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I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Goodlyhrt(m): 10:24pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
I feel like I dont have the natural instincts of keeping a conversation going, I end up killing the convo and boring people out. No matter how hard I try to be funny, I end up laughing alone and getting yawns from others. For example, I find myself getting a hard time finding a perfect or witty response to what people say or do which my friends effortlessly soar on, I just feel like I'm not made for such. Like, I'm a bad narrator/story teller and the worst is I want to say it but I dont knw how to present it in a delightful manner, and that makes me keep on talking and talking until I eventual bore you out. I'm tired! Even right here on Nairaland, high views and low comments on my threads have shown me that I need to shut the F up b'caus nobody understands what am trying to say. |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Sorry ooo 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by ULSHERLAN(m): 10:42pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
It's a sign of No IQ 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Coloradvantage(m): 10:43pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
you will improve with time! keep reading and watching talk shows.., 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Divay22(f): 10:52pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
You're overly too sensitive... Don't force it,you can flow with people if only you like them... Keeping up with a conversation has to come naturally, if it doesn't come, then you don't have to force it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Fadiga24(m): 10:55pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Divay22: Yea, me too |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:04pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
its a sign of you being BORING, nothing remotely to do with IQ |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by EmperorGE: 11:58pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
ULSHERLAN:baddest |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by makydebbie(f): 12:01am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Awwn I think I'm like that too. |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 12:09am On Sep 19, 2017 |
op what do you want me to say na |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Its a sign you'll become a ritualist. Dos people don't talk. They just kill. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by mumumugu(m): 3:20am On Sep 19, 2017 |
high bq..boring quotient 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Dyt(f): 6:12am On Sep 19, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by TINALETC3(f): 6:17am On Sep 19, 2017 |
U ar jst being an introvert, am like dat, dat y I prefer punching my keyboard to physical talk. Physically, wen somebody is around me wt talk, I always feel like shunning d person off jst 2 b alone bt I jst hv 2 pretend and silently pray dat d person leavs 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by ULSHERLAN(m): 6:25am On Sep 19, 2017 |
Dyt: My Somalian crush |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 6:39am On Sep 19, 2017 |
No character has nothing to do with intelligence quota. If you can't hold a decent conversation, try to improve yourself. |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Dyt(f): 10:11am On Sep 19, 2017 |
ULSHERLAN: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
extremely boring |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Macdawid(m): 1:48pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Just goan start watching ''Keeping up with the Kardashians'' |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by KevinDein: 1:55pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
@op, admitting it's a problem is half way to the solution. You can help yourself by being knowledgeable in any topic of interest to you and hang around people that share this interest. For example, I might be an introvert but I can go on discussing football for hours. |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Born2conquer: 2:48pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: But you just typed this? And you narrated it well I will like to say..it is a sign of High iq..they are probably discussing something's you find less appealing |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Prettyamaxy(f): 4:10pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
no its not sign of low iq |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Daeylar(f): 8:05pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
TINALETC3: It has nothing to do with being an introvert |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:08pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Daeylar:Do you think you knw what am hurting from? |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:11pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Born2conquer:Hmm... You r right though |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Daeylar(f): 8:20pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: Not really, and it doesn't have anything to do with IQ either, I think you should take divay's advice, and you don't have to fill anxious to say something or to try to force a conversation, you don't have to try, not to talk of trying hard to be funny or to have a witty response, you don't have to. there is nothing wrong with keeping quiet sometimes, don't put pressure on yourself, if you don't feel like speaking you shouldn't. What is a delightful manner ? Can you try talking to people that won't make you feel like you are boring them? Maybe you can also read up on different topics or issues, read widely, on those that interest you. You can also read up on others just to have a general idea of them. You can try all these and see if it would help 1 Like |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
You are trying too hard. Your mind is aggressively looking for patterns to generate random witty statements that will be appropriate. All of these trigger the same bits of your brain leaving you immersed in your thoughts. That is the psychic fuel that cuts you off from the flow of the conversation. You have to be relaxed and learn to control your mind when you are in a group. Has it occurred to you that you tend to be witty when you are alone? When your mind brings forth thoughts and you be like " oh shiit, that's a cool thing to say". That's it. |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: .... |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
boostdom:.... |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Goodlyhrt(m): 8:54pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
bluetrails7:I wanna learn |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Divay22(f): 9:12pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Macdawid:What's interesting about that show |
Re: I Am Extremely Boring Is That A Sign Of High Or Low IQ? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Goodlyhrt: ... |
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