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Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Oyindidi(f): 11:46am On Sep 19, 2017 |
ifydflow:I av seen worst |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by GudPpleG8Nation(m): 11:47am On Sep 19, 2017 |
fof1:Thank you so much, sir. The lady has been begging me. I saw her mom before I traveled back to Lagos yesterday morning, she kneeled down, begging me (she was heartbroken, she never believed until I played the confession recording to her). Her mom have been calling to beg. I'm very Confused right now, I don't know what to do and how to go about it? |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Nobody: 11:47am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Women are scum |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Nobody: 11:47am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Oyindidi:how many times av u cheated on yah partner? Don't lie o. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Adaumunocha(f): 11:48am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation:Forgive. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by basit322(m): 11:49am On Sep 19, 2017 |
HarunaWest: Lol, your turn is coming |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Free4man: 11:49am On Sep 19, 2017 |
I have read what you posted as well as what other people commented. This is my point. You have two choice and each choice is based on our fiancé reaction. Ladies are very deadly, so you have to wise up at this moment. I know right now you will feeling so miserable but that is not the solution. Man up and wipe away your tears. Watch her from a far and check if she is still willing to be with you. Don't get in contact with her at lest for a week or two. During this period formulated a new habit of not tolerating nonsense. Also, check if she is doing her possible means to get in touch with you. Don't be faked by her cries and likes, let the week pass. Let her send people to you, let her suffer and realised her mistake. Now, come out as a boss with no emotion at all. Tell her what you want, word her to extent that she should want to quit herself. Let her promise you and let her confesses everything. At this moment do not show any affection and act as if you were not affected.Check your self up if you can still move on with her too. If she fail any of this test, kindly call it a quit. If you can't forget, kindly leave her life. I hope this will help you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by emelda86(f): 11:50am On Sep 19, 2017 |
U see life!!! your type are hard to come by but guy don't kill anyone or do something u will regret just let her go... She will surely regret Karma is a biatch |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by banre(m): 11:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
MaziOmenuko: 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by codemastergen: 11:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: Bro no de put woman matter for head at all bro.... it will drag you down and slow you down put it on your shoulders just a shrug and it will drop off just like a bad habit .... just forget the lousy girl and go get a drink and watch a good movie PEACE BRO.... 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Viergeachar: 11:51am On Sep 19, 2017 |
kajsa08: Wow Coming from a 'lady' So ladies also believe in vengeful/punishment sexxx |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Nobody: 11:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
If OP wants to die so what? At least it will reduce one wasted sperm's burden on buhari |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by emelda86(f): 11:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Free4man: Forget about dating her again....u men don't forget thing especially infidelity he will surely use it against her if they get married. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by MaziOmenuko: 11:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Vikky014: There you go, OP. You both are made for each other, can you guys get married already? Vikky pls don't say no to a broken heart. Misery loves company and this dude right here can make a good company. What say thee?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by megafone: 11:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Dump her, and now! |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Chommieblaq(f): 11:52am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Six year in a relationship and you say she own him nothing? For someone to invest his or her time and commitment in a relationship, you own the person something. Throughout the 6 years, were you faithful? Op it hurts but, if you can't forgive then quit, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by giddy10(m): 11:54am On Sep 19, 2017 |
well u imagine how ladies reason atimes. first and foremost u must understand that it is not the end of the world for u( so erase every thought of suicide), also u must be the better person by not doing anything harsh or bad to her or the man. Let me cheer u up here with this thought ' if this had happen after u have married her, it would have been worst oo my brother. Forgive her but leave her and wait for u to heal, yes u can love again. Love another when u have heal so that u are in control of your decision. Avoid distant relationship and prolong relationship. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Magnifico2000: 11:54am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Hmm.. The best thing to do is to comitt suicide and end the life. It is so hard to believe that a girl you invested on and trusted with your life betrayed your love. Just kill yourself as you suggested and let the world just end for you but dont kill her or harm the guy so they can continue the relationship when you are gone. My take tho! |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Nathan2016: 11:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
GudPpleG8Nation: And you had sex with her when you are not married to her, i guess she cooked for you two when you are not married to her, keeps you company and advise you.. oga relationship is a two way street. not one way. dont say you invested, like shes a property...lol if you no wan continues, let go, but if you feel you can continue, call her and sit down and talk..... 6 years and you still think you want to kill yourself becos of her ,,nawa o.... u de fuvk up ooooo abeg incase you still wan kill yourself, let me know, maybe i can help you with the easiest means...oluku
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Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by SAGGAT: 11:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Well dateing a cheat is funny This what I'll do I'll make up my mind and turn her into my intimacy gadget U know its just like eating with ur younger one, so once u feel ur satisfied with the little food , u leave the rest for your younger bro Same applies here once ur done fuc***g some sences into her u dump her black ass for the other guy... Who will still eat to his satisfaction and also dump her black ass .. So u see that's the best way she can be dumped Ooooo i forgot don't fail to send her your wedding invitation.... Saggat |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by haykes(m): 11:56am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Lol invest on lady? is like invest on MMM or Bet9ja possibility of 80% loss, we don't do this in china though. 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by GudPpleG8Nation(m): 11:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
reciprokal:I rarely look into her phone, I was watching movies on her phone when the Whatsapp message came in and I don't see anything wrong in replying your spouse messages. She do reply mine sometimes, I don't even carry my phone around anytime we're together. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Magnifico2000: 11:58am On Sep 19, 2017 |
I can see Daeylar viewing this thread. Waht are you looking for here again? If i give u my heart promise me you wont break it *in jonsnow's voice* |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by kajsa08: 12:00pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Viergeachar:'I' believe in settling scores. it's what i would do if i were a guy. Let him make his exit grand. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by martynsnet: 12:00pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Chiamaka1: I will like to talk to u about something, I promise I am not trying anything fishy. would u be kind enough to drop ur whatsapp number? |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by onimcee1(m): 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
And we are I the best position to advise you right? Bringing your private problems to social network makes you a real man. You are going crazy and you still had the patience and time to type? Yours friends are so dumb that if you confide in them, none will be able to advise you? My brother move on. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by chronique(m): 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: Nope. I always tell people to move if one partner cheats on the other. I can't stand infidelity. If I ever get married and for some reason mistakenly cheat on her, I'd ask for a divorce cos I wouldn't want to demand from her, loyalty that I can't give. The only reason I'd remain in the union is if she decides to forgive me despite me being unfaithful. But it wouldn't be me, demanding for what I do not deserve. Even if she forgives me, my mind won't be at rest cos my conscience would always prick me. I believe a woman shouldn't tolerate a cheating partner just as much as I believe a man shouldn't tolerate a cheating woman. Simple. 4 Likes |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by nnamdiosu(m): 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
cococandy: smile....cococandy.... so caring and comforting. God bless you. OP read cococandy's reply. Just breath...it's gonna be all right 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by onimcee1(m): 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
And we are I the best position to advise you right? Bringing your private problems to social network makes you a real man. You are going crazy and you still had the patience and time to type? Yours friends are so dumb that if you confide in them, none will be able to advise you? My brother move and man up. |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Viergeachar: 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
kajsa08: Okay o You are a lady and you got no chill |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Magnifico2000: 12:02pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Whenever i think of failed marriages and relationships, i just weak to have one after my own failed relationships. True relationships are hard to come by |
Re: I Can't Believe My Fiancée Can Cheat On Me by Temitogab: 12:03pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Expectation of certain behaviours from loved ones usually set one up for offence. There are reasons to be worried but there is a greater reasons not to be. My brother don't quit a relationship because of mistake. It has happen unless she says she is no longer interested. When u say u want to leave we advice to stay put inorder to learn necessary experience and maturity. The devil i know is better than the angel i dont know. |
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