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Re: Porn On Husband Phone by johnson232: 9:58pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove:Because your parents raised u like a prisoner serving a jail term by constantly bruising u doesn't make corporal punishnment a prudent way to raise kids. See the way your upbringing is reflecting on your comments.... Upon all the beatings you got from your parents, see how senseless u are at this age... Thank your lucky stars this is an online forum, i for give u the beating of your life...So u will know the true definition of beating....Senseless animal 1 Like |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
this is also why i hate whatsapp groups. you have so many daft jokers who can share anything without thinking. for those with android, there is an app called app lock that will password apps etal 1 Like |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 10:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
johnson232:See this demented half wit o. Who was the first to throw insults? Was I not on my own when you quoted me to write the same rubbish you excrete from your dirty anus? And you have the effontery to talk about upbringing reflecting in comments? Your parents should have abandoned you in your village's evil forest. So you want to give me beating? Barbarian, you want to show power with a woman. Oya come now, let me organise guys like you to beat sense into your empty barrel head. You can flex muscle with them. _Imbecile. You are truly lucky that this is social media which is giving an agama lizard like you the liver to act like a crocodile. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by johnson232: 10:24pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove:You have time taking various shots of your baby's hairstyle @profile pic, but u want the op to kill her child for sth he ignorantly watched...5yrs old don get sense? If that your baby watch all those porn u keep on your phone, will u even scold her let alone beating? Animal.... 1 Like |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by AngelicBeing: 11:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by DarkRebel69: 11:50pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
PaperLace: Sex education for a five-year old boy? Are you nuts? 3 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 11:57pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
TrumporIdie:Hey, I am not responsible for the frustrations in your short life. You jump here to quote me to type trash and you still tag the mods to ban me. Immature troll. If my being here, on this forum, gives you sleepless nights then get ready to NEVER sleep. E never start to pepper you. This is just the beginning Hitting the ignore mode on your pained ass. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by DarkRebel69: 12:07am On Sep 22, 2017 |
If my memory of Catholic doctrine serves me right, I know that even the Catholic Church pins down the 'age of reasoning' to 8 years old. It is taken as given by the Catholic Church that anything a child does before his eighth-year birthday is not conscientious and so cannot be called a sin. It is your husband who has erred. He is guilty of the sin of omission But let's shunt the religious mumbo-jumbo aside. Even in the secular sense, do you think an innocent child of five can make sense of a video of a man and woman having sex? I don't think any child is that precocious especially if that happens to be the first time he or she is exposed to such visual material. It is not the child's fault and you should not beat him. Beating him would only attach emotional significance to the episode and reinforce it in his memory. However, if you don't beat him then you can rely on the passage of time to efface the memory of the event from his mind. It's a simple memory trick that wise parents have used to re-programme memories of children who have seen what they ought not to have seen. But just as someone suggested, err on the side of caution by keeping a close watch on him (even though I do not think it is quite necessary). I'm sure your son would watch the new Power Rangers movie and forget all about it in no time. 7 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 22, 2017 |
DarkRebel69: LITTLE sex education talk _emphasis on little. The talk given to toddlers is a whole lot different and it's advisable. I'm sure you read all the cases of child molestation, these people take advantage of a child's naivety. It shouldn't be graphic, sometimes they set the pace with their questions, they ask about their body parts. They ask how mummy got pregnant. If you have ever taken care of kids _you would be familiar with their inquisitive nature. They deserve age-appropriate answers. Other times, the parent would have to take it up themselves. Teach them proper names of their body parts, teach them not to touch another person's own (mummy and daddy play _you should at least be familiar with this one). Teach them no one is allowed to touch their private parts, neither are they allowed to go about stroking their genitals (I've seen little boys do this severally). Lots of kids get molested before the age of 10 she plans teaching them these little things. As a child begins to talk, it's very pertinent. That way, they can always report back to you if anything goes against what you taught them. This is what you should have asked, not if I am nuts. Learn how to talk _life isn't that serious. 5 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Omoluabi16(m): 12:16am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Do married people even watch porn? I thought mostly unmarried idle people who can't get a shag. 3 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 12:31am On Sep 22, 2017 |
PaperLace:I didn't know women gave birth vaginally until I was in JSS 3. I was traumatised for hours that fateful afternoon, after learning this shocking bit of information. Prior to then, I thought we gave birth through the navel 3 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 12:32am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:I guess it's to get their freak on? Who knows |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Omoluabi16(m): 12:37am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Ishilove:I tire oh. freak on ke? As a woman, I would be terrible to realise my husband watches porn. wetin dose actor get wey she no get? It's a no no. DarkRebel69:very possible bro. sex education can be given to toddlers. of course, in a simplified manner. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 12:39am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Ishilove: Honestly my parents never taught me these things. My mum kept on threatening me with pregnancy. How I will drop out of secondary school and learn hair-dressing if I get pregnant . It was in the boarding house I started learning these things. Prior to then, I was an indoor kid. The moment what I was learning started showing in my associations/actions _they withdrew me from the school, hahahahahaha. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Omoluabi16(m): 12:42am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Ishilove:I thought women got pregnant by kissing. I only knew what sex was when I was passing by a video store and I began to see things.. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 1:10am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:Buhahahahahaha! |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Ishilove: 1:12am On Sep 22, 2017 |
PaperLace:Your own better. My mum told me if I talk to boys and allowed them touch me, I'd get pregnant. Of course this made me run far from them. I cried the day my class teacher paired me with a male seat partner in primary school. I was terrified I'd get pregnant, give birth through my navel and have a distended belly button for the rest of my life. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 8:23am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Ishilove: 1. demented half wit 2. dirty anus 3. village's evil forest 4. empty barrel head 5. agama lizard 6. _Imbecile 7. like a crocodile Just in only one post 3 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Pojomojo: 8:55am On Sep 22, 2017 |
with Kids Dstv is a no no for me Fabulouscity: |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by ElsonMorali: 9:57am On Sep 22, 2017 |
First, If you beat a 5 year old boy for watching the videos he found on his father's phone that would make you very wrong. He is 5, not 15. Instead, watch him real close and see If he is being affected by the videos he's been watching. Hopefully he's not addicted yet, But make sure you have him engage in physical exercises, take him to an open park where he can play with boys his age in the sand. Engage his mind with his school homework and get colorful and decent comics for him, like tintin and Archie comics. Second, The father is totally in the wrong here. He knew he had porn on his phone and still left it for the boy to handle. He has behaved irresponsibly. Meanwhile, you have a much bigger problem on your hands than these. Your marriage is on the verge of hitting the rocks. I'm yet to see a marriage that survived the addiction of one of the spouses to porn. You need to talk to your husband about this. Let him know you'll support him to break that habit. He needs to seek professional help and both of you should also go for counselling. Don't wait until you're done for. All the best. 5 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by jaszplus12(m): 10:48am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Ishilove:African way discipline has long term side effects my friend! and that will last longer than the clip he saw on the phone. hey! use mouth beat the Daddy! hmmmm...hope you know also that might have a negative effect on the marriage... be careful how you advice people on their domestic issues...it's usually highly sensitive. please consider it and rephrase your advice...thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by jaszplus12(m): 10:49am On Sep 22, 2017 |
ElsonMorali:great advice...matured! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by DarkRebel69: 12:04pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
PaperLace: You are too sensitive. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 2:46pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Thanks everyone, for your input, We were all tired yesterday so I let it slide, so today very early in the morning I spoke to the father about it, he ws shocked and said he thought he had deleted it from his phone(the videos were sent to him via what'sup. .. . His randy frds). According to him is phone has a way of storing deleted files then recovering it back unknown to him So anyway like I was adviced here I told him to speak to his son and all. Which he agreed. We all just got home now.... the unthinkable happened like its a nightmare... My worst fears came alive,.. .. I was in the room trying to relax, something just moved me to the parlour, the boy had pulled his pants and was trying to insert his little pee, inside another little child bombom....i was horrified. I asked him where he saw it from and he said his dad's phone. So without further hesitation I got out the belt n did what I should have done yesterday, I knew something had gone terribly wrong yesterday... Thats y I was so bitter. I called the father to tell him what happened can u imagine he was still insisting I shouldnt beat him.. . Anyway we ended up quarrelling. I don finally beat the boy blue black... I will take him to a pharmacy later.. . Yea I injured him. I am waiting for the father and am ready.. Am thinking of calling my mum incase this matter escalates. Am just tired |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 3:02pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
ElsonMorali: Yes we seriously need counselling... Cos obviously we aren't on the same page regarding child upbringing.. . He calls me a sadist.. But truly I want the best for my child the boy is extremely intelligent for his age his memory is Sthg else. And yes sometimes he shows me the porn, mayb I come in and I hear moans I'll be like what are you watching? then he shows me nothing serious like an addiction. (I hope not). Thanks for your advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 3:11pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Omoluabi16: Most men watch porn.. those that send it to him are married men in their 40s and 50s,respectable classy men for that matter. |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 3:14pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009: I have done it ooo |
Re: Porn On Husband Phone by Nobody: 3:57pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Fabulouscity: LOL |
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