humilitypays:
‎That girl forming Kim Kardashian for you and giving u stress and telling u that before she can do this and that with u, she needs to know your village and your uncle plus your great grandparents, trust me, she is giving it free of charge to one guy who don't even respect her much!

When a lady isn't into u much or let's say when a lady is trying so hard to like u, she will be giving u rules of relationship

That girl making iyanga tolo tolo for u now will pull of her clothes if she ever comes across a male celebrity or person she's been crushing on...
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Guys, when a lady tells u no, smile and move on happily...dont stress yourself because of her because that same girl u are dying to get, one mumu guy somewhere is tired of her lolz‎
 

Once a girl meets her dream man, she wouldn't even know when her dress is off‎ , she will forget her rules...a woman's rules is for men she does not fancy or men who chase her, not for the men she fancy and desire... women are interesting being

ubunja:

Don't go around calling people insecure.because u don't have any idea how offensive that is.the opposite of insecure is secure meaning CONFIDENT.and that's a welcome compliment to everyone.insecure is the opposite a compliment.and its offends. Not because it means lack of confidence but because its justified in today's dating world.
Daily we read about men finding out their kids aren't theirs thru DNA after years,yet u gona diss me for being insecure? While HIV/aids is devastating marriages killing people who are not even supposed to be having sex outside marriage?yet u gona belittle me for being insecure? What do I gain by being confident? Heartbreak when secrets come out.that's Y people like u commit suicide when they learn how much their women have betrayed them.I'm insecure and I'm always ready for anything.also my insecurity means I never give any gal 100%. Of my heart. Never.
#InsecureCrew

joeeee240:


I THINK THE ISSUE IS THAT YOU DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF INSECURITY . THE DNA AND HIV THING DOESN'T APPLY. IF YOU'RE INSECURE YOU CAN NEVER BE CONFIDENT. FOR EXAMPLE SEE THE WAY YOU'RE GOING ALL DEFENSIVE AND ATTACKING FOR NO JUSTIFIABLE REASON ON A FORUM. THAT MY FRIEND IS INSECURITY. USING THE WORD CHEAP IS ALSO INSECURITY. AN INSECURE CANNOT BE CONFIDENT. ANYWAYS YOU HAVE CHOSEN YOUR PATH OF INSECURITY.I HOPE YOU GET BETTER

ubunja:

Do u see how I'm giving you point after point and u are just attacking my character?giving no counter-points to the points I'm raising.
Anyways gals say "ALL MEN ARE DOGS" and "ALL MEN ARE LIARS" and u never call them insecure!!!instead u tell them "you haven't met the right man"!! Why can't u say "my brother You haven't met the right gal"?

gypsey:
if she is cheap you are cheap too, it takes two people to have sex! why is it always women who takes all the blames?

wordbank:
Some go open legs yet some mumu no know wia to put prick

RillJ:
Doesnt really define her. Met a lady way back and dated for months. Her crib was close to my office so I visited her often. First day she visited mine, it happened. That relationship has since developed into marriage.

ubunja:

Coz women are the controllers of sex.they are the Gate-Keepers of sex.sex doesn't happen unless they say Yes.men have responsibities elsewhere.like when the family is starving.the woman is never blamed.coz men must hustle.men are the Gate-Keepers of moola.Moola doesn't come unless they wake up and go put in work.

ubunja:

Coz women are the controllers of sex.they are the Gate-Keepers of sex.sex doesn't happen unless they say Yes.men have responsibities elsewhere.like when the family is starving.the woman is never blamed.coz men must hustle.men are the Gate-Keepers of moola.Moola doesn't come unless they wake up and go put in work.

joeeee240:


YOU DIDN'T BRING UP ANY POINT. I TOLD YOU THE DNA AND HIV THING ARE NOT EXAMPLES OF INSECURITY. I ALSO SAID YOU DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF INSECURITY. I'M NOT ATTACKING YOUR CHARACTER BRO. I'M DEFINING IT. AS FOR THOSE GIRLS? THEY ARE INSECURE TOO

ubunja:

So we are all insecure! Let's have one huge orgy and turn-up coz life is meaningless anyways.
Cheers

ubunja:

How romantic! You are the idiot that chose to put a ring on it while others just f*cked same day and bounced! U deserve a medal.

gypsey:
Really? were is it written? which law says so?

RillJ:
May you be relieved of this emptiness sooner than you deserve.

trustyshoess:

Then so are you! Did she have sex with herself?

ubunja:

The law that says Men must kneel to propose nOT women,the law that says men must ask gals out NOT women.the law that makes guys lose interest when a gal proposes them. The law that says a man must compete with 10 men for 1 woman! The law that says when that 1 man wins that 1 gal even his own sperm will have to compete among themselves to fertilize the egg. That's the law that makes women Rulers of Sex. While men are the Rulers of Cash.coz men are Providers.

steam74:


That a lady has sex with me on the first date doesn't necessarily mean she will have sex with any other guy on a first date.
My game is strong and can't be compared to theirs. Most times I have to reassure the lady that she isn't cheap or whatever.

The most principled but matured girl I've ever met had sex on the 2nd date. First meeting ever was in a cinema and the next was in a hotel room.

ubunja:

80%of men are asleep in the matrix thinking their reality is reality.it is cruel to wake them up.let them enjoy their dreams.
Brother enjoy your dream state.

ABBEYsammy01:
We did it on d first day she came around one year plus later we gt married and I never for once regret meeting her...

RillJ:
Doesnt really define her. Met a lady way back and dated for months. Her crib was close to my office so I visited her often. First day she visited mine, it happened. That relationship has since developed into marriage.

Jimi23:


Cos u are dumb...u ended up with a woman of easy virtue.

Nov6:


Babe their is nothing wrong in it & it does not make the girl cheap in anyway, like someone earlier said, the society just seems to be harsh on the girl child.

Have you paused for a minute and try to put different scenario together that could have lead to that?

Before you come to visit a guy on a first date, there must have be Chemistry that has been established through proper communication...

First date or last date does it matter? What is the point of spending months pretending and in the end she still gets laid when she already thinks the guy is into her so much only to wake up the next morning and realise it was all just for the sex and he is gone, how heart broken can that be?

It takes two to Tango.

Have you considered the girls emotional state of mind @ that particular time?

My dear let us not be irrational here.. If she is tagged/labeled cheap so is the guy..

But it is high time we the guys start according the girls the respect they actually deserve and not just see them as "sex" tools even tho must of them seems to bring that to the table as the only thing they can offer in a relationship.

Goodmorning dear, do have a great day..
Thanks..

Nov6 signing out.
PEACE

adajoe555:
which girl will do that, just visiting for the first time then sex?

I wonder

RillJ:
My dear, if it helps you to be a ‘man’ by being conceitedly all knowing, I may not suffer you otherwise.