Good morning all.

Christian men are passing through a lot in marriage regarding sex and I will try to explain here.

As a God-fearing Christian man, you are allowed to marry only one wife and you are not allowed to seek for sexual satisfaction from any other woman apart from your wife. Most times, Christian men find themselves in very tight positions because their wives refuse to give them sex. You hear some married Christian women telling their husbands that they can only give him sex like once a week or twice in a month while the man is burning and dying in silence.

These women know very well that their husbands cannot go outside the marriage to have sex because of his Christian faith and the fear of God so they take their husbands for granted.

Personally I think this is wickedness. These same women will shout and cry if their husbands should look for another sex partner but will always have excuses why they cannot have sex regularly. They always have one reason or the other why their husbands should leave them alone yet sex is a vital and critical need for a man. If a man is under sexual tension it affects many other things in his life.

I have discovered that women married to unbelieving men are more careful with their husbands and always eager to satisfy him sexually. This is because they know that the man will not stress himself much begging them for sex but will simply go and get it elsewhere so they are always willing to give.

May God help married Christian men!

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MasterofNL:
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taylor88:


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I want him to move the thread to homepage for wider coverage.

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MasterofNL:


I want him to move the thread to homepage for wider coverage.

Thanks.

Antichrist

Married Christian men have I spoken your minds or not?

MasterofNL:
Good morning all.

Christian men are passing through a lot in marriage regarding sex and I will try to explain here.

As a God-fearing Christian man, you are allowed to marry only one wife and you are not allowed to seek for sexual satisfaction from any other woman apart from your wife. Most times, Christian men find themselves in very tight positions because their wives refuse to give them sex. You hear some married Christian women telling their husbands that they can only give him sex like once a week or twice in a month while the man is burning and dying in silence.

These women know very well that their husbands cannot go outside the marriage to have sex because of his Christian faith and the fear of God so they take their husbands for granted.

Personally I think this is wickedness. These same women will shout and cry if their husbands should look for another sex partner but will always have excuses why they cannot have sex regularly. They always have one reason or the other why their husbands should leave them alone yet sex is a vital and critical need for a man. If a man is under sexual tension it affects many other things in his life.

I have discovered that women married to unbelieving men are more careful with their husbands and always eager to satisfy him sexually. This is because they know that the man will not stress himself much begging them for sex but will simply go and get it elsewhere so they are always willing to give.

May God help married Christian men!

Op, you have a point there o.

Most cheating husbands in this place are Christians

Tenkobos:
Most cheating husbands in this place are Christians

This is not to justify men that cheat but most times the women force their husband to look for sex outside the marriage.

potent5:

Op, you have a point there o.

Thank you.

It's the mumu Christian men that would beg wives for sex, if she's not available, then look elsewhere. The only thing I can't do is marry a second wife.

MasterofNL:


This is not to justify men that cheat but most times the women force their husband to look for sex outside the marriage.

I disagree with you strongly.

Chanchit:
It's the mumu Christian men that would beg wives for sex, if she's not available, then look elsewhere. The only thing I can't do is marry a second part wife.

But the Bible does not permit you to have sex outside your marriage.

Tenkobos:
I disagree with you strongly.

What are you saying? Are you aware that some Christian men have found themselves in adultery because their wives will always deny them sex with one excuse or the other?

MasterofNL:


But the Bible does not permit you to have sex outside your marriage.

Abeg leave story, I know a pastor dating a married woman he presided over her wedding years back, so he too does not know that part of the bible, Sidon there make lant dey wear you.

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kinda true ooo

Men are really overgrown babies. You cheat because your wife denies you sex? Gosh marriage is overrated.

What about me and some other women who the thought of having sex with one man for the rest of their life gives them goosebumps! We should cheat too.? Buncha whiners

TheArchangel:
Men are really overgrown babies. You cheat because your wife denies you sex? Gosh marriage is overrated.

What about me and some other women who the thought of having sex with one man for the rest of their life gives them goosebumps! We should cheat too.? Buncha whiners

To cheat when one's wife repeatedly denies him of sex, isn't that a logical enough course of action? I think it is, especially when you've considered the terms and conditions which both the husband and the wife agreed to upon tieing the knot–one of which is to submit their bodies to each other at all times.

I don't think marriage is over-rated; it has its many benefits – social order being one of them. But I do think that it's unnatural and more of an affair of life-long self-discipline, especially in the aspect of sex.

@emboldened_Then don't marry, or better yet, get into the sort of marriage that is suitable to the whims of your libido. Marriage is not an evolutionary necessity. It's only a social construct. It's like Art, like music–it embellishes existence but it's not indispensable.

What kind of fallacy is this nau? Christian men are disadvantaged in sex!!! So ALL Christian men get starved of sex by their wives? OP check it, this cannot be a fact.

So that guy that said his wife likes sex too much has to be muslin, atheist,etc.

It has nothing to do with religion but everything to do with the woman personally or the couple.

ImaIma1:
What kind of fallacy is this nau? Christian men are disadvantaged in sex!!! So ALL Christian men get starved of sex by their wives? OP check it, this cannot be a fact.

So that guy that said his wife likes sex too much has to be muslin, atheist,etc.

It has nothing to do with religion but everything to do with the woman personally or the couple.

I brought religion into it because Christian men are not allowed to marry more than one wife and also not allowed to seek sex outside marriage.

anyone who isn't a Muslim is regarded as a Christian, so, your opinion is vague and does not apply to the average yahoo-boy Christian out there with many concubines


I think you should change the Christian in your topic to born again or deeper life men

MasterofNL:


I brought religion into it because Christian men are not allowed to marry more than one wife and also not allowed to seek sex outside marriage.

So a Muslim man that has 3 wives but still has a side chick or planning to marry a 4th wife is sex starved?

Also, the fact that Christian men are not meant to go outside for sex does not mean they dont.

And it is not a general thing. So many factors are involved in the sex status of the marriage and it is peculiar to each couple irrespective of the religion.

OP let me tell u the truth,majority of the married men cheating in marriage are christians,including pastors..they are sleeping with married women,impregnating peoples daughters in the name of “man of God"..

infact,there are things I can't type right now.

in as much as I don't want to generalize that Christian men are sex starved. the fact remains that most of them are very sex starved. Even one of my state pastor in the church I attend preached against wives who are a selfish with their body, making their husbands masturbate. op is on point.

They should do what their Christian wives are doing.
Fvck the pastor.

Everyone is happy in the name of the lord

MasterofNL:
Good morning all.

Christian men are passing through a lot in marriage regarding sex and I will try to explain here.

As a God-fearing Christian man, you are allowed to marry only one wife and you are not allowed to seek for sexual satisfaction from any other woman apart from your wife. Most times, Christian men find themselves in very tight positions because their wives refuse to give them sex. You hear some married Christian women telling their husbands that they can only give him sex like once a week or twice in a month while the man is burning and dying in silence.

These women know very well that their husbands cannot go outside the marriage to have sex because of his Christian faith and the fear of God so they take their husbands for granted.

Personally I think this is wickedness. These same women will shout and cry if their husbands should look for another sex partner but will always have excuses why they cannot have sex regularly. They always have one reason or the other why their husbands should leave them alone yet sex is a vital and critical need for a man. If a man is under sexual tension it affects many other things in his life.

I have discovered that women married to unbelieving men are more careful with their husbands and always eager to satisfy him sexually. This is because they know that the man will not stress himself much begging them for sex but will simply go and get it elsewhere so they are always willing to give.

May God help married Christian men!

What of married Christian/Muslim/traditional African religion women?

A lady I know says her husband only sleeps with her once in 3 months and she is sex starved so what should be her solution sir, I'm waiting for your candid response or is your judgement of unfairness for men alone? Bros I dey wait


Also this woman needs your advice too, should she dump her husband for another man?
https://www.nairaland.com/3942879/married-lonely

Geosystem:
in as much as I don't want to generalize that Christian men are sex starved. the fact remains that most of them are very sex starved. Even one of my state pastor in the church I attend preached against wives who are a selfish with their body, making their husbands masturbate. op is on point.

God bless you.

Some of those commenting here do not understand.

Seun, lalasticlala, Mynd44 let's have a wider coverage please.

Geosystem:
in as much as I don't want to generalize that Christian men are sex starved. the fact remains that most of them are very sex starved. Even one of my state pastor in the church I attend preached against wives who are a selfish with their body, making their husbands masturbate. op is on point.

It really has nothing to do with religion. Are the women starving their husbands because they are Christian? It should depend on the kind of women involved and the kind of relationship the couple have. I know of fellow Christian wives who are not stingy with sex. Each marriage has it's own peculiarities and cannot be generalized. Some people might look composed and very put together outside but in their bedrooms, they are wild and crazy.
OP can only make this conclusion if he has gone from house to house of Christian couples to get the statistics.

You're right op
Christian men who actually believe in their Christian values are being dealt with seriously by their wives when it comes to sexual deprivation. A lot of them feel too guilty to cheat but instead become irritable, angry all the time and even wife beaters. It is all an outlet to compensate for the sex they are not having.

The 'good news' is that the temptation is usually too much for most of them and most of them eventually look for ways to satisfy themselves outside

Why women enjoy depriving their men of sex though is beyond me.