Hi guys,
I have been dating my girlfriend for more than two years now. All was well until I got the shock of my life yesterday evening. She has been without a phone for some time now, hence I decided to get her an Android phone so that we can communicate easily via social media. After downloading, installing and registering her on WhatsApp, I linked it to the WhatsApp app on my laptop. As such, I followed all her chats. Yesterday evening, I noticed she called a guy "baby" and decided to follow up the chat. To my greatest surprise, it confirmed to me that they are dating. I confronted her with all the evidence and she admitted. I am so heartbroken and have immediately drawn the curtain between us and blocked every means of communication. She is begging and asking close friends to beg but it's not possible. It's so painful because I've spent a lot on her and have been setting modalities in place for our marriage next year. Now I understand why some guys treat women badly.

Collect your phone back real quick

Just eat rat poison, and end d pain

Must u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

Some ladies are a disgrace. Imagine the nonsense this one above me is saying.

Op sorry, a cheating partner is very unlikely to change. Please move on,you deserve better.

kunlesufyan:
Collect your phone back real quick

Finalguy:
Hi guys,
I have been dating my girlfriend for more than two years now. All was well until I got the shock of my life yesterday evening. She has been without a phone for some time now, hence I decided to get her an Android phone so that we can communicate easily via social media. After downloading, installing and registering her on WhatsApp, I linked it to the WhatsApp app on my laptop. As such, I followed all her chats. Yesterday evening, I noticed she called a guy "baby" and decided to follow up the chat. To my greatest surprise, it confirmed to me that they are dating. I confronted her with all the evidence and she admitted. I am so heartbroken and have immediately drawn the curtain between us and blocked every means of communication. She is begging and asking close friends to beg but it's not possible. It's so painful because I've spent a lot on her and have been setting modalities in place for our marriage next year. Now I understand why some guys treat women badly.

That feeling of catching the person u thought loves u really SUCKS!

Well, not all women cheat tho...I myself, is against cheating.. I dont understand why some ppol cheat despite they are in a "relationship"? Why not break up first and move on rather than sailing in 2 rivers?

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

which planet are you from? your level of reasoning baffles me to say the least. I'm sure you'll cheat on your partner if opportunity presents itself. SMH.

Though it won't be easy but don't fall for the pleas. The cord of trust and loyalty on which the relationship is built has already been broken. You have to move on. She's probably just apologizing because she's hurt you and not because she loves you.

Collect your phone oga make you no lose in two places

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

tolanibae:
Some ladies are a disgrace. Imagine the nonsense this one above me is saying.

Op sorry, a cheating partner is very unlikely to change. Please move on,you deserve better.

Once in a while you see sensible ladies like this. The rest are cheating bastards who encourage others to cheat. I would give you 100 likes if i could, but i've got just one.

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

You're a disgrace and an embarrasment to the few decent, faithful women out there. I hope you don't get caught in your stupid cheating act. Hope you don't contract an incurable disease while you're in the 'game'. I hope you don't end up at redeemed camp or shiloh or mountain of fire years after you can't find and hold down a decent man. Nonsense.

Anyone can be in her shoes.... CHEATING might be caused by a lot of things..
NOTE - A relationship is not all about money and love.. How abt happiness, care etc...

Op, if you can grant her a second chance... Please do... Everyone make mistakes.... afterll, she agreed shecheted and apologised....if you love her.. You can still move on and if you don't.... Well...

If you're to being her shoes, She'll forgive you over and over again but guys ehn... Always playing the victim's card...
There is always a second chance... Some have been in your shoes who are now happily married...

To everyone blaming the other op, after all its her choice and advice

ScotFree:


You're a disgrace and an embarrasment to the few decent, faithful women out there. I hope you don't get caught in your stupid cheating act. Hope you don't contract an incurable disease while you're in the 'game'. I hope you don't end up at redeemed camp or shiloh or mountain of fire years after you can't find and hold down a decent man. Nonsense.

Why all these? Pls, be matured with your comments..m

H

Bibi294:

Why all these? Pls, be matured with your comments..m

Madam! Face front!!

Bibi294:
Anyone can be in her shoes.... CHEATING might be caused by a lot of things..
NOTE - A relationship is not all about money and love.. How abt happiness, care etc...

Op, if you can grant her a second chance... Please do... Everyone make mistakes.... afterll, she agreed shecheted and apologised....if you love her.. You can still move on and if you don't.... Well...

If you're to being her shoes, She'll forgive you over and over again but guys ehn... Always playing the victim's card...
There is always a second chance... Some have been in your shoes who are now happily married...

To everyone blaming the other op, after all its her choice and advice

Would she have agreed to cheating if she wasn't caught with evidence?

Some girls like to eat their cake and have it.
Since she doesn't find care and happiness with op then no point still begging to be with him

It's not just gonna end there, believe me.

@op just move on so she can settle for the other one.

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

Go school u no gree, buy brain u no gree

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

imagine!

are you also guilty of the same act ??if yes then I don't pity you,but if otherwise,,sorry about that..atleast be happy you ain't bringing a flirt in your house,,
all you spent in the relationship goes for the relationship.

So because your girlfriend is dating another dude, you are crying like a baby eekwa? See as I rushed in here thinking I was coming to console a man who lost a business deal only to see this nonsense. Mtcheew.

tolanibae:
Some ladies are a disgrace. Imagine the nonsense this one above me is saying.

Op sorry, a cheating partner is very unlikely to change. Please move on,you deserve better.

God bless you mightily sister, you speak the truth.

Make sure your next girlfriend is prettier, more intelligent, more endowed, very much fun, got better goals and dreams than she ever had... And yet, keep her (your ex) as your friend so she can see how much better your life has become without her.

Finalguy:
Hi guys,
I have been dating my girlfriend for more than two years now. All was well until I got the shock of my life yesterday evening. She has been without a phone for some time now, hence I decided to get her an Android phone so that we can communicate easily via social media. After downloading, installing and registering her on WhatsApp, I linked it to the WhatsApp app on my laptop. As such, I followed all her chats. Yesterday evening, I noticed she called a guy "baby" and decided to follow up the chat. To my greatest surprise, it confirmed to me that they are dating. I confronted her with all the evidence and she admitted. I am so heartbroken and have immediately drawn the curtain between us and blocked every means of communication. She is begging and asking close friends to beg but it's not possible. It's so painful because I've spent a lot on her and have been setting modalities in place for our marriage next year. Now I understand why some guys treat women badly.

Yu will neva get hurt if yu neva trust a biatch

tolanibae:
Some ladies are a disgrace. Imagine the nonsense this one above me is saying.

Op sorry, a cheating partner is very unlikely to change. Please move on,you deserve better.

You have a good heart.
Keep it up.

There's nothing more devastating than knowing the one you love cheats on you.

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

eya is it because ur yansh and boobs are microscopic, anyways, u re a disgrace to womanhood for spilling this trash

CaptainJeffry:
So because your girlfriend is dating another dude, you are crying like a baby eekwa? See as I rushed in here thinking I was coming to console a man who lost a business deal only to see this nonsense. Mtcheew.

Don't be heartless naw.

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

Can u imagine this trash.

Teaveapoet:
Most u open thread 4 everytin? she begged u and u didnt accept shikena! y r u heartbroken? oh, d money u spend! lol# men wil alws spend noni. u beta shake off and brace up. ladies plenty# afta al una dey cause am, na big yash and boobs u go dey luk 4 and u nw complain dey cheat on u. yeye! take cold water. dontquoteme#

Mumu.

This is what I don't get. When a guy cheat.. People console the lady telling her guys are naturally cheat.. She should accept his apologies and love him back. Even the guy will beg that it just a few months fling but if is a lady hell will be let loose.. I believe in forgiveness.. In as much she has begged and cut off the relationship.. Why don't you forget and move on