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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adexuxin(m): 5:32pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I can help you with the dream. If you dont mind and i have this questions for you. People interpret dreams anyhow. .. Describe the best picture of three of your most common dreams around when your tricks started having issues. Have you ever left your wife for up to a month before? This imprisonment dream only happens when she is angry, (you truly offended her) Do you cheat on your wife often? Do you have a woman u are having sex with outside your marriage? Dont lie to me. I understand dreams from knowledge, Answer me to help you. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by KeVN9: 5:33pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
freshvine: U spoke well. Ur kindly response is an eye opener, mind blowing and a bitter truth. #respect |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:34pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
adatemi:see, it's best to ignore somethings than to sound silly as a Christian. Many Christians don't understand the scripture. People that run to pastor to "pray" for them are the most irresponsible people on earth. A pastor cannot pray for you, you can only pray for yourself and God will hear. A pastor can only prophesy. It's a father son relationship. Do you ask your lecturer to ask your scholfees or pocket money from your father? No, you do yourself. This goes with your thought. But you saying do you know what your pastor did is a silly thing. Harbouring such thoughts means you don't respect him and God cannot allow some of his prophecy come to fruition. The bible says believe in 2 chr 20: 20 And they rose early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshaphat stood and said, Hear me, O Judah, and ye inhabitants of Jerusalem; Believe in the LORD your God, so shall ye be established; believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper. Whilst the pastors are not there to pray on our behalf, they are there to guide you. Thats because they are continually seeking God unlike we that are perhaps engaged with other things. An again, yes no one ca spiritually hurt us as redeemed that does not mean we should neglect issues or relax at the altar of prayers. The bible says clearly, there are many adversaries. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by chronique(m): 5:35pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
streetzdreamz: Most of us have experienced things like this in varying degrees but it sometimes, isn't totally the faults of the women in the sense that, some of them are not aware of the problems. In my case, I was already noticing certain things after she took my name to go and pray but I couldn't talk, and wasn't totally sure until a younger person who was with me then pointed it out that since I started dating this girl, things has been some how. Na she come start to dey feed me. I would struggle to get things done and a day to the thing to manifest, one dream would manifest. Either I'm seeing my money from the biz gathered and burnt to ashes in dream, or someone is throwing me in a well and preventing me from coming out, or someone is barbing my hair in the dream, or someone else is wearing my shirt in my dream, etc. At the end, all efforts end in futility. Before I had the experience of these things, I used to mock people who talk about it. When it got to my turn, na my legs I take run go church go find solution. I thank God I experienced those things early enough in life. At least I'm better informed now. People who haven't seen such, would not understand it. I don't know how a man would succeed when he is sleeping with a lady whose brothers are sucking her breast at home, a lady who keeps not less than 4 boyfriends per time, etc. Men, I done waka yeye waka sha. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:36pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:42pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
adexuxin:Help yourself then help your family and your neighbours.Daniel the Interpreter of dreams 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
YelloweWest: op is one man. using ur logic l can also say Yoruba men see nothing wrong in cheating and are misogynists but cry blue murder when their wife do the same case on point toks2008 and the magun culture. like I said before carry your bigotry and shift. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
baby124:do you go to hubby's office after a fight and make a scene? Where she wan run go after 1? Who knows if she wants a good life? A good woman will honour her mother when she wants to get married. You didnt say if you listen or don't listen to your husband but all about your hubby listening to you. The OP and his wife have made silly mistakes, whilst coming to blame his wife solely for the problems is a silly thing to do. We cant ignore the fact that there is a problem. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Hclinton: 5:43pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Your wife is not the problem but the spirit working in her is the issue here. It is evident that she has spiritual husband and her spiritual husband is dealing with you out of anger and jelousy to frustrate you. Some signs that you wife has spiritual husband: 1. They will ruin your economic resources. 2. Frustrate your life. 3. Attack you spiritually. 4. Frustrate your marriage. 5. Attack your health. 6. Might kill either the husband or the wife. Don't mind people who are using canal knowledge to judge and advise you. Bible says my people perish for lack of knowledge. My advise for you: 1. Discuss with your wife about your step and why. 2. Go for serious deliverance in a deliverance ministry like MFM. Try to get appointment with the GO, am sure this will help you a lot. Note: am not a member of MFM but I know they are good I'm deliverance. This deliverance is for both you and your wife. It will be advisable also to take your kids for deliverance too. My brother, be strong, the Lord will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adexuxin(m): 5:47pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:lolzz |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Andy2274: 5:48pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Stephanie22:. separate from his wife? Then after his deliverance he make up with her and the spirit husband will come again. The Aunty and mum widowed has nothing to do with anything here bro. Time to born and time to die. My brother take your wife and both of you should go for deliverance. Pray together always, fight the battle together. The man should also check his background because devil can operate in any form. They might be from the man side to attack but make it look like it is from the lady side. You can't predict the devil... |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by attention007(m): 5:48pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Girls with spiritual husband will always tell other people that they don't exist.... check yourself and stop misleading others 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:49pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Please try and shut up anytime u don't have anything to contribute on this kind of thread. U talk so immature. ?? ![]() cococandy: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:50pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:I am not a follower of TB joshua but go to scoan and ask the foreigners this same question |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ishilove: 5:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:Your disbelief in something doesn't make it any less real. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by shallysgirl: 5:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sometimes, people don't really understand the world. Probably because they haven't been in a hard place. I thank God your case ended well. I believe prayers changes things and people. May God help us all. majekdom2: 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adexuxin(m): 5:55pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:You think this world is only on the Physical. Am sure you believe nothing is beyond the Clouds. Dont worry you hear Lmao!!!! in Mandarin |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:56pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove:I agree it is real for them but not real for me |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ishilove: 5:56pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
chronique:In short enh |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:57pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
majekdom2:How is that relevant to my post ![]() |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 6:02pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
adexuxin:We can speculate about anything but what joins us is the here and now . If we sit down in your house to wait for ypur cook to prepare a meal.When it is served .One would hope we all can agree on what it is . If one person says it is rice and another says it is beans then there is a problem. So let us confine ourselves to that we can all agree on. Rice is rice and beans is beans etc. If you put an empty plate in front of me and say it has the bread of life in it there is a problem. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by baby124: 6:02pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
majekdom2:Lol. Where she wan go run after 1. If you think like that, and actually believe it then you need to change your thinking. As for the fight in his office, I personally don't believe we are hearing the whole story. You also cannot predict what you will do in certain circumstances. As to questioning whether I listen to my partner, that is not your business. If you are the type to read and understand you will see that when I wrote about partner, I did not make it gender specific. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adexuxin(m): 6:06pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:you made your own point omonokada Goodluck. I hope u believe in luck |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adexuxin(m): 6:06pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:you made your own point omonokada, Goodluck. I hope u believe in luck |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:07pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:do the foreigners use karosin and firewood. U just dey make noise. Your asertions shows how unitelliegent and uninformed you are. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 6:11pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
majekdom2:Is TB Joshua a spirit husband specialist? Do the foreigners come for spirit husband problems ? Is that what he is about? Let your submissions proclaim your intelligence do not lose your composure. So it is only Nigerians that use firewwod and Karosin? Foreigners don't ![]() |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:12pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
baby124:@ first bolded, have you not encountered women that say they don't want their husbands to earn more than a certain amount so he he cheat. See not everyone reasons like you. Not everyone wants a good life. @ second bolded, then you don't have to believe any part of the story. Even the part that she does 75 percent of the feeding, or that he travelled or that he had 7 trucks. We should always control our temper and think about the consequences of our actions before we do them, that's my point. @ 3rd bolded, you emphasized me, how he listens to you and things go well and how he doesn't and it goes awry. You didn't say how you listen to him and things go well for you or how you do not listen and things go bad. Except you have no testimony. We can choose not to believe your "own" story too you know |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by youngalex(m): 6:14pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I analyze your situation thus: Possibly her spiritual husband is manipulating your destiny or your spiritual wife won't stand you being happy in marriage, check yourself well also. Secondly, the economy is very bad affecting virtually all businesses, though people incur losses but not on this magnitude. My Sincere advise : Leave her for now, Just tell her you want to go and hustle in another city, then pray and liberate to yourself |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:16pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:obviously, you haven't seen the program before. Again, don't make assertions with little or no information. Yes, they do! Lols, now the American and German use firewood , karosin.... and they are talking going green. Oga you are clearly a silly person |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by baby124: 6:18pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
majekdom2:Yea. Kind of how you also believe in spiritual husband and wife. Hahahahaha. You are a joke. Very funny. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga: Yes nah, OP wife is on 65k job in 7yrs. It must be OP's spiritual wife witching the woman. I am sure that's what she'll be told if she visits another spiritualist. Two of them should go for deliverance ![]() |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by chronique(m): 6:20pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove: Who nor go, nor know. Sometimes, I'm tempted to call up some of all these lekki runz girls for a few rounds but when I think about the different kind of clients they might have slept with and I remember my past experience, I just behave myself and look elsewhere... Some of us are damaging our lives but we don't know yet cos we haven't started eating from hand to mouth. We still think it's normal and we attribute it to general economy being bad. Na when water done pass garri, we go come open eyes. 2 Likes |
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