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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 3:10pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
imurboss: Abeg no vex ma, no idea. Sabi mamas go do justice to ur question ma. Abeg make u also #unsealedurlips# |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 3:17pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Anugod this your matter is dicey. Me will prefer going with dads suggestions cos its going to favour you more and that doesn't mean your DH isn't up to per . A new mom needs all the care, comfort/care and guidance that she can get. My culture do naming low key and dedication in 3 months lavish. My sons naming was done in the hospital cos we were there for a month. If possible do the naming at your parents house with just immediate family(my dad named my son on the phone cos he wasn't in town). Then do the party in your house when you must have returned home. Discuss with you hubby and make him see why you won't mind going to stay with mom who will offer you her undivided attention. On the issue of being away from your dh for a while that could be sorted by him coming weekends or anytime he is available. When baby comes especially the one that comes with crying anointing you won't even remember husband. God forbid your milk doesn't flow well or your get cracked nipple Na you go evict DH from room when the stress becomes unbearable.. This is my opinion sha and what I'll very likely do if I find myself in your position! Experience has taught me to ALWAYS RECIEVE ANY FREE HELP WHEN YOU HAVE A NEWBORN . You and DH have a lifetime to spend with each other. Also let daddy know that your hubby agreed out of respect for him and the love he has for you and your wellbeing. I pray all works out well for you. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:18pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: So u stee get mouth to dey give recipe.... Ok, I dey come for u(enters farm to find correct native cellotape to seal proudmom38 mouth). Mk dis my sister no finish her oga money cos we must buy ashoebi n use flight come naming ceremony live in ekp town. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 3:20pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Eezohbae: My sister, the only strength i have is to crave, cook, eat and enter nairaland o. The rest na story lol |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Lilliesbud12: 3:20pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Anugod:Hmm.... this is such a dicey situation. Ur dad means well for you. But truth be told... you're now married with plans about ur future together with ur well meaning husband too. Ur hubby's ego will be hurt no matter how the situation is painted to him. Our parents need to understand that once we are married, their major assignment is just to keep commending Us to the hands of God & not seeking for a way to meddle in our lives in the name of love. Lemme tell you about myself a little.... I have the opportunity of birthing in the USA but my mum has her plans... try to bring ur first son along & you'll not be going back to Nigeria. then we find a way ur hubby too will be able to come over. For what? not that am rich here but am satisfied with a good marriage. I don't beg from them, infact I look well b4 accepting gifts from them. Doesn't she mean well to an extent... she does but what effect will it have on a long run? same thing she proposed to my sister in Europe... When God has blessed us with wonderful selfless husbands... fulfilling purpose is key. Ur 3rd point spoke it all... feelings of incapability on ur hubby's side... dh may not talk now o but I tell you, it's just a matter of time... men cherish their egos.. No, you won't also be able to return to Abuja b4 naming.. they won't allow you. Yes, you would cope without him but will you be happy? if they get away with this, you won't be able to stop other intrusions. I love my parents but I like to do what is right.. Ask urself sincerely, if it were to be his parents proposition...how will you feel? you will most likely feel ur dh is selfish to allow you go just like that. Pls so that it won't be a surprise to ur dh, try telling him in another way like ur friends parents are proposing that to ur friend & See how he will react. from there you'll know if you should tell him & you'll both work out a possible polite response when he's been told. you can also pray about it together so that whatever ur decision is won't be judged badly. Above all, pray, seek Godly counsel from trusted unbiased, not culturally inclined pple. It's ur home, God is in charge. if he's the type that loves to be involved pls let him be cos sometimes when men are not fully involved in some of these activities.. preg, newborn care... they may not understand & it will pain you more later on. hope you understand me sha? Disclaimer... all above is my personal opinion & from experience too. thank you. Am sorry for my long post. 42 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:21pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: No o, u go go o. Mk u no spoil n chop money for my free ashoebi 4 ur lo naming ceremony. Infact, Na EFCC I go report ur mata cos u don dey chop pass daily feeding allowance (whistle blowing tinz). 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:23pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Pennywise: Thk u bro. I can't wait to offload so dt I can get my groove back on(keemon... Dancing old skool steps). |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:24pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
olalayo1710: Yes ooo (two fingers in the air). |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 3:25pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
enkaydewdrop: Always dear. Good to hear. They are doing fine ma'am. Regards! |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by SomebodysMum: 3:26pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Anugod You deserve a much longer response but Lilliesbud12 has done justice to the matter. IMHO Me I am Ruth Abokoku o and my answer will reflect that. As long as your man is caring and helpful, you guys are in this together. Your dad means well but he's an intruder in this matter. Make up your mind in good time and call him back before he calls your man. If your mum wants to help, she should come over. If not, you guys will be fine. Orphan kuku dey born pikin. 28 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pennywise(m): 3:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sassyangel1: Who says you cant groove in pregnancy. Even exercising is encouraged. Is it your first? It has to be. Seasoned mamas usually will have no time for this. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by toyeem(f): 3:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: U have transfered this craving craving to me ooo. See me craving my pupil's food 2day.I had to walk out of the class before I start begging for food from my grade 5 pupil. Kai,the news for don reach everywhere by 2pm. See correct plantain with egg garnished with pepper,green peas,carrot,shrimps and cornbeef. God bless mothers, we sabi cook combination toh make sense but the boy no gree finish d food.I was almost vexing for him ooo 10 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:30pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Pennywise: No o. Nt my 1st. Mbok, after shouting upandan as soon as dey return from school, Na which strength I wan use exercise. Mbok, my kids r exercise on their own. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 3:32pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
toyeem: Thanks teamie. Lol na one o. Please go n check lo one o. Yes o na anyone I dey follow jare. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:34pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
toyeem: Ehhhh.... Ohfonehhhh (raising my Christian mother hands to my head). Oya proudmom38, u see Wetin u don cause? U v infected apiri ogologo (long throat in Ibo language)to anoda mama #buharimusthearthis# 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:36pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: Moyoblog is nt supporting u o. U no see the lafta meme 4 d end of her sentence? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:39pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
kelizosuy: As if u don't knw u b omote? Mayb wen u become pregnant wth a boy ur nose will turn to d size of hippopotamus own (jst thinking out Loud on ur behalf). |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 3:42pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
imurboss: No vex ojare. My own calling Na 4 kpekus affairs (u knw everybody gat their own gifts n callings). Oya oooo oda mamas mk una shook mouth o. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pennywise(m): 3:47pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sassyangel1: [quote][/quote] I cant recall seeing so many pink f in one place. Its about time i ran along. Wishing you all a memorable labour experience. Unfortunately I cant say sweet, because it was never meant to be sweet. But its God's given opportunity for the woman in you to come forth. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 3:52pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
zaynie: hmm, I trust mama Zaynie, ![]() **runs out of thread** 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 4:05pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Pennywise: Awwww thk u bro. U r always welcome anytime n any day to our pregnancy classroom . |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olalayo1710(f): 4:07pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38:we are fine ma 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 4:07pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38:Dont mind enkaydewdrop ooooo,she likes copying me ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by imurboss: 4:10pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sassyangel1: Thank you jare our kpekus mistress ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by imurboss: 4:11pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: Thank you my odede, some mamas don put mouth. I don unseal lips ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olalayo1710(f): 4:23pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38:lol, madam don't worry u don have another partner toyeem she go assist u and u can just eat together ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olalayo1710(f): 4:26pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
toyeem:chai pregnancy hormone what have u done to all this mamas craving food |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 4:27pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sassyangel1: Untie me joor, issit nor pregnancy dat is doing me longer longer ni! Shebi afta April i wee nor do longer longer again. Let me go joor. Won't I eat again to gather power wait for waddling and pushing ni? Ashoebi nikan ko, ashoojulumo ni ![]() |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 4:28pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
There is nothing as swt as having help around when baby arrive.the stress of a newborn can be overwhelming. Liftedhands: 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sassyangel1(f): 4:45pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
proudmom38: Na till oda mamas shook mouth b4 I go Comot d rope. Ahn ahn, pikin weh say Hin mama no go sleep Hin sef no go sleep. I cannot enter dis classroom in peace n satisfaction wthout proudy mama terrorizing my oesophagus? Abi my village pipu don find me reach city?( God forbid o). |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 4:46pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
sassyangel1: Kilagbe? Kileju? EFCC ontop craving mata? Ahhh! Which time I turn politician? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 4:46pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
mumsgirl27: Tiri gbosa for you jare, carry go, no mind Proudmom38 you hia, please pity her biko no post the pictures you hia, cos now if you mention any food na she must to chop am for instance, if i say Plantain, scrambled eggs, fish sauce and sausages now or ofada rice and ofada sauce with orisirisi and chilled orobo coke or pepsi, she go dey find am upandan, but i won't say it, cos i love her ![]() 3 Likes |
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