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My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:24am On Oct 12, 2017 |
So I met this guy 8yrs ago on twitter, we connected instantly and before we knew it we were in hot love. Like most relationships, ours had its ups and downs. We later broke up for a while and both moved to Canada individually about 3years ago, somehow he reached out to me, we met up and rekindled our relationship (all the while we were dating he had a GF) perhaps this is the place where I tell you all we are both guys. He's always telling me how much he loves me and how he's not sure he can live with the pain if we ever break up again and heaven knows, I love this guy too so much. Fast forward to September 2017 (Last month) I found out he was getting married to his long time gf not even directly from him, I was in his house and his friends were talking about aso ebi. Then they asked me if I would come to Lagos for the wedding. I was shocked because I didn't expect someone I call my bf to have made such plans behind my back. I didn't even know he had proposed to the girl. and I wasn't devastated because I had always expected it. I didn't confront him about it, I never brought it up with him at all. Maybe he got tired of it all and decided to officially tell me by saying "Oga, I'm getting married next month in case you haven't noticed". Just like that, out of the blues. In all of this I was calm because I had always expected it, I just thought I'd be given at least 6 months notice to get my sh*t together He's getting married on Saturday and still called me yesterday to say he misses me. When the was talking all I could think of was his wife and how we were disrespecting her. (Ps: I don't know her) Now I know I'm being selfish because last last I will marry a girl too, it's just I once told him we're out of Naija we can bullshit everyone's opinion and fucking get married in Canada no-one has to come so far we're happy but no, he's doing it for his family he says, I'm the first born he says. Ultimately I wish him a happy married life and I've concluded staying away from him and his marriage even though I know it'll cause me pain and that's not what he wants but I have to respect myself and not end up being the Bob risky in his life. He has told me he'll call off the wedding if I ask him to, but I know that's not what he wants. A friend even advised me to go for the wedding that it might help make things easier if I get to see his "wife" but I can't help feeling I'll stand up when they ask who doesn't want these two to be together. He still thinks things can be like they were even after his wedding and a part of me wants that as well, but I know our bread can never be toast again. What can I do? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:29am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Hollup! Are they gay ni? Dude better whaka straight go look for a lady to marry. Your friend just fulfilled his social obligation to avoid d wrath of d society in which he came out of. 10 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:30am On Oct 12, 2017 |
I Cant believe I Read A Damn Gay Story... All I Can Say Is "You Are Insane"... You Need Jesus. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by AlexCk: 8:31am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Move on. Date a freaking female too. Honestly dunno how u peeps engage in same-sex affairs. The thought of it sef is yuck. Anyways, like i initially pointed out, move on bruh |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:31am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:hope You Know He Is Gay 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:32am On Oct 12, 2017 |
DeadRat:Hush... Don't b that way. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:33am On Oct 12, 2017 |
DeadRat:Now I know 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Blackhawk01: 8:33am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: You definitely didn't read the content. I had my bowl of curses to rain the moment I saw the topic but the content weak me. ![]() ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:34am On Oct 12, 2017 |
8 yrs and he left u? He's an endtime boyfriend |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Marrtynze(m): 8:35am On Oct 12, 2017 |
U cannot come and ruin this beautiful day for me with this bullshit story, gay rubbish 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:36am On Oct 12, 2017 |
You are a good girl If it were some lady their will eventually pour acid on the guy But some men and their pattern of living sha Op just use my mail for more insight and thank me in advance |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:36am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:I've modified my comment. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:36am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:any Thing Gay is Gross |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:37am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar:Read dude read! 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:37am On Oct 12, 2017 |
DeadRat:Ok |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by festwiz(m): 8:41am On Oct 12, 2017 |
In all, it's the lady that suffers...marrying a gay dude...OP your story weak me sha 1 Like
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Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by DanseMacabre(m): 8:41am On Oct 12, 2017 |
So were you digging his ass or was your ass being dug? If it's the former, then look for another hole. However if it's the latter, then the only one I feel really sorry for in this sordid tale is your ass. Eight years is a helluva long time bro. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by elantraceey(f): 8:44am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Some comments here is a clear indication that people don't read contents before giving their opinion lol. ![]() @the op I have no idea of what to say to you. 10 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:I read bitch I read! What are trying to insinuate this morning dear |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 8:47am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar:Hollup! The B word? Dude really? You read the epistle of the op and you did not deduce it to be a gay affair? 6 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by DanseMacabre(m): 8:47am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar: You didn't read shiit dude. ![]() 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Jumbus31(m): 8:50am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Congratulations, you won the most stupid post of this week. You are doing great bro. Keep it up |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by OliveCynosure(f): 8:51am On Oct 12, 2017 |
This one weak me o Smh |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 8:52am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar:you can lie for Africa... still doing strong head on top lie... u be real Oga Linus... chai! 10 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Legendaryarcher(f): 8:53am On Oct 12, 2017 |
What the fvck, ur a gay!!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Jumbus31(m): 8:57am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar:Go back to that story and read once more. Read it gently this time around and come to modify this your comment. |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by bonnez(m): 8:58am On Oct 12, 2017 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 9:20am On Oct 12, 2017 |
loneatar: I'm sorry, I don't understand you |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 9:21am On Oct 12, 2017 |
Jumbus31:Thanks a lot bro, really appreciate the kind gesture 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 9:22am On Oct 12, 2017 |
JohnIbori:Are u related to Ibori ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Nobody: 9:22am On Oct 12, 2017 |
DanseMacabre: It was more of a mutual digging. Ps: I already have several holes waiting in line. This one is just different because we had a strong emotional connection |
Re: My Boyfriend Of 8years Is Getting Married On Saturday To Another Person by Adaumunocha(f): 9:23am On Oct 12, 2017 |
doctorkush:Lolzzz... Don't mind d guy |
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