thesicilian:

If there's concrete evidence of cheating that's a different case. Here we are talking of trivial issues like phone call, "test slap" and "my mom said..."

How about "test cheat" na... I wasn't fully nakéd.
It was only a bļowjob. He only put the cap... lol.


Dude don't be a hypocrite!
Cheating hurts the feeling only.
Domestic violence kills!

YelloweWest:

EXACTLY!!

In reality most people will cheat at some point in their marriage.
That number is about 95% for men and 60% for women.
Hardly will you ever see a couple married for 40years and both parties never cheated.

However what keeps them together is stronger than what should tear them apart.
Eg. Stability of the family.
For instance I have a good loving husband. He is an amazing father too.
If he cheats will I deprive my kids of their dad just because my feelings got hurt?? No!
I'll have to look at the big picture and forgive.

Those circumstances are not there when single.

Amazing. I can't agree more...You've said it all...What more can i add to this.

I grew up in a happy home, until i turned 11, and divorce came, guess what grades dropped like rock, desire for things plummeted, lost passion and interests in so many things, now my problem with many ladies is when they say they will quit the marriage if the partner cheat, and i wonder, should there not be things to keep you both together, i.e. mutual interests, people don't know the trauma kids go through.

For three years, i didn't talk to anyone, i remember vividly, besides saying good morning, good afternoon, good night, i said nothin to anyone for three years...Meaning i talked just three times a day for three years...Speak to your sisters... As for we men, we are willing,ready,reliable and dependable...

But, anyone that cheats in a marriage is a dirty and filthy pig, but may God give us grace for the journey...

selflessposhheart:


Me too ever again

are you a guy ?

supersystemsnig:


If boundaries are set, they will be tested, i don't believe in boundaries entirely, though some amount of boundaries should be set in relationships, but maturity places a demand on character, between my babe and the phone call, which has higher value? Between walking away from my hubby and telling him sorry hun, which would have been much more profitable? People need to put on their thinking caps before they truncate the blessings and potential in opportunities, when people get worked up and walk away on things, it's because they're busy evaluating their on self-worth, which is faulty and flawed because, they don't place their individual self worth against the potential in the relationship or of the other party, she's arrogant...No man should beat up a lady, but she has her own...

So on point. Couldn't have put it better.

thesicilian:
So on point. Couldn't have put it better.

I'm humbled...Thank you

akinade28:
So u trying to test her level of endurance with a slap abi.
I think she should also test d level of ur love for her with a slap too
Just wondering

Reply ma pm

YelloweWest:

How about "test cheat" na... I wasn't fully nakéd.
It was only a bļowjob. He only put the cap... lol.


Dude don't be a hypocrite!
Cheating hurts the feeling only.
Domestic violence kills!

Hahaha. Cheating kills also. Anyways, it seems like you are fully absorbing the lady of any form if culpability whatsoever in the break up?

lasisi69:
Why get furious if she takes up your calls but have nothing to hide... You shouldn't have slapped her... She too is not serious... she was having a second thought about you guys wedding and looking for a lil' excuse....

Is this another version of our old lasisi?

zolapower:
are you a guy ?

Why do u ask

I'm a lady

Oloshi man! Big ups to the lady, she did the right thing.

hmmm. .I don't know what to tell you but have you not heard or read you should not test or rather tempt your Lord your God? it is obvious that she is the one that is calling the bluff in the marriage or relationship. .she get money pass you or her people hold pass your people. .she was just being irritated since and has been looking for a way to call the whole thing off since, now you gave her the opportunity. .well I would say, she is not your own and no be you she carry for mind to marry simple!

Chascop:

Laborious , don't be offended oo..
please which of the manhood are you talking about.

all the manhood sir!!

supersystemsnig:



Amazing. I can't agree more...You've said it all...What more can i add to this.

I grew up in a happy home, until i turned 11, and divorce came, guess what grades dropped like rock, desire for things plummeted, lost passion and interests in so many things, now my problem with many ladies is when they say they will quit the marriage if the partner cheat, and i wonder, should there not be things to keep you both together, i.e. mutual interests, people don't know the trauma kids go through.

For three years, i didn't talk to anyone, i remember vividly, besides saying good morning, good afternoon, good night, i said nothin to anyone for three years...Meaning i talked just three times a day for three years...Speak to your sisters... As for we men, we are willing,ready,reliable and dependable...

But, anyone that cheats in a marriage is a dirty and filthy pig, but may God give us grace for the journey...

My mom also left when I was about 11...

That was when my uncle (father's elder brother)
Started sexually molesting me.

It was the sickest thing ever...

I'll never leave my kids. Never.

My husband cheated... I discovered quite recently.
He begged for my forgiveness. Funny enough this whole thing made me realise just how much I truly love him.

Though I was really hurt, I just asked God to replace all that anger I was feeling with love. It worked.

thesicilian:

Hahaha. Cheating kills also. Anyways, it seems like you are fully absorbing the lady of any form if culpability whatsoever in the break up?

Absolutely!

I stand by her decision 100% .

Marriage is hard work. Why make it even harder by going in with unnecessary baggage?

Insanity of the highest order...shio

Pls all this pple screaming murder, hope you will still hold the same opinion if the reverse was the case? She should have respected his privacy in the first place but that doesn't excuse the slap. Finally, we have all made decisions we regretted later, I don't think this should have terminated their upcoming marriage.

Lmao

YelloweWest:

My mom also left when I was about 11...

That was when my uncle (father's elder brother)
Started sexually molesting me.

It was the sickest thing ever...

I'll never leave my kids. Never.

My husband cheated... I discovered quite recently.
He begged for my forgiveness. Funny enough this whole thing made me realise just how much I truly love him.

Though I was really hurt, I just asked God to replace all that anger I was feeling with love. It worked.

I wish ladies would listen..Will never ever part ways with my kids...funny enough, when we hurt, we realize how much we love our loved one...

[quote author=selflessposhheart post=60970878]Well I support the Lady

Had one ex who slapped me he apologised before I knew it one day he beat me up[/hmm]

Takeit2017:
Who thinks she made the right decision?

More @ http://trendinghelm..com/2017/09/man-says-i-tested-her-with-small-slap.html

In Umbrella's voice...LET HER GO
It's this spirit of feminism worrying her, and you're lucky you saw the flaw soonest
MFM Prayer City, Redeemed Camp and Shiloh are there when she nears menopause without a husband....let her go and Bleep herself
Good riddance.....Her papa go marry her maybe

YelloweWest:

How about "test cheat" na... I wasn't fully nakéd.
It was only a bļowjob. He only put the cap... lol.


Dude don't be a hypocrite!
Cheating hurts the feeling only.
Domestic violence kills!

Lol

genghiskhan007:


In Umbrella's voice...LET HER GO
It's this spirit of feminism worrying her, and you're lucky you saw the flaw soonest
MFM Prayer City, Redeemed Camp and Shiloh are there when she nears menopause without a husband....let her go and Bleep herself
Good riddance.....Her papa go marry her maybe

Leave me pls i'm gonna pee

selflessposhheart:


Why do u ask

I'm a lady

okay ,ur last comment made me become inquisitive

selflessposhheart:
Well I support the Lady

Had one ex who slapped me he apologised before I knew it one day he beat me up

How many ex do u have in all?

God bless you Sir/Ma




quote author=HottestFire post=60971473]

Silly, why not test her with your ATM pin.

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[i][/i][center][/center][right][/right]U for flog her with broom. U for flog her with broom.

ladyF:


Cc: Dagr8 3RNEST

Thanks dear

thesicilian:
Immature people should not be allowed to go into relationships.

You mean immature or mad people?

engrhorla:


How many ex do u have in all?

8

selflessposhheart:
Well I support the Lady

Had one ex who slapped me he apologised before I knew it one day he beat me up

Becus of ur mouth

Small slap u say. You no knw say some people body dey quick pain them

selflessposhheart:
Well I support the Lady

Had one ex who slapped me he apologised before I knew it one day he beat me up

haba