nmm

Space it out.

You have done the honourable thing.

Since, you are yet to marry her, let her go to her "man".

Don't be foolish, there is no guy who is father Christmas to sponsor a girls birthday for nothing, when his brain is not frozen.

Be yourself and continue with your hustle but your relationship will not remain the same after the birthday.

After such spending, the guy will become the biggest stakeholder.

About the sister stuff, if they do not share same DNA strain, my guy, you have been dating yourself.

so what advice do you need

It's late. Pls punctuate correctly and stop straining our eye

mofeoluwadassah:
so what advice do you need

if my decision is ok

jamarifox:
It's late. Pls punctuate correctly and stop straining our eye

am sorry typed from my mobile

Kizito2nv:
if my decision is ok

yes its ok

[quote author=Prec1ous post=61267086]Space it out.
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mofeoluwadassah:
yes its ok

thanks

Prec1ous:
Space it out.

You have done the honourable thing.

Since, you are yet to marry her, let her go to her "man".

Don't be foolish, there is no guy who is father Christmas to sponsor a girls birthday for nothing, when his brain is not frozen.

Be yourself and continue with your hustle but your relationship will not remain the same after the birthday.

After such spending, the guy will become the biggest stakeholder.

About the sister stuff, if they do not share same DNA strain, my guy, you have been dating yourself.

Sweery, you said everything I wanted to say.

Op, I don't know if your babe is naive or she's acting stupid on purpose.
Brother my ass!

makydebbie:
Sweery, you said everything I wanted to say.

Op, I don't know if your babe is naive or she's acting stupid on purpose.
Brother my ass!

You know you are my number 1 celebrity, I should be able to represent your facts in it entirety.

VENUS coming through please, all lesser goddesses should scamper!

Lol sees her like a sister .... ok

Kizito2nv:
thanks i really appreciate, even before we started dating i told her i can't share if feels she has seen a better guy all she do is tell me then we call it quits.

I hate games and am still going to tell her if the guy wants to be in charge no problems but i can't have it any other way

even though I don't want to make her choose between the party and but I guess it might get to that and am not going to hang on if it goes the other way

You don't need too much English, just ghost her.

You are playing a supporting cast in a major play, except that the main character is a star.

She cares less, so March on!

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Prec1ous:


You know you are my number 1 celebrity, I should be able to represent your facts in it entirety.

VENUS coming through please, all lesser goddesses should scamper!

Other girls should take note!
I'm never disappointed honestly.

dis recession bro....no money no love....
note she goin cum back Wen u make it buh for not....she still wants to taste every sumptuous food available

Kizito2nv:
the matter weak me shaa, she is not naive she very smart, i think she saw an opportunity on the and wants to take but it would only prove how much the relationship means to her

Exactly, she wants the birthday at all cost with no care in the world about how you feel.

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am sorry, but a woman who knows whats right will know its not ok for another man to sponsor your birthday when you have a man. Even if nothing is between them,its going to be hard to believe.

Besides why can't she just spend it with you and be satisfied and manage what you offered for now.

But seriously I still find it unbelievable that she told you herself not even scared that you might have some doubts about her.
Hope your sure this girl loves you.

Anyway you made the right decision.

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Kizito2nv:
Ur first point my thought is the love is there but because there is no money now it lacks respect

Though i may not blame her which is why i don't want to make her choose between me and the party cos there have been stories of girls making sacrifice for their love when he was struggling and they make it and dump the girl,

To some extent i don't doubt her i doubt what will happen after the event,

The truth is am in a crossroad cos if she decides not go along with the guy i owe her for life but if not it would be a total different feeling

Thanks for the support

you welcome

Prec1ous:


You know you are my number 1 celebrity, I should be able to represent your facts in it entirety.

VENUS coming through please, all lesser goddesses should scamper!

No 1 celebrity bawo.... U Nigggas crack up like kilode

A guy can be nice to help a lady out on serious stuffs, definitely not a birthday party. Bro, something is already cooking or will start cooking soon.

If that your girlfriend really loves you as you assume she does, she wouldn't take such an offer from a man except from her brother.

Don't attend the party and be calm about it or she will blame you for pushing her to the other guy if you ever show any sign of insecurity.

Kizito2nv:
The truth is am in a crossroad cos if she decides not go along with the guy i owe her for life but if not it would be a total different feeling

Thanks for the support

You owe her for life cos of birthday party?

2dice01:
No 1 celebrity bawo.... U Nigggas crack up like kilode

There is life outside nairaland, hope you know?

Most people also know themselves outside nairaland, hope you know?

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Mstcheeeeew. Some girls just have a silly way of destroying their relationships.

Must the birthday be celebrated in a big way? Wooz, just know you're already single oooo.

Kizito2nv:
if my decision is ok

ur decision is right,she should wait till ur financially stable so u can celebrate it for her btw been alive on dat day is d most important tin

Kizito2nv:
thanks i really appreciate, even before we started dating i told her i can't share if feels she has seen a better guy all she do is tell me then we call it quits.

I hate games and am still going to tell her if the guy wants to be in charge no problems but i can't have it any other way

even though I don't want to make her choose between the party and but I guess it might get to that and am not going to hang on if it goes the other way

That's the problem I have with ladies generally they won't call it quit, they would prefer to double date and continue to deceive both guys.

Anyway, is your gf, your relationship and your choice to make at the end. But if am in your shoes, my brother, I would walk away or give her an ultimatum to either chose between spending her day with the guy or with me.

If you ask her to choose between you both, then most people, especially ladies will say you are selfish and self centered, forgetting the fact that you are only trying to protect your relationship.

Since you agreed to the fact that you don't want to boss her around since she is not married to you(this I admire). Please take a walk, the relationship is still young and you will do your heart more harm than good if you continue with it.

P.s. guys lets tell ourselves the truth, to date is very expensive this days, especially if you know you are not buoyant enough to go into a relationship, just have it at the back of your mind that issues of finance will come into play even if she is not the demanding type.

There are guys out there that are ready to compete with you on your girl especially the ones who are financially stable, they may come as a friend but we all know the end result.

Ladies need to understand this, the ego of a guy increases when he sleeps with a lady and he is ready to double his efforts when he knows she has a serious relationship and that's why he will do ANYTHING on earth to get you. So forget all those he is my friend nothing will happen, the only friend I know is "what a friend we have in Jesus".

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

Are you invited to the party?

Prec1ous:


There is life outside nairaland, hope you know?

Most people also know themselves outside nairaland, hope you know?

lol...most people or some/few people..


Even though the assslicking was too legendary