Adaumunocha:
Human beings and greed... Wonder why your dad did not buy d truck in Nigeria.

Men should involve their wives in their businesses so they can take it up if anything should happen to them. Wish your dad had given your mum the documents.

Mustiboy:
what's there to ship when she didn't buy it?

free2ryhme:



Abeg leave os out of your lies

Both families are complications

stop disturbing us with the already bad economy

alexistaiwo:
Let me ask you a simple question.
If the role was to be reversed and it happened to be your dad owing his boss wife N3m.

Will you pay the money after the demise of your dad?
Your answer to the question will guide you through.

Mustiboy:
the said truck is not in Nigeria, but Ireland. And this woman didn't buy any truck, she's just lying. she only said that because she wanted to buy herself more time

Mustiboy:
the said truck is not in Nigeria, but Ireland. And this woman didn't buy any truck, she's just lying. she only said that because she wanted to buy herself more time

Adaumunocha:
Human beings and greed... Wonder why your dad did not buy d truck in Nigeria.

Men should involve their wives in their businesses so they can take it up if anything should happen to them. Wish your dad had given your mum the documents.

Mustiboy:
it's not only the truck. They're other things like land, houses that my dad rented out. But the truck is the priority now. My dad also did a fixed deposit for each of his children. The documents to all these I'm sure is with the lawyer. God knows I'm trying not to hate him. And I can't blame him cause if my dad had made everything known to his family, we wouldn't be in this mess.

Mustiboy:
Advice Needed Please. Help

Good morning nairalanders. I've brought a family issue which has been causing chaos and most likely will cause mayhem because great lacerations are now being involved.

My dad worked in a law firm and also had a truck that he employed an old man to handle and he paid him monthly. The truck was used in carrying commodities for people within Lagos state. The business was booming well and my dad immediately paid money to his boss's wife whom lives in Dublin with her children to get another in order to make it 2. My dad's boss is a lawyer and the legal procedures were made in order to get this vehicle down to Nigeria. The vehicle is over about 3million.

Unfortunately, the old man my dad employed had an accident with the truck and destroyed lots of properties and many people were injured. To cap it all, one person died. This stupid old man would have spent the rest of his life in jail or even sentenced to death but my dad did everything he could to get him out. The vehicle was in the police custody and it was virtually beyond repair.

My dad had no interest in this business anymore. And mind you, my dad's boss's wife hadn't bought this vehicle, as she only had the money with her. Why my dad didn't collect the money back immediately is what I can't comprehend.

Later that year, my dad got sick and passed on the following year. We called this woman after a year and she said she has bought the vehicle and she's gonna have to sell it in order to refund the money. I'm sure she's lying cause she never bought it when my dad was alive so, why would she buy it now? Of what use is it?

She and her husband, my dad's boss, were very close friends of my dad and I see no reason why they should suddenly possess such greedy trait. Even my uncles who sold my dad's personal car and used the money for themselves are not saying anything about the matter.

My mother called the husband last month and he sent 50,000 saying we should manage it that the vehicle money would come out very soon. I told my mother not to collect the money but she did because she was badly in need of money. These people are rich, so why is 3m something hard to sort out.

My mum had been calling the man making threats and I told her to calm that we can't fight them because we don't have the documents to show the transactions of the money between my dad and his boss's wife. I'm sure my dad's boss has it because my dad lived with him. Immediately my dad died, all his things in his room had been moved out by this lawyer.


Please, what do you suggest we do in a situation like this?

Fxwarrior:


Don't go there without knowing the extent of their lives.

Mustiboy:
he worked in jebba street in Lagos and our house is in Badagry. u dig? besides, they were childhood friends from what I heard, just that he was older than my dad

Adaumunocha:
Human beings and greed... Wonder why your dad did not buy d truck in Nigeria.

Men should involve their wives in their businesses so they can take it up if anything should happen to them. Wish your dad had given your mum the documents.

Mmaxix:
Ayam not understanding. Why was your dad living with his boss and not his family? Did he not confide in his family about his businesses? Too many unclear areas.

Agbaletu:

It is very important to avoid issues like this.

kimbraa:
When next you call the man or his wife to know their plans for the money or the truck, make sure you record the conversation for legal proceedings. That's, if it ever gets to that.

Your mum should stop collecting peanuts from them 'cause she's in need. What's 50k when we're talking of 3M? The rich know how to oppress the poor, and to think the man is a lawyer who should be upholding the law makes this story a pathetic one.

They have the money but don't want to give 'cause your dad is dead without any written agreement of the deal in his children's possession. Since she claimed she has bought the vehicle but looking for a buyer, ask her to send it down.

SmartyPants:


If you have evidence of such a conversation, that is enough proof that she does have your father's money. The Court can forcefully bring forth other sources of proof by commanding certain records to be brought forth from the banks, etc.

Mustiboy:
my mum's next conversation with them is sure going to be recorded, even without her knowing.
I'll just place the call on to them and give her the phone to speak with them. that, I promise.