beyedew,
congratulations on the birth of your baby. You really overcame. May God bless you and yours always and may your baby bring you endless joy all the days of his life, amen.

Happy Birthday madam ahnie. Wish you more fruitful years ahead.

Beyedew, well done girl.
Your BS brought goosebumps and tears.
I can't imagine the pain you went through but I pray and hope that boy and his siblings always make you happy and proud.
Rest well Nwannem.
Pele

[quote author=beyedew post=61378899]BS!

Starting from when the kpekus that resulted to this pregnancy, this preggy has been eventful. From threatened miscarriage, to me resigning from work, to experiencing heartbreaking weakness (someone that was very agile), to mood swings, to having malaria, upper respiratory tract infection, typhoid and hepatitis all at once, to wasting money going for scans all to know the sex of my yellow pawpaw and the boy no just wan respect em self, to having vericose veins, although my gynea said it was bad (em dey tell em self), to having correct boils everywhere for body,  even inside my trust bank, to having akpu behind, to being depressed, to developing hbp towards the end. My sisters, I saw it all. But in all, I give glory to God.
 After waiting and wasting money going for scans, I decided not to go again, during my 1st baby's time, my bag was already packed at 5months, but in this my bun, at 37 weeks and 4days, I just got essential things that wasn't dependent on the sex of lo. October 6th saw me going to the market to get essential things, after all my waka, I just decided to pity the bun and go check in another scan center to see if I can have a positive result about its sex. Can you believe that this dude was still hiding oo, I asked the sonographer how big em kini dey cos me no just understand, he said "madam, don't worry, he will perform well when the time comes". I use fear and faith together believe am. During the scan, the guy just gave me a heartbreaking news, my baby was heads down but facing up, that was all he said. I got scared, he also changed my edd to 18th instead of 24th. I took the result to my gynea and he asked me to go do a repeat scan downstairs, I rushed down, all the energy I didn't have before came flowing. After the scan, I took my result to my gynea and it was same. My amniotic fluid was reduced, baby's biophysical profile was 8 as against 10, baby was heads down but facing up. I got weak and started crying, called my dh, he ran down to the hospital, we both went in to see the Dr, he gave us till 10th of Oct, that if labour hadn't started by then, that we should come so that I would be induced. Choi, I called all the medical practioners in my home and they all encouraged me and told me to keep an open mind cos if induction fails, na cs pere! O Christ in heaven. I prayed and I prayed. I chatted mommy Zaynie up (God bless you a hundred fold), told her I needed items for baby boys and I told her how urgent it was. Unfortunately, new born baby boy stuffs weren't available (mamas una try, una no even say make una remain for me), she then offered to help me go to the market and get stuffs from the market for me, but unfortunately, my dh said no, I owe her a lot for even suggesting. Meanwhile, I was ordered to rest seeing as I was probably leaking fluid and my gynea suspected that maybe my placenta was older than it should be. 7th of Oct, I called my bestie, she came around, told her to get me few baby boy's stuffs, I planned using my 1st baby's stuff that I hadn't given out too. Thanks to God she got good stuffs too. I washed everything I needed, packed my bags and then 10th of October, I was off to the hospital with my dh. We got there and my bp was checked, I was in the clear, no real contraction yet, just all the kweke kweke ones. My Gynae asked a nurse to go check me (can't remember what he called it sef, cervical wtv), she did and I was asked to lie down for 30mins before wearing my trouser (yes ooo, I was determined to slay while in the labour room mbok even though I get plenty vericose vein, but na when you open the cloth you go see am na! Atleast I didn't paint my face ni, so I tried.), after all had been done, I was informed that a room had been set up for me. I went there and I slept for a long time, amidst contraction that wasn't really all that painful. Around 6pm, I rang for a nurse that I needed to poop and the nurse came and said she needed to check me, I told her that I was sure it was baby that was doing me but better shi.t, still she insisted, so I allowed her now, shebi na she I go blast with poop abi, after checking, I asked her how many cm I was and she said I just started that I was just 2cm gone, choi, I weak. I sha went and pooped my thing. By then my dh had gone cos he was called for something important, so I called him and informed him about what the nurse said, he came back and stayed with me, we were just gisting normal gist. Shortly after, a nurse was sent to come check on me and also to ask me to come down which I did. Na there problem start. They used one instrument like that to check for baby's heartbeat and they couldn't find it. Eh!!! 3nurses checked but couldnt find it, my Gynae was alerted and he got into the room, he used same thing to check, went round the delivery table checking for baby's heartbeat, nothing! Hieee, I popped on myself. My Gynae ran to his office and got one portable stuff like that (I don't know the name and it was the least of my problems), poured that liquid stuff that sonographers usually pour on someone's stomach before carrying out a scan, and he started searching for baby's heartbeat. After a while, it was found but it wasn't as strong as it should be. Once I start contracting, the heartbeat would reduce, then pick up after each contraction. Baby's heartbeat was reading 92 as against the normal 140 (+/- 20). He then told I and my dh that he needed to carry out cs and he needed to carry it out ASAP. Immediately I heard cs, my bp started rising. By then my mil don show. I started crying, when my dh saw that I was crying, him too started, imagine person wey suppose dey console me, I leave my own cry come dey console am, later him go dey form jagaban! My dh asked my gynea if we could discuss and he gave the go ahead and told us to come see him in his office after our discussion. By then, momsy was already calling all the pastors that she could. Unknown to us, baby's heartbeat was dropping more and more. After our village meeting, I and my dh went to see the Dr and he told me that really soo many things were wrong with the baby (God forbid), not me. My fil called him and he told him same thing that if we wanted a life baby that we needed to carry out cs and we needed it ASAP cos he said I was just 2cm gone and there was no guarantee that baby would stay put all through the period of labour. My dh looked at me and said "baby, make the decision", and I said to the "Dr, please bring out my baby". We got to the theater and when Dr checked baby's heartbeat, it had dropped further, O Christ, then the nightmare started. Dr said he wouldn't be able to give me general anesthesia or even that one that would know me off from my stomach below cos it might affect my baby. Then he asked me if he should go ahead and give me the general one or just local one while I bear the pain. My mil screamed and said Dr please give her the general one please, but I told my Dr that I had suffered too much on this preggy to not go home with my baby, dude bring it on, motherhood is divine. He started administering the local anesthesia, chooking me needles everywhere, I was given 40mls of the local anesthesia (and I fear needles like mad), my 2 hands and legs were bound and the procedure started. 1st layer, I didn't feel any pain, didn't even know when I was cut, then 2nd layer, the painful biatch started, O Jesus, it was hell. My dh who promised to be with me in sickness and in health ran away. My mil was holding my head and her tears were falling down my face while speaking in tongues (she sabi now, me no sabi speak kpam), my sisters, it was hell. When my gynea got to the 4th layer, I thought I was going to die, my only hope was the fact that I was going home with a living child mind you amidst all this, I was still feeling contractions. I started chanting "Overcame" by Ada. When he said he wanted to bring out my baby and he tried bringing it out, the kind shout wey I shout ehhh, he told a nurse to please knock me out, that I had tried. I was knocked out but made to understand that I was still chanting my "Overcame", I know I was chanting it while in ulala land but didn't know I was chanting it in real life. I also heard the cry of my baby while in ulala land, it was very weak. They said Baby had already pooped inside my stomach and had some poop on his mouth. He was quickly cleaned up and hooked to an oxygen tank although for few minutes (he weighed 3kg). After I was stitched, I was allowed to sleep in the theater for good 2hours before I was wheeled to my room with everyone still in attendance. My Gynae ordered that I should be given the best room in the hospital cos I deserved it. I really OVERCAME. We are still at the hospital and I'm recovering very fast. I OVERCAME. I don't know how long it will take but ima get my flat tummy back (yea, I'm vain like that). I don't and won't wish my enemy the experience I had. It wasn't easy at all.


seriously don't knw wat to say bt in al we TankGod for his gift nd u overcoming. God is faithful

congrats beyedew. thank God for this testimony. pls can any Igbo mum or mum who knows the song give me the correct wordingz of diz song? IBU Chukwu Ibu .........madu. I dunno if it is IBU GI or IBU di .pls don't read and pass

keeki:
. pls can any Igbo mum or mum who knows the song give me the correct wordingz of diz song? IBU Chukwu Ibu .........madu. I dunno if it is IBU GI or IBU di .pls don't read and pass

I bụghị mmadụ

Beyedew.

I thank God. I have mixed feelings. That's how my friend who gave birth recently had placenta burst in her tummy. pikin shit tire for belle come dey swallow the thing sef. It is well. They are both fine.
I'm thankful for you two, really.
I almost missed this news.

Congratulations my sister.

Prettyhurts:

I bụghị mmadụ

thank u ma

Congratulations Beyedew, you really are an overcomer. May God keep you and your lo

Gud day to all mamas who congratulated me on the arrival of my son and congrats to those that hv birthed their lo, those dt hv left ttc thread with a bfp. Vigilante is real, plenty pages to catch up........... B.S. Remember i told the house about my preterm labour on 1st Sept. Jehovah saw me thro. Fast forward to 4th Oct went for ANC checked and ws asked to cm bk on 11th Oct my next appointment. The next day 5th oct went for another ANC i registered in two places a health center operated by Shell and the 2nd is at home run by a midwife. So whn it ws my turn she checked and said i'm in labour already 2cm. I told her tht am nt feeling any sign of labour she said its called dry labour dt d pains will increase gradually dt i will deliver the next day afternoon. I called dh to cm bk home whr he hs gone2 luk4 our daily bread. Dh cm nd i told him. He said ok once is 9pm i shld start going2 the Shell health center cos am on insurance scheme there. By 9pm still no sign of labour took my bath and went to the clinic. Two nurses were on duty, i also met two mothers who hv birthed their lo. I ws checked already 5cm. Then i started feeling d pains at dsame time feeling sleepy, so i laid on d bed to sleep and my son said ok lets sleep together. D contraction stopped and we slept, the nurses too hv gone2 sleep. By 3am d mothers in d ward said madam ur nt suppose to sleep go nd tk a walk using d corridors since everywhr is locked. I stood up ws walking the corridor from beginning to d end, end2 beginning. The contraction became stronger by 5am ws 8cm and d nurse ruptured my membrane. By 7am i ws on fire d contraction ws so strong dat i ws feeling d urge2 pool. Ws tkn2 labour room nd asked to push with d next contraction. I push whn d next contraction came did again but they said am nt progressing tht infact i've gotten a tear from the cervis dat d cervis is down so i shld nt push again bt endure d pains dt comes with each contraction. Una knw say cervis dey dwn una say mk i push, ws tlking in my mind o, I saw hell, they asked me to lye on my left. Dat ws my positioned and d contraction ws hitting me with my son forcing his way too. Finally i felt the head of my baby i scream dat am feeling d head dey asked to nw lye on bk nd push, with 3 pushes my lovely son cm out. I ws filled with smiles. PART TWO LOADING

@Beyedew, Congrats to you and indeed our God is good.

@Ahine, Happy birthday and wish you all the very best in life and more.

@beyedew; Congratulations ma,Our God is a faithful God,a covenant keeping God...God bless your son & rest well you deserve the best.

Please mamas..just a suggestion..long posts and birthstories should not be quoted..rather mention the person's moniker and write your comment..quoting long posts makes the thread unusually long..and we are preggie mamas..reading through so many pages aint easy..just a suggestion o..no pun intended

Beyedew..i read through your B.S and had goosebumps..cant even imagine the pain you went through..you are one strong woman

You Overcame..You Conquered..

Wow..... Beyedew See me reading ur BS with tears in my eyes, Our God is indeed faithful thank God it needed in praise, the lord will strengthen u infarct am giving our yellow pawpaw Overcomer, divine, grace.

Welcome back Hafsat24; happy bumping to ur son. Congrats Mahoti, God bless ur LO. Happy vigilante.
Mummy Bee @ Beyedew thank God for u n baby's lives. May u continue to overcome. Wishing u a speedy recovery. Motherhood just brings out d strength u never knew u had; whenever I read that any mama on the thread had CS, I used to shiver inside say heeh, this thing wl be vry painful o "since I had never had any kind of surgical procedure done in my life but when they told DH n I that baby wld have to be brought out thru CS as blood was pouring like waterfall out of me cos of placenta previa, I didn't even remember to fear or think twice when I told them to bring my baby out. Even while lying on d surgical table n I was asked to pray before I was knocked out I was vry calm, jst focused on d goal...my live n healthy baby. I actually told DH to let's do it in the morning against later in the evening suggested by d Doc. The Doc wanted to wait some hrs n administer a second dose of steroid to mature baby's lung (she was 35wks) so she wldnt require NICU stay but I told DH we had to keep FAITH that our baby wld be fine n be able to breathe on her own without any assistance. All I could think abt was my baby cos I knew every second counts. N thank God she Ws perfectly healthy with no need for any incubator or anything. We went home 2 days later. may God reward our labor of love n make these children the coolness of our eyes. E nor easy rara
Proudmom38 rest well n take good care of urself. Proudy's sibling(s) are on d way already by God's grace
Congrats Stephaniecoa, welcome. This joy shall be permanent inshaAllaah. Jst when u thought u were going to take a break before trying again, God did it He's wonderful. N YES, U defeated PCOS!

Ma'am Beyedew, so Imran got a birthday mate, THANCHU plenty for our yellow pawpaw prince

PART TWO
Like i said i tot dt ws d end did'nt knw dey hv messed up jaijaina. D next thing i heard ws nurse who actually handled my delivery telling d other dt she cant suture d cervix, dt if its ordinary vj tear is different. D other nurse said she too cant she shld call d doctor on duty, they hv residential doctor. I ws weak, dey were cleaning my blood, i ws jst praying it shld nt lead to excessive bleeding. They gv me injection to control bleeding and drip for energy. The nurse dt went2 call d doctor cm and i asked her whr is d doc, she said d doc asked her2go nd suture d cervix, a task she hs acknowledged is above her. Na only me waka come for my mind o. Dt ws hw she brought out instrument nd ws askn me2 assist her2 hold scissors nd drag it up whn she hook the thread. Wetin i go do nw i obeyed na life i dey find, d other nurse don kuku vamoose from d labour room after cleaning up my son. By nw dh ws around he entered d labour room saw nd ws almost in tears bt she asked him2 leave. Just then d doc cm in wore his hand glove asked her2 go bring theater light dat she cant inside the cervix with just normal light. I said nawa o dis nurse 4do any hw work for my mind o. The light cm and doc ws directing nd guiding her on wht to do, he told her while his doing dt is for future occurrence, she shld be able2 handle d situation without a doc presence. After d first stitch, dey entered d second and then d third one been d last. Na so i still thank the doc for coming cos dont knw d kind of work she would hv done. I thanked her too cos she pack my pool no be small. In all I give Jehovah God the praise.
Pls bear with my spelling errors.
BS Submitted.
Cc: Pweetiebabe.

curvilicious:


When you look finis lemne know

Lol! I don look well well. Now I understand well well

Singing "Onise iyanu, you are God of awesome wonder..... I've tasted of your power. Onise iyanu, you have shown me so much mercy, much more than I deserve.....

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[quote author=Anistef post=61383138][/quote] congratulations sis

October mamas una well done o
Your BS are.......
Thank God it all ended in praise
No loss in Jesus name. Amen

keeki:
congrats beyedew. thank God for this testimony. pls can any Igbo mum or mum who knows the song give me the correct wordingz of diz song? IBU Chukwu Ibu .........madu. I dunno if it is IBU GI or IBU di .pls don't read and pass

IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu 2*
onye na eme nma IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu.
Onye na enye udo IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu...

Sis Beyedew, dix ur testimony got me crying. Thank God my godpikin is fine.
my card finished while I was talking with you, plz sama me ur address, u re d reason why am still in d East.

Benignasweety:
IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu 2*
onye na eme nma IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu.
Onye na enye udo IBU Chukwu ibughi mmadu...

Sis Beyedew, dix ur testimony got me crying. Thank God my godpikin is fine.
my card finished while I was talking with you, plz sama me ur address, u re d reason why am still in d East.

I still owe ur baby

Thamks UmmTwins2.. hows my cute imran and his sis Iman..my kisses to them

angeltolly..your baby is cute for days*lovestruck* may he continue to be the coolness of your eyes..we thank God for being victorious..yes that blood taking for jaundice can be traumatic..i remember with my first i was always crying..eventually i stopped going to the hospital and my sis inlaw who's in the medical profession prescribed drugs for us to use..like magic in 3days everything had cleared

Congratulations angeltolly and heroinqc.
All praise and adoration belongs to Almighty God.
Only God can do what no man can do.

Beyedew, heroinqc and Angeltolly BS seen, thank God for the journey so far and that it ended in praise.

Anugod and Goldenheart002 u can see my teamie ready dropping d BS o...

Good evening beautiful mothers! Came in earlier to update the house about how my evacuation went but couldn't after reading beyedew's BS. Ma'am beyedew, your bs brought tears to my eyes, dh was like baby what is it, I was just short of words!

No woman deserves to go through that kind of pains even if na criminal

But glory be to the most high God cause you truly OVERCAME!

May your children bring you nothing but joy!

Congratulations once again. ...

Lovely BS teamies
May God perfect what he has started in your life..

Piiko:
I still owe ur baby

Are u still in d East bro?

God bless you all real good. Stay healthy
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Proudmom38, it is well, the Lord will make all things beautiful in his time. You would be back sooner than you expect. My love to proudy

Congrats to mums that just delivered. God bless your babies.
Beyedew... I can't start to imagine what you went through my dear. Kai... It is well. Congrats, no be small thing at all

kelizosuy:
The thing is I don't want to use that hospital.. I plan on using okeyinmi but they told me to come on Tuesday what if I fall into labor after the cytotec and they find it in my body?

It dissolves so there isn't anyway they would see it in your body...

Go back to the doc and let him aid our Adele to come forth!