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Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by smilek(m): 9:06am On Oct 08, 2017 |
I didn't want to dabble in this petty debate of Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's choices of what to wear, following her nomination as Deputy Governor of CBN, which is driving our underachieving men nuts, and which, they argue, fall below their moral expectation from a Muslim woman, but this clarification may make the sincerely insular characters see why she is not an invention of anyone: Aisha came from a place and people that enable the rise of strong women, almost to the point of matriarchy. The Nupe are culturally respectful of the choices their women make, noting the history of female singers like Hajiya Lolo during and after the colonial rule to present-day Aliya Pelemi and even down through politicians like Senator Zainab Kure. These women were, and are, revered for their talent, their intellect, their wealth, their education, their wisdom, their skills, their philanthropy - their substance. The musicians have a band of all-male drummers and all-female dancers, who all defer to the female band leaders. Sometimes I wonder whether my mum too, who preferred gele to hijab, could have survived this male-privileging labyrinth as an itinerant trader if she had come from a people who prefer their women chained with words at home. And I'm proud to be from a place that does not disrespect their women or police then rudely like these bleeding chauvinists, who possibly have not prayed today or in weeks, raising fake credentials of their qualifications as self-appointed litigators of God. Let this woman, who's of course married, exhibit her right to not pander to your rude attempt to tell her what to wear and how to live. What's even funnier is, some of the clowns attacking her are probably seeking a way to see her for help, and shamelessly they'd say "Ran ki ya dade, Malama!" - Long may you live, Madam! - as they beg for a thousand Naira to feed the baby factories they have chained at home. Gimba kakanda 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Codes151(m): 9:15am On Oct 08, 2017 |
Beautiful woman! 1 Like |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IJOBA2: 10:04am On Oct 08, 2017 |
SHES NOT A MUSLIM. 2 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by AnodaIT(m): 1:40pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
Indeed 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Amarabae(f): 1:43pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
How else do they expect her to dress? |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by dealslip(f): 1:46pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
This woman is extremely brilliant and articulate. Who are those mad men who always think it is their right to control what fellow human beings wear or do 3 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IdisuleOurOwn(m): 1:50pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Throwback: 1:56pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
AnodaIT: Thankgod Diamond bank is owned by an Igboman and managed by Igbos. So you are saying an Igboman allowed this abracadabra to happen? Why will Diamond bank promote a Northerner to a position she is not qualified, in a bid to take up a CBN appointment that is the uncontested birthright of the Igbos? 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IJOBA2: 1:57pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
IdisuleOurOwn:SERIOUSLY TAKE A LOOK AT WHAT SHES WEARING, MUSLIMS WOMEN DOESN'T DRESS THAT WAY.... SHE DIDN'T DRESS LIKE NINJA ![]() 9 Likes
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IJOBA2: 2:01pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
Amarabae:LIKE THIS 9 Likes
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by HarmonyDee(f): 2:12pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
she has the right to wear what she wants!!
whats their problem? |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by SalamRushdie: 2:26pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
The question should be how did a bank marketer with no Macro monetary or fiscal policy experience get made CBN deputy governor overnight in a very shoddy manner devoid of best practices or merit 2 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by vedaxcool(m): 2:30pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
SalamRushdie: Similarly, Emeifele Repeating a lie you concocted won't make it the truth mr. rush and die. 10 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by ijoba22(m): 2:34pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
IJOBA2:y u dy use my moniker 2 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by AnodaIT(m): 2:41pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
Throwback:Please just take your tribalism go meet your colleagues in the gutters. I'm talking about nepotism and pushing a barely qualified candidate to occupy a position that there are others from North and South far more qualified to handle 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by zinizta: 2:43pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
SalamRushdie:She Has No Fiscal Policy Experience? Where Do They Get These QuacK Comment Droppers From? Next Time My Friend Do Your Due Dilligence Before You Comment. Don't Just Comment For Commenting Sakes. 11 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IJOBA2: 2:51pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
ijoba22:WHO KNOW YOU ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Throwback: 2:53pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
AnodaIT: Again I repeat, Thankgod Diamond Bank is owned by an Igbo, yet they facilitated her appointment with a promotion you have alleged was not merited. A promotion that was necessary to secure a CBN job that some tribal bigots believe she was offered based on her tribe and not based on merit. An allegation you have tried to further with your expose. Thanks for your effort. 8 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Dreambeat: 2:58pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
Throwback:In a lawless country like Nigeria,you think the presidency cannot twist the arms of Diamond bank into promoting her overnight just to get what it wants 2 Likes |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Mutuwa(m): 3:23pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
smilek: ![]() |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by magaliyu(f): 3:41pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
is high time to get a woman vice president. or those anyone has problem with that? |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by potipher7: 4:13pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
she will make a good milf ![]() |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by NafeesaAA(f): 4:19pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
If you are a Christian and you think that Muslims criticising Aisha's dress are wrong, you are the one who is wrong, not because you have no business in the discourse but because you probably do not know how Islam asks Muslims to dress. Indeed, Aisha's home ( Alh. Umaru Ndanusa) is a Muslim home. Now, what I am not sure of is if Aisha is still a Muslim. If she is a Muslim, those dresses are not the way of Muslims and Muslims have the right to complain about them. At that point, your duty as a Christian is to seek explanation as to how wrong they are on a Muslim's neck. If she is a Christian, Muslims have no right to complain. And their duty would be to continue with the business of living together in a mixed society like Nigeria. The hypocrisy of all our complaints reside in the fact that before Aisha's case, Muslims have lived and transacted businesses with Christians whose dresses are worse than Aisha's, perhaps, because those people didn't call themselves Muslims. Also, Christians have lived successfully with Muslims putting on what could pass for deep Islamic dresses without qualms. Any muslim who says Aisha's dressing is not wrong is only being hypocritical. Allah says hypocrites exist among Muslims. He warned that they are terrible to be with. They can conjure misleading thesis to cause confusion. Muslims take their injunctions from the Qur'an and Hadith plus conclusions from their scholars, only. Some of us who are Muslims know that Christianity forbids dressing that reveals the crevices of a woman; we know that Christianity promotes decency in dressing. Once upon a Sunday morning at ABU, behind Ribadu hall(girls hostel), a girl in her fullness of life was walking past, ahead of us to a church within the campus. Suddenly, we started hearing shouts and boos from atop the hostel: 'ashawo, seducer, sit not in front...' some Christian girls booed the badly dressed girl with a Bible in hand...instead of being remorseful, she stopped and began shaking her buttocks in the direction of her accusers. 'you don't have this', she replied. A Christian friend from Gombe who was with me simply concluded: 'wancan yar wuta ce'. So, both Islam and Christianity, I know, preache decency in dressing. Perhaps, more than proclamation, Islam has gone further to describe the ways in which men and women should dress. Therefore, if any Christian must reach a conclusion on this matter, he must have the knowledge of how Islam prescribes her dress code. It doesn't have to be like Arabs. It could be a Nupe or Igbo or Idoma type of dressing but it has to be according to Islamic specification. A person's first responsibility to a group is to observe her codes. Muslims who seek to correct any deviations must apply wisdom, diplomacy and persuasion either to a differing Muslims or a Christian needing education about what they know not in Islam. That's how the prophet of Islam did it. In fact, Christians are not the problem of Muslims in this matter but Muslims who know the truth and are pretending that her dressing is correct. On the whole, the major problem is that Muslims think Islam is theirs only, when Allah says it is a package for mankind. If you take it all, how do others who are not Muslims access it. Nigerian Christians are no better; they also think Christianity is theirs. So, every little thing goes for war between these two groups. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by SalamRushdie: 4:50pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
zinizta: Why dont you disprove me with facts than this stale curve response .. She managed high networth accounts in Diamond bank < that means she is prestige banking marketer...Below is a highlight of her career so why dont you show me her experience macro fiscal policies Mrs. Ahmad’s professional banking experience traverses the NAL Bank Plc, Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc and Zenith Bank Plc. |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by ijoba22(m): 5:21pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
IJOBA2:hey u better b careful |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by IJOBA2: 5:34pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
ijoba22:SHATAP |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Vivere: 6:14pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
Danladi7:Yakubu Gowon is not Hausa-Fulani. He is Angas from Lur, a small village in the present Kanke Local Government Area of Plateau State. Jeremiah Timbut Useni is Tarok from Langtang in Plateau State, while Theophilus Yakubu Danjuma is a Jukun man from Takum in Taraba State. But Igbo people are unable to tell the difference. So they tar everyone with the same brush, because of the hate within them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Vivere: 6:19pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
NafeesaAA: In what way is Aisha's dressing wrong? And what do you mean by saying Islam prescribes her dress code. What kind of dress code is this? It only says a woman should cover up her body. Aishah's dress covers her body, so what else do you want? Must she wear a hijab before you can agree that she is decently dressed? Haba! Wearing Hijab is a choice, not a compulsion. 1 Like |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by omololu2020(m): 6:21pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
NafeesaAA:aboki who this your rant help? She will dress the way she likes, if you are not comfortable with it,you can't do anything about it than just to rant.you think is every tribe that will carry Islam on their head like you malams in the north west? |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by Okoroawusa: 7:01pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
What exactly r u guys fighting about? |
Re: Debate On Mrs. Aisha Ahmad's Choice Of Dressing ( Deputy Governor Of CBN,) by zinizta: 7:25pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
SalamRushdie:Do You Know What It Takes To Be An Associate Member Of The Institute - CFA. Of Course, You Don'T Know Much About This Topic You Are Meddling With. |
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