makydebbie:
I've just realised too.

I completely agree with this ma. I'm just realising it, I was thinking the initial amount would cover all costs. Looks like her mum's case is serious.

makydebbie:
Stellie what of your family and church members? Because I think you'll need more than 50k as time goes by. Get people involved dear.

Piiko:
Good enough that's the first step, please provide an estimate, if you come online to solicit for help it's a brave move, a problem shared is half solved

makydebbie:
Nobodys pls provide an estimate for her medical bills and upkeep.

Oyindidi:
Its something serious, I know what she's going through.

Nobodys:
my church pastor helped me when finding d 180k....as for family members.. Hmmm i only hav my mum in dis world and she only has me.. Its a long story, even my uncle dat said he wud help hasnt moved a muscle.... ..i know i would need more money, a guy in d hospital who did a leg surgery and was discharged today spent more dan 500k altogether and his case was even minor..buh it is well dear. Thanks

Nobodys:
dear pls break d english down.. Do u mean d total of everything till she recover

Nobodys:
dear pls break d english down.. Do u mean d total of everything till she recover

Piiko:
are you using a private or government hospital?? I have friends in Warri, I will ask 1 to reach out to you

Nobodys:
its a private hospital. Its located at dsc

makydebbie:
Exactly hun, how much you think will be needed for everything till she recovers. I'll advice you to ask your doctor and get back to him to be sure.

Oyindidi:
transfer her to a good govt hospital

makydebbie:
God will help her, it's well. It's really not easy.

Okay keep your pastor involved in everything okay? You need all the support you can get my dear. It's really not easy. Always remember a problem shared is a problem half solved so any new thing should come to this thread so you can get necessary help. If you didn't say this one now, Piko wouldn't know and you won't get help. I told you I've been in your shoes too, I know how you feel. Every day and night I'm praying for you and mum. The joy of the Lord is your strength my dear. If this thing happened in lagos the way I'll carry your issue on my head will even shock my family. It's well my love, it's well. Mum will be bouncing soon okay?

Nobodys:
am thinking of that.. Buh dey might not give her d attention that she really needs.. Dats my fear..

Nobodys:
. I really dont know dear.. That money wud be soo huge for only one person. It myt be up to 300 or even more or less..i wud try to confirm, all am just thinking of now is how to get d 50k so they wont pause d treatment.. D 3 days ultimum wud was given to me on monday. And if dy stop her treatment hmm dat wud ruin everything.. I just tire

Femlexx:
Sorry to ask this, i'm just curious, pls nobodys, can you tell me how long (i mean when it all started).

you are very strong and i pray to God to give you more strength and support.

and what state is your mum now, the first post said coma, but later, some improvements, so i'm wondering which state she is, for better understanding,

vegetative state
or
minimaly conscious state
or
any other state there are

be strong

Nobodys:
thanks alot dear, u really help in lifting some burdens from me.. Thanks

makydebbie:
Just ask the doctor dear. And he also mentioned friends coming to visit you there, I think it'll be nice at least. Don't worry God is in control. Why not a govt hospital tho? Private will suck your money oo!

Nobodys:
yes dear .. It would be nice.. The govt hospital we hav reali sucks,,. Dats what somone just told me.. I really dont know.. Am planning that when she gets a little bit better den we can move her... I would still ask more question on d govt hospital sha...

Oyindidi:
They will, what your uncles and aunts? Maternal

Nobodys:
they are far away and i have informed them .. Buh they are all going through hard times due to death of my cousin.. Buh they promised to do their best

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm... Let the dead bury the dead. They have to take care of your mum. All the best dear

makydebbie:
Pls dear make some research and don't forget to ask doctor on the amount needed okay? Maybe when she's much stable, you can move her to a government hospital.

Cc Piiko she doesn't mind you sending your friends to see her.

Nobodys:
hi am sorry to disturb you buh i noticed you live in warri. Pls do u know of any govt hospitals around or one that is very cheap

Oyindidi:
Hmmmm... Let the dead bury the dead. They have to take care of your mum. All the best dear

Saintsammurai:
woman calm down.... whats your problem mir? you earlier told her that you feel she is begging for money, and that she should seek the help of family members. No offence intended, but common sense should tell you that those that seek for help publicly anywhere in the world, do so because their family members refuse to help or dont have to help.. IF her family members were paying the medical bills, she wont be here in the 1st place.. SO sit your ass down and stop quoting her if you dont want to help and stop putting stones in the heart of those that are thinking of helping...I am even dissapointed in you, you call yourself big madam and call ladies here your girls, your girls are helping, big madam they dey critisize, U be big madam for mouth... OP lemme cc real big madams 4 you.. LOL, cc lala247 cherlene dominique edwife cococandy sambarry op dnt worry, cash is coming.

Saintsammurai:
See mumu,, i only advice you to stop saying thrash on this thread and the best you could say was. "prosper next time dont say rubbish to me" lol no offence, but ure so dumb, what will you do if i say rubbish? use your keypads to beat me online, or tell a mod to ban me... lol please carry your royal dumbness out of my mention...

Lalas247:

Sweetheart don't
Just let it go ..

Lalas247:

Sweetheart don't
Just let it go ..

Saintsammurai:
yeah i will mir, only telling her to be real and stop been fake.. Anyways, bosslady Bumbae Good morning to you...