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Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Sebastine1606(m): 12:43am On Sep 29, 2017 |
rookiy:Lols @ the bolded, no be lie shaaaa@, things dey happen |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by ststyreal(f): 1:28am On Sep 29, 2017 |
kwb567:D Am I sensing jealousy here? 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by chiraqDemon(m): 1:43am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Somebody make calls to her own momsi na wahala. At least she makes it in front of you b4 u staet saying she is casting u to her mom. 2 Likes |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Jesusbabygirl(f): 2:50am On Sep 29, 2017 |
TheArchangel:God bless you for this comment. Some men don't show enuf care for their wives, u better be glad it's her mother she's calling and not another 'he'. Pls check yourself and adjust sir. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Boldstar(m): 3:24am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Double check. It might not be her mother. I no trust nowadays women |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by hartson(m): 5:35am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Space booked. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Uzobejeme: 5:40am On Sep 29, 2017 |
kwb567:Tell her how you feel about these calls. The mum is demanding her attention and that's wrong. She should cut these calks short, decline some and turn her phones off at night. Her mum will get to know all that happens in your home and advice her on how to behave towards you . tommorrow is Saturday, no work.Enough time to table this issue with your wife. Communication is key in marriage. Talk to her.she should not go and tell her mum what you said,caution her. At night when her mum calls,she should rush the call and say " I have to attend to my husband" " mom I have to sleep,talk tommorrow"..when she keeps declining, cutting calls short and turning her phones off at nights, her mum will get the message.Her mum's intentions may be out of love,but she has to know when to back off. I have said my own |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by DONLEKAN: 6:04am On Sep 29, 2017 |
sharpwriter: My brother, I choose to follow you on the basis of this your comment. Some women fail to use their brains. They complicate their lives only to run around claiming men are evil. Is it rocket science for a woman to know she needs to create time for her man. We are all praying to outlive our parents. After your mum is gone (hopefully in her old age), is that when you will expect the man you have abandoned over the years to create time for you and make you his all-in-all?. 2 Likes |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by DONLEKAN: 6:17am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Jesusbabygirl: From the comments we read here, we know those women who will make good wives and those who are potential bad wives. I hope you have enough time to grow before you marry. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by GlobalGisting(m): 6:49am On Sep 29, 2017 |
eyinjuege: You are the worst counselor yet alive. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Iseoluwani: 6:56am On Sep 29, 2017 |
kwb567: Take her phone n block her mother's line, or you wire your wife's phone so u can know What their conversation Z all about b4 taking steps |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Izen: 6:58am On Sep 29, 2017 |
sharpwriter: Virtually every guy I've met claim that they will love their mothers than their wife including my brother. Even my mom had to caution him. I once told a guy that was on my case that I can't be with a man like that and he stopped pursuing after then. Dude said he can't deal and I respected his view. Personally, it is unacceptable to me because I plan to love my husband than my dad. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Izen: 6:58am On Sep 29, 2017 |
sharpwriter: Virtually every guy I've met claim that they will love their mothers than their wife including my brother. Even my mom had to caution him. I once told a guy that was on my case that I can't be with a man like that and he stopped pursuing after then. Dude said he can't deal and I respected his view. Personally, it is unacceptable to me because I plan to love my husband than my dad. We need to be on the same page. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by sharpwriter(m): 7:01am On Sep 29, 2017 |
DONLEKAN:Abi nau |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by sharpwriter(m): 7:07am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Izen:Well, I'm not one of them. My own be say if anyone misbehaves (mother or wife) I will put them in their place... lolz....but all na wisdom. Personally, I detest anyone who is a bad influence, and that's why I don't get too close to elders. Because the day they'll ask something difficult from you, you may not have the strength to turn them down. May God sha help us marry good wives and husbands. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by d33types: 7:07am On Sep 29, 2017 |
ststyreal: Such a comment..smh |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Nobody: 7:50am On Sep 29, 2017 |
TheArchangel: Can u imagine the gibberish this one just typed. Some if u ladies are just too blind and a guy should still be blamed for ur worn out panties. U just failed to make an intelligent submission and then u are blaming the guy. Instead of u to ask him first and know the root cause, u pass a direct judgement on him for his wife's misdoings. I fear u o |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 29, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Very wise statement. Credit |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by rookiy(m): 7:55am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Sebastine1606:lol abii na Maybe he no dey perform duties well |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by pizapato(m): 8:07am On Sep 29, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: That's you will end up creating more problems for yourself. Couples are supposed to focus on themselves and not their extended family. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by pizapato(m): 8:07am On Sep 29, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: That's how you will end up creating more problems for yourself. Couples are supposed to focus on themselves and not their extended family. 3 Likes |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Oracle16(m): 8:31am On Sep 29, 2017 |
kwb567: Brother I see nothing wrong with that. You have to let her know to cut the call short when you have important talk with her, if not, let her continue as long as it makes her happy. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by nickyosas(m): 9:01am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Many of us have a very very close relationship with our parents, especially mothers and female's,. The bond is stronger if the female is the only child. I expect your wife to be matured about it and talk to her mum...but again, if the bond is like I said above, she would find it hard to talk to her mum based on respect. The whole job lies with you sir. After a round of talk with her mum, insert yourself in their conversation by greeting her and making her realise it sort of late.... Then after the call, talk to your wife and make her understand the odd hours of call is unsettling you. It's all about presentation and understanding. You can use your own mum as a basis for the discussion in terms of how frequent you and her talk. It's a touchy issue.... One that is bound to whip up sentiments.... Your presentation really matters. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Nobody: 9:26am On Sep 29, 2017 |
It seems everything is an issue in marriage. Your mama call you na trouble, your mama no call you na trouble, smh 2 Likes |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by ImaIma1(f): 9:38am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Pidgin2: So the mum should call every night and spend an hour. A wise mum should ask about the husband and let the daughter get off the phone to be with him. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by eyinjuege: 10:06am On Sep 29, 2017 |
GlobalGisting: I hope you don't have a screw lose somewhere? Get off my mention. 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by oyakhilomeh(m): 10:19am On Sep 29, 2017 |
pocohantas:you've said it all. Issues that should be discussed in your home, you brought it to NL and wonder why am won't call her mum all day 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by TheArchangel(f): 10:46am On Sep 29, 2017 |
jaybillionaire:idgaf sir |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Nobody: 10:51am On Sep 29, 2017 |
ImaIma1: If it was the son, will you say this? Many people will say the lady is wicked and wants to stop her husband from loving and caring for his mother so what is good for the gander should be good for the goose 3 Likes |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Akinaukwa: 11:21am On Sep 29, 2017 |
gechyy2:You are correct, I think the problem here is the timing. Left for me, you can talk with your mum from 6am till 9pm no wahala. But anything from 9pm when am back from work and we ought to sit down, discuss family issues, sort out some things and carry out planning, I don't think I will be happy hearing you spending the that precious time again with your mum on phone especially when I know I need to have enough rest and prepare for the next day's work. After our discussions, you can continue with your talks, badamu!! 1 Like |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by ImaIma1(f): 11:29am On Sep 29, 2017 |
Pidgin2: Husband or wife...none of them is exempted. Their mums should not call that often and spend that long on the phone. Their mums have become third parties and should not be allowed to interfer or have a say in the marriage. It's my own orientation of marriage and how my people view marriage. Family should not interfer except in life threatening situations. |
Re: How Often Should A Wife Call Her Mother? by Jesusbabygirl(f): 11:37am On Sep 29, 2017 |
DONLEKAN:Lol, there goes the myopic thinking. Not everyone's comment is a reflection of their life. I am a happily married women. |
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