ikbnice:
What is your selling point?

Epositive:
ina zoa

Lawlahdey:
Meaning?

Lawlahdey:
DISCLAIMER :- This post isn't aimed at encouraging immorality.

It's not foreign to us when we hear the phrase "Use what you you have to get what you want". It is a phrase that simply means using whatever is in your capacity as an individual to achieve your desires and needs. Whether it be your brain, your strength, your beautiful face or your body, In one way or the other, we all use what we have to get what we want. And certainly, all that we think we might have , that we use in getting what we want isn't ours.

- If you have a super brain as a human being, you didn't create that brain for yourself, God did.

-If you have angelic and mesmerizing beauty, you didn't mould yourself into artistic perfection,God did.

-If you have a hot banging body, you didn't morph that shape yourself, God did.

-If you have a sonorous voice, you didn't give yourself that voice, God did.

In essence, what I'm trying to say is that everything you have, that you feel proud of and you berate those who aren't as lucky as you on, God was just being generous to you. You are just lucky.

Now, this borders down to the matter of women nudity in our society nowadays.

Needless to say, Indecent exposure amongst women is now a common trend in our society today. Everyone is sharing nudes for a bit of attention and maybe, fame and money too. Every girl out there wants to pull a Kim Kardashian. We all know Kim Kardashian achieved fame and wealth not with talents or anything, but with her body.
No doubt, there are still some women out there, a lot in fact, using their brains and talents to meet their goals and that's great. But we have to admit that nowadays, Nudity is what is selling. Even Beyonce with all her singing skills and great voice still has to show a bit of flesh in her music videos.

As humans though, we are hypocritical a great deal. We also like to judge others. It's like an inborn trait of ours. We see nude topics all over the internet everyday, we appreciate the nudists by dropping likes on their pictures, yet, we condemn nudity with our very own mouth. We like to compare slay queens to intellectuals. We have this habit of judging and belittling those whose selling point is their body in opposed to the talented and brainy ones forgetting that they are both using what they have to get what they want.

A lady that is trending because she aced a first-class in her undergraduate degree isn't better than the one who is trending because she has a body she likes to flaunt. Their selling point is just different.


I'm not trying to encourage nudity but we have got to let everyone live their lives how they want to. We are the ones encouraging immorality by accepting it and as such, we have no right to condemn or criticize.

Lawlahdey:
Every part of my body is a selling point.

eph12:

Getting excellent grades is not an easy feat. Serious work was put into it, lots of sleepless nights. You can't seriously compare the two. Only laziness will make a lady think she does not have to work hard to be successful.

ikbnice:
Was the goods produced in China? It is not of top notch quality. I suggest you need an upgrade ASAP as per the competition is getting stiffer by the day.

CaptainSALAZAR:
In other words we should allow the hoes to hoe. No condemnation.

Lawlahdey:
Keeping a fit, healthy body to appear trim for the cameras isn't also an easy feat. It requires hardwork too.

By the way, they work hard too. The kind of hard work is just different.

Lawlahdey:
Exactly. It's nobody's business.

eph12:

Getting excellent grades is not an easy feat. Serious work was put into it, lots of sleepless nights. You can't seriously compare the two. Only laziness will make a lady think she does not have to work hard to be successful.

eph12:

Will you then agree with me that anybody can work the gym, keep fit and healthy body but not everybody can get that first class?

L3G3ND:

this is why we are all created differently
not everyone has the grace to spend sleepless night studying, not everyone has the grace to even study we all have brains but we all use it differently so far we achieve what we want in the end .. even a slay mama uses her brain to calculate on whose attention she can get with her bodily features same way a lady CEO will use her brain to calculate and create a platform for herself

remember equal brain mass different purpose

Saintsammurai:
OP one thing you must understand is that. "This is Africa" and in Africa, Nigeria especially, we value and respect our culture.. The term. "use what you have, to get what you want" is a term that prostitutes uses in Nollywood movies back in the days' unfortunately, the term has been use in reality by those that sells their body for money and frankly speaking, that is the price our young girls have to pay for watching indecent Nollywood movies.. "You made mention of Beyonce, "Girl do not be deceive, Beyonce is only a puppet, playing to the tune of her masters, in other to lure and mislead her followers, she is talented, but the nude she display is for a negative and destructive purposes, to lure people away from GOD'S plan, she belongs to the devil, so dont let her display of nudes, motivate you to start using nudes for fame and money...[b]ITS more honourable to be hillary clinton than to be beyonce..[/b]

makydebbie:
A lady who aced her papers should never be compared to another who flaunts her body.

That body will one day go into extinction. But the brain never fails. That brain will take her places. The one who flaunts her body will need a brain to keep that body and manage her wealth.

L3G3ND:

true but both women are respected in their chosen paths .. different stokes for different folks

Saintsammurai:
OP one thing you must understand is that. "This is Africa" and in Africa, Nigeria especially, we value and respect our culture.. The term. "use what you have, to get what you want" is a term that prostitutes uses in Nollywood movies back in the days' unfortunately, the term has been use in reality by those that sells their body for money and frankly speaking, that is the price our young girls have to pay for watching indecent Nollywood movies.. "You made mention of Beyonce, "Girl do not be deceive, Beyonce is only a puppet, playing to the tune of her masters, in other to lure and mislead her followers, she is talented, but the nude she display is for a negative and destructive purposes, to lure people away from GOD'S plan, she belongs to the devil, so dont let her display of nudes, motivate you to start using nudes for fame and money... [b]It's more honourable to be hillary clinton than to be beyonce..[/b]

Saintsammurai:
Beyonce is not respected, forget all the media hype... 50% of good upbringing Americans dnt play Beyonce's songs or watch her videos... IT is only the media that forces them on us...