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I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Finalguy(m): 2:37am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Hi guys, I have been dating my girlfriend for more than two years now. All was well until I got the shock of my life yesterday evening. She has been without a phone for some time now, hence I decided to get her an Android phone so that we can communicate easily via social media. After downloading, installing and registering her on WhatsApp, I linked it to the WhatsApp app on my laptop. As such, I followed all her chats. Yesterday evening, I noticed she called a guy "baby" and decided to follow up the chat. To my greatest surprise, it confirmed to me that they are dating. I confronted her with all the evidence and she admitted. I am so heartbroken and have immediately drawn the curtain between us and blocked every means of communication. She is begging and asking close friends to beg but it's not possible. It's so painful because I've spent a lot on her and have been setting modalities in place for our marriage next year. Now I understand why some guys treat women badly. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by kunlesufyan(m): 2:40am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Collect your phone back real quick 35 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by ogoloray(m): 2:45am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Just eat rat poison, and end d pain 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Teaveapoet(f): 2:47am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Must u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme# 4 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by tolanibae(f): 3:08am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Some ladies are a disgrace. Imagine the nonsense this one above me is saying. Op sorry, a cheating partner is very unlikely to change. Please move on,you deserve better. 55 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Oluwasaeon(m): 3:11am On Oct 09, 2017 |
kunlesufyan: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 3:12am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Finalguy: That feeling of catching the person u thought loves u really SUCKS! Well, not all women cheat tho...I myself, is against cheating.. I dont understand why some ppol cheat despite they are in a "relationship"? Why not break up first and move on rather than sailing in 2 rivers? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Rajosh(m): 3:21am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:which planet are you from? your level of reasoning baffles me to say the least. I'm sure you'll cheat on your partner if opportunity presents itself. SMH. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Frenchkiss(m): 3:28am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Though it won't be easy but don't fall for the pleas. The cord of trust and loyalty on which the relationship is built has already been broken. You have to move on. She's probably just apologizing because she's hurt you and not because she loves you. 8 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by SuperSuave(m): 3:29am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Collect your phone oga make you no lose in two places 3 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Antina(f): 3:30am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet: 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 4:19am On Oct 09, 2017 |
tolanibae: Once in a while you see sensible ladies like this. The rest are cheating bastards who encourage others to cheat. I would give you 100 likes if i could, but i've got just one. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 4:22am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet: You're a disgrace and an embarrasment to the few decent, faithful women out there. I hope you don't get caught in your stupid cheating act. Hope you don't contract an incurable disease while you're in the 'game'. I hope you don't end up at redeemed camp or shiloh or mountain of fire years after you can't find and hold down a decent man. Nonsense. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Bibi294(f): 4:35am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Anyone can be in her shoes.... CHEATING might be caused by a lot of things.. NOTE - A relationship is not all about money and love.. How abt happiness, care etc... Op, if you can grant her a second chance... Please do... Everyone make mistakes.... afterll, she agreed shecheted and apologised....if you love her.. You can still move on and if you don't.... Well... If you're to being her shoes, She'll forgive you over and over again but guys ehn... Always playing the victim's card... There is always a second chance... Some have been in your shoes who are now happily married... To everyone blaming the other op, after all its her choice and advice 9 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Bibi294(f): 4:36am On Oct 09, 2017 |
ScotFree:Why all these? Pls, be matured with your comments..m 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by mistarsam(m): 4:37am On Oct 09, 2017 |
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Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 4:39am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Bibi294: Madam! Face front!! 8 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by ULSHERLAN(m): 5:12am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Bibi294: Would she have agreed to cheating if she wasn't caught with evidence? Some girls like to eat their cake and have it. Since she doesn't find care and happiness with op then no point still begging to be with him It's not just gonna end there, believe me. @op just move on so she can settle for the other one. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 5:32am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:Go school u no gree, buy brain u no gree 4 Likes
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Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by rawpadgin(m): 5:41am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:imagine! 3 Likes
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Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 6:12am On Oct 09, 2017 |
are you also guilty of the same act ??if yes then I don't pity you,but if otherwise,,sorry about that..atleast be happy you ain't bringing a flirt in your house,, all you spent in the relationship goes for the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 6:25am On Oct 09, 2017 |
So because your girlfriend is dating another dude, you are crying like a baby eekwa? See as I rushed in here thinking I was coming to console a man who lost a business deal only to see this nonsense. Mtcheew. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by nochio(m): 6:38am On Oct 09, 2017 |
tolanibae:God bless you mightily sister, you speak the truth. 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 6:39am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Make sure your next girlfriend is prettier, more intelligent, more endowed, very much fun, got better goals and dreams than she ever had... And yet, keep her (your ex) as your friend so she can see how much better your life has become without her. Finalguy: 6 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by lenghtinny(m): 6:42am On Oct 09, 2017 |
We keep telling y'all p*ssy ass n*ggas to fall off skyscrapers instead of falling in love but y'all never listens... Now two irredeemable years has been wasted chasing shadows. Your before and after be looking like.. 2 Likes
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Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by jbreezy: 6:47am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Yu will neva get hurt if yu neva trust a biatch 3 Likes |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 6:58am On Oct 09, 2017 |
tolanibae:You have a good heart. Keep it up. There's nothing more devastating than knowing the one you love cheats on you. 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 6:58am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:eya is it because ur yansh and boobs are microscopic, anyways, u re a disgrace to womanhood for spilling this trash 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 7:03am On Oct 09, 2017 |
CaptainJeffry:Don't be heartless naw. 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by Nobody: 7:05am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:Can u imagine this trash. 3 Likes
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Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by bigcee(m): 7:21am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Teaveapoet:Mumu. 1 Like |
Re: I'm So Heartbroken And Confused; Need Help!! by fatymore(f): 7:22am On Oct 09, 2017 |
This is what I don't get. When a guy cheat.. People console the lady telling her guys are naturally cheat.. She should accept his apologies and love him back. Even the guy will beg that it just a few months fling but if is a lady hell will be let loose.. I believe in forgiveness.. In as much she has begged and cut off the relationship.. Why don't you forget and move on 2 Likes |
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