Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

politely tell her

Tell her you have a girlfriend.

Tell her straight you not attracted to her. Finish.

Op u no eat nkonomi, no say i no advice u in time oh

MaritzaNL:
Tell her you have a girlfriend.

It might not put her off since they all know his girlfriend is most likely not in the state.

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I just hate it when things like this happen and we can't be straight with people, look them in the face and tell them what we don't like and make them know how they make us uncomfortable. We always don't want to disappoint them or make them feel offended/rejected which makes us lie about the truth because we feel there should be a genuine or a justifiable reason for our actions.


I just wonder if this happens to almost everyone in the universe or it's just an African or a Nigerian thing.

QuietHammer:

Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Cc: lalasticlala. I don't know if this should be here or in the Foods section.

Man up and tell her what you want. If she is serving you the food because she wants a relationship and not just be friends, then that food will choke you one day.

i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

stupidity:
Its time you start chopping the real food. Tell her to serve the pvssy on clean broken plate with fwesh juice.

Unfortunately I'm not attracted to her

Maybe you should tell her that you don't like her spending money buying foodstuffs cooking and be bringing for you.that she should save some money for her upkeep too.

SuperSuave:
It might not put her off since they all know his girlfriend is most likely not in the state.

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I just hate it when things like this happen and we can't be straight with people, look them in the face and tell them what we don't like and make them know how they make us uncomfortable. We always don't want to disappoint them or make them feel offended/rejected which makes us lie about the truth because we feel there should be a genuine or a justifiable reason for our actions.


I just wonder if this happens to almost everyone in the universe or it's just an African or a Nigerian thing.

Exactly bro. There is this awkwardness I just feel

SuperSuave:
It might not put her off since they all know his girlfriend is most likely not in the state.

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I just hate it when things like this happen and we can't be straight with people, look them in the face and tell them what we don't like and make them know how they make us uncomfortable. We always don't want to disappoint them or make them feel offended/rejected which makes us lie about the truth because we feel there should be a genuine or a justifiable reason for our actions.


I just wonder if this happens to almost everyone in the universe or it's just an African or a Nigerian thing.

Exactly.

Pelle pelle ooh... Just be careful sha

nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

MaritzaNL:
Tell her you have a girlfriend.

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

QuietHammer:

Unfortunately I'm not attracted to her

chop the damn pvssy and forget about attraction. Dafuqz wrong with you nighaz?? nor lemme call you Odoyor!!!

rebirthforgoody:
Maybe you should tell her that you don't like her spending money buying foodstuffs cooking and be bringing for you.that she should save some money for her upkeep too.

I'll try this. Thanks.

stupidity:
chop the damn pvssy and forget about attraction. Dafuqz wrong with you nighaz?? nor lemme call you Odoyor!!!

My man, cases like this are sensitive.

QuietHammer:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

You sef ehn. Be finding excuses for her and nit tell her straight. It's like you are enjoying it stylishly sef.

QuietHammer:

I'll try this. Thanks.

Ok uwc.

Horlohlah:
You sef ehn. Be finding excuses for her and nit tell her straight. It's like you are enjoying it stylishly sef.

I'm not.

QuietHammer:

I'm not.

Then tell her upfront. You can't keep displeasing yourself to please someone else.

The food sweet or not?
I guess it's the later....
Guys no dey reject food anyhow...


Anyways, tell her you appreciate her thoughtfulness and kindness, but for reasons best known to you, you prefer she stops bringing you food. Assure her that if you ever get hungry, you'll go to her place for a meal.

nelson7777:


i spoke to my gf about u, and she really appreciates d fact dat u take care of me, in her absence, and she wnts us to continue being friends on 1 condition, dat u stop bringing me food...

QuietHammer post=61326995:

She knows I don't have one. I know she'll feel very bad if I tell her to stop. She does it with a passion.

if i tell u to change evrytin i said abt ur gf to ur mum/dad said,, it will nt mk u sound manly, it will luk like u still a child n cnt mk ur own decisions......
my guy, as a man u hv ur own morals, principles n ur way of life, dat wats differentiate u 4rm other men, even though it might nt b a good one, but it is urs,u dnt evn hv to explain dat to any1,
tell her babe, i really like u as a friend, u r smart, u r industrious, u r independent, u reason well 4 a lady, most importantly u hv a good heart, i wud really like to continue being ur friend, bt there is somtin u hv to do 4 me if u wnt us to continue being friends,, pls i wud like 4 u to stop bringing me food,,, is wat i wnt, n am hoping 4 u to respect dat...

stupidity:
chop the damn pvssy and forget about attraction. Dafuqz wrong with you nighaz?? nor lemme call you Odoyor!!!

man said he's not HOT man can never be HOT

jashar:
The food sweet or not?
I guess it's the later....
Guys no dey reject food anyhow...


Anyways, tell her you appreciate her thoughtfulness and kindness, but for reasons best known to you, you prefer she stops bringing you food. Assure her that if you ever get hungry, you'll go to her place for a meal.

When giving a gift the quality of the content doesn't really matter. It's the thought itself that count. People may begin to think we are dating. This rumor could jeopardize my plans.

nelson7777:
if i tell u to change evrytin i said abt ur gf to ur mum/dad said,, it will nt mk u sound manly, it will luk like u still a child n cnt mk ur own decisions......
my guy, as a man u hv ur own morals, principles n ur way of life, dat wats differentiate u 4rm other men, even though it might nt b a good one, but it is urs,u dnt evn hv to explain dat to any1,
tell her babe, i really like u as a friend, u r smart, u r industrious, u r independent, u reason well 4 a lady, most importantly u hv a good heart, i wud really like to continue being ur friend, bt there is somtin u hv to do 4 me if u wnt us to continue being friends,, pls i wud like 4 u to stop bringing me food,,, is wat i wnt, n am hoping 4 u to respect dat...

Thanks

QuietHammer:
When giving a gift the quality of the content doesn't really matter. It's the thought itself that count. People may begin to think we are dating. This rumor could jeopardize my plans.

Guy, leave story. That's why I added the 2nd paragraph anyway ...

Tell her you are fasting

QuietHammer:

Good evening. I'm a corp member serving in a school and I stay in the lodge provided by the school together with some other female corpers.
Now here lies my problem ; there is this particular female corper who keeps bringing me food randomly.
I know she'll feel bad if I tell her to stop it, I'll also feel bad if I throw the food out after receiving it from her, pretending that I really appreciate her bringing me food for no reason. How can I make her stop?

Cc: lalasticlala. I don't know if this should be here or in the Foods section.

tell Me The Truth. She No Fine Abi

QuietHammer:
When giving a gift the quality of the content doesn't really matter. It's the thought itself that count. People may begin to think we are dating. This rumor could jeopardize my plans.

your Plans Abi. You Got Babe you Are Eyeing abi

DeadRat:
your Plans Abi. You Got Babe you Are Eyeing abi

Exactly