anuoluwapo884:
You should not have used the word "I don't like" apart from that You really honored her honestly some people will abandon her without taking the good measure you took nice one bro she should have package well

Proudlyblack:
Wickedness of the highest order

alexialin:
Lol .

Op you weren't rude. At least u were trying to avoid confrontation from her, if u had told her, hey babe but how come u are this old , while seated in front of her and looking at her dismay

Lol God forgive me..

I have done such before towards a guy that claims hes goodlooking with a nice job.

Omo, when we eventually met I was dismayed he saw the shock and confused looks on my face as I reluctantly shook his hands. Then we sat down, me that was chatting excitedly on chats before, I couldn't even say a word again. I was just like, but how manage? In my mind and trust me what I was saying in my mind was transmitting thru my eyes towards him. He smiled and laughed nervously ,while I just shook my head and smiled back with a fake smile..

Anyways enough about me.

But seriously op

One thing about online dates,before meeting each other, please go on video call, to see whom u truly want to date. Pics can be deceiving.


After bn said, abeg don't worry your mind. That's life sometimes.Exactly, u understand where I was coming from, I never wanted to see her get mad if I shd confront her and again I couldn't pretend and say, kai let me just manage this....

Thanks for the comment

We win some.. We loose some.

makydebbie:
OP you no see pictures?

Kennyprince:
she keep posting pics of .......I think when she was in her early 20s maybe...

Even at that photos don't really give the exact looks of people

IamKashyBaby:


When girls uses too much filters with their cheap phone...this shii happens The pictures are blur due to a very small pixels

But OP, u did what u need to do sha.. At least u didnt pretend that everything is OK when IT IS NOT OK... She was mad coz she never expect that u will juz send her message and leave her ass and her child

newyorks:
u fall ur hand by meeting her. u should've sighted her from afar then u can decide what to do.

Kennyprince:
Exactly, u understand what and how this situation can be

makydebbie:
Lol, joke is on her.

alexialin:





My dear, I over understand sef.

Mehn it's embarrassing.

Some will show u old pics, when life was good for them. Knowing fully well, they don't like that anymore but will lie its a recent pic. Honestly with such lies, the person is just postponing the day of rejection on phone chats.

Just show your true self, cause no matter the makeup or Baffing up? One will still see how u are one on one. Except the person wears hijab and covers up everywhere except the eyes?

Kennyprince:
And it so happened that I met this lady on Facebook somtime ago, her name is Taiwo. So after months of chatting and getting to know each other, we had decided that we ll meet somewhere in Lagos.

I first reached the place of meeting ahead of her and was waiting for couple of minutes before her call came, announcing for her arrival. Sure, my expectation and curiosity to meet her became more obvious at this point.


But when I came down the road where she was standing, behold I saw the unimaginable: she is old, far far older I mean, pretty ugly, shabbily dressed and with a child, who on questioning, she told me is her son!

I took her to an eatery, with a strong mind, and asked her to wait for me while I go make some arrangements for her stay; giving her 2k in case she ll need to buy anything.

Down within me I knew it wasn't going to work cos i didnt like anything about her and so instead instead of keeping her waiting, I sent her this text and she called and was insulting me and my generation.

Was I that harsh and rude to her, shd I ve pretended.

Pls your comments

VolTOxic:
Dude you did the right thing. You don't like her - you don't. No pretending. Though I believe as a Man, you should had said it to her face. And not via text.

Kennyprince:
Hehehehe, u can be so so funny though, but yet interesting..... Postponed rejection or not, it ll come and when it comes, it ll be devastating

Kennyprince:
hehehehe, bro I think na this one bad pass

crunchyDope:
@op she is "pretty ugly"
wait wer d fvck is my English teacher? dat b!tch b craxy

zulex880:
Click like if you think OP is a fool click share if you think he's a Goat click like and share if you think he's both

muller101:
One ugly albino traveled from benue state to visit my friend in Calabar. We got to peace mass garrage . When he called to confirm the expected damsel we discovered that it's the albino.na so we jump enter car drive go house leaving the damsel in distress to her fate. op u even tried to pay her off.

muller101:
One ugly albino traveled from benue state to visit my friend in Calabar. We got to peace mass garrage . When he called to confirm the expected damsel we discovered that it's the albino.na so we jump enter car drive go house leaving the damsel in distress to her fate. op u even tried to pay her off.