Most men who talk to you, no matter who they are and where it is, have two intentions:

1.They want to have sex with you and are attracted to you physically.

2.They would like to know more about you as a person and might see you as a potential long term partner.

The second happens almost all the time. Many guys are secretly romantic saps waiting on the right girl. However, even if a girl fails that test, we would still like to have sex with you. It’s in our nature. You might not notice the subtle things a guy does to make sure you’re relationship material, but they’re still there. For me, there is one seemingly innocent phrase that alters my perception of you completely. Not in its context, but in its timing, because if you say this at the wrong time, you are completely disqualified from being girlfriend material. What’s this phrase?

AND WHAT DO YOU DO?

Yes, that seemingly innocent phrase has led to more confused women. And it’s not a bad phrase in and of itself, because after all, it’s important to know what your potential partner spends a lot of their time doing. But timing is key here.

And if you say this magic phrase before you find out a guy’s name or immediately after, he will likely think that you’re one of those girls: spoiled, likes gifts, broke and will probably leave him when times are hard. I can go on.

So ladies, if you want to know what a guy does, just wait and he’ll probably tell you. Or at least ask waaaaaay after finding out his name.

hmmm

op just said ladies should know that most men just want to sleep with them but should not ask a guy what he does for a living until she knows his name.

Even when that single act will not even gaurantee her WIFE SPOT but girlfriend.

hmmm. Dear ladies, date your friends.

Me too. That word what do you do is like asking a girl is she a Virgin.?
Once I hear it. I become saddened in my heart that this beauty here is nothing different too. But what can a man do? The search continues. Never give up approaching different women until you find the right one who by luck or whatever did plays her game right without falling into my traps.
She will gain my approval and beautiful ring.
Sign out.

IamKashyBaby:


Let me grab a chair & patiently waiting for him to tell me

Better get your bed too. Op might take a long while

cuvox:


Better get your bed too. Op might take a long while

U are right sha..its almost midnyt in my side now and i am already on my bed..

It seems he wont really come back anytime soon

IamKashyBaby:





U are right sha..its almost midnyt in my side now and i am already on my bed..

It seems he wont really come back anytime soon

I dont think there's actually a formula to avoid being dumped. Who wan stay go stay. Its all about compatibility (goals, career, fantasies etc) and commitment. Some Men are arsêholes, some women are awful

abegi leave story...if he wan go make he go

Na so.. Stop making this thing look like we don't have choices. I'm a lady yeah and I have a choice to settle with someone that has something doing...these days, men ask the same question too


If in the course of introductions, you get angry cuz I ask what you do for a living, there must definitely be something suspicious up your sleeves..
A lot of times, greedy ladies ask this question to access the dudes pocket. Serious minded ladies ask even more

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all I'm saying is, try to know the guy firs before asking him what he does for a living

because asking him what he does for a living might make you look like a gold digger

Draei:

Your first 3 lines are pile of bullshiit, next thread...

thanks for reading