 |
i was here to look @ her sexy body. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by missyadorable(f): 10:55am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: Lol...You didn't know she could cheat cos you think cheating is a monopoly,only you can cheat,abi? Funny guy The same way you fvck other people's ladies is the same way other guys fvck your own ladies,just that most of you don't find out 3 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by stephen109(m): 10:55am On Sep 19, 2017 |
mumu dey there!,nowadays ladies are spiritually wicked and destructive!,even if you marry ham from church self. baba take heart and chop heart!. 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by favourmic(m): 10:55am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Guy you better cool down, you die them go still Bleep am, you kill her you go to jail them go still Bleep am then who loose? Move on with your life and be thankful for saving your life from divorcee Girls of now adays are trash... 3 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by viktor01(m): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
"This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around," Never ever invest what you cannot throw away on a woman or build your life around any woman....Do that at your own peril. Gosh! Do guys still do that? 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by davidodiba(m): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Marvel1206: I would have said a lot to you but this guy I am quoting summarised it all. Take this particular advice very seriously. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Chiamaka1(f): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Forgive and forget..I believe she must have learnt from her mistakes,u can't just tro away a relationship of 6years lyk dat...How re u sure that the next gal u will date wil b faithful..FORGIVE BRO!! |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by MaziOmenuko: 10:57am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: Okk, which one do you want to do first? Committing suicide should be the last because if you commit suicide first, you wont have the strenght to accomplish the other tasks like killing the 2nd guy. Now I will advise that if I am to arrange the tasks in order of importance, this is how it should look like... 1. making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life 2. killing the guy 3. committing suicide 4. dying No 3 and 4 can be interchanged; you can do 4 first before 3 or the other way round. Thank me later. 10 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by muller101(m): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Lies |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by nairanaira12: 10:57am On Sep 19, 2017 |
dotunbekro06: Has it ever occurred to your dead brain that a girl that cheats in relationship will most probably cheat in marriage? 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by robosky02(m): 10:57am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: onyindidi advise please |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by nsesam(m): 10:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Guy cool down nothing do you, all you need is to call your woman to order, give her your rules and enforce it and make sure she abides in it. Hold on any future engagement like marriage with her for now until she's completly loyal to you. Don't forget that a broken relationship is better that a broken marriage |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Luckygurl(f): 10:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
missyadorable: Seriously!! Did you read his Post at all 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by odi1278(m): 10:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Ladies are just useless (most of them). A guy shows absolute love and loyalty and all you will get in return is back stabbing. Take heart bro, move on and never trust any lady. GudPpleG8Nation: 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by KingMicky3286: 10:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: Did the guy cut the kpomo after Ynashing , If he did not cut the kpomo off, please manage the left over food. Next time secure your food against cockroach. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by policy12: 10:59am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Bros please forgive her o, please she is the one today it can be you tomorrow. Bros the pic below had a message.
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